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Wow...
I'm new here, and on the other side of the world, but I'm with you, every step of the way. Hugs don't send well over the internet, but...*HUG*
My views so far are:
Ask yourself: Do you want this? What he wants after what he put you through is completely insignificant. If you choose to contact him again, choose to do so for you, and make sure you do it on your terms. Also ask yourself: Are you ready to deal with your issues now, or do you think it would be better for you to wait until you are more emotionally and financially stable? Again, this is about you. He can wait until you're damn well ready.
Do WHATEVER is necessary for you to feel better. Therapy, medication, joining one of those weird New Age groups that meets on hilltops and howls at the moon... do it! This will mean prescription anti-depressants at some point. Going on them is a huge step, but if they make you feel better, you will feel better, and if they don't work, just tell your doctor you don't want them any more.
Remember that blood is thicker than water, but so is toothpaste. You have no obligations in this matter, do anything and everything you choose to do for you and you alone.
I'm new here, and on the other side of the world, but I'm with you, every step of the way. Hugs don't send well over the internet, but...*HUG*
My views so far are:
Ask yourself: Do you want this? What he wants after what he put you through is completely insignificant. If you choose to contact him again, choose to do so for you, and make sure you do it on your terms. Also ask yourself: Are you ready to deal with your issues now, or do you think it would be better for you to wait until you are more emotionally and financially stable? Again, this is about you. He can wait until you're damn well ready.
Do WHATEVER is necessary for you to feel better. Therapy, medication, joining one of those weird New Age groups that meets on hilltops and howls at the moon... do it! This will mean prescription anti-depressants at some point. Going on them is a huge step, but if they make you feel better, you will feel better, and if they don't work, just tell your doctor you don't want them any more.
Remember that blood is thicker than water, but so is toothpaste. You have no obligations in this matter, do anything and everything you choose to do for you and you alone.
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