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  • Advice Please! Stinky Boss

    I'm not good with talking to people so I'll get straight to the point.
    There's been 2 big things weighing on my mind lately, and I would really love to hear some advice from you guys. I'm splitting it into two posts cos this one's kinda long

    First of all, about my boss (sorta).
    Background: I left my job at the video store mid last year, cos I had something else lined up and had to quit that to be able to start the other because of a time problem. Long story short, the other thing didn't work out. And I'd already been replaced. So I started looking for full-time work somewheres. ... About a month ago now, my old boss gave me a call saying that one of their fulltimers was quitting but head office wasn't letting them replace him with another fulltimer. So he needed someone to fill in the occasional closing and opening shift. I said sure. I knew closings already, but had not been trained on openings when I was there before.

    So. I go in for my first shift, a close on my own, fine. My boss's shift finished just as I got there so he stayed a couple minutes and went through some things with me and etc. He said he wanted me to come in that Saturday morning for an hour, learn to do opening, and then do the Sunday morning shift all by myself.
    Gobsmacked is about the closest I can get to describing what I felt. It took about a dozen times going through closing before they would let me even TRY to close, WITH someone watching over my shoulder! I am not doing an opening entirely on my own after ONE runthrough.
    I told him that, as nicely as I could. He was, to put it nicely, adamant that I could, should and would do what he had just proposed. I stood my ground, said I wanted more than one runthrough before doing it entirely on my own. After a minute or two repeating myself thusly, he says "Well you doing mornings was part of the deal!" I told him, I'm fine with doing mornings, I just need more than one training session on it before I do it ENTIRELY ON MY OWN.
    Anyway I was stubborn about it (stubbornness - one of my redeeming qualities ) and after a couple more minutes he basically said 'we'll talk about this later' and went home.

    I haven't had a shift with him since then, yet, thank god. But I do have one with him on this Friday. And I feel certain he's going to bring it up. I want, well, some opinions. Mostly, am I 'in the right' here? Is it really so much to ask to get more than one training session on opening the store before I have to do it by myself? And if he gives me some big ultimatum or something - "Open the store on your own after one training session or else you lose the job" - what do you guys think I should do?
    Re: Quiche.
    Pie is manly.
    Eggs, meat, and cheese are manly.
    Therefore, making an egg, meat, and cheese pie must be very manly.
    So sayeth Spiffy McMoron!

  • #2
    Hmmm, well, good on you for saying you needed more training.

    But if he makes you open and it goes wrong you can just say you told him you needed more training!
    No longer a flight atttendant!

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    • #3
      The magic words of document it apply. Put it in writing that you feel you need more training so you have the "Told you so" position provable.
      ludo ergo sum

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      • #4
        When you go in for opening training, write down everything. That way you have a checklist to refer to.

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        • #5
          If he insists that you must do an opening after only a single training session, make him sign 2 copies of a written notice that you believe that a single training session is insufficient. Keep one, give him the other.

          Then, if he continues to insist, bring a pen and paper and write down every single niggling detail about the entire proceedure. Make it take 5 times as long as it should. Ask lots of questions. Make him repeat instructions if necessary. Maybe he'll get it through his thick skull that one session just isn't reasonable.

          ^-.-^
          Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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          • #6
            I'm with Princess Katie. If he insists, remind him that it's his responsibility if something goes wrong. And take lots of notes. I don't think it's worth giving up the job for, though. If something does go wrong and they try to write you up for it, you have valid grounds to fight it.
            I don't go in for ancient wisdom
            I don't believe just 'cause ideas are tenacious
            It means that they're worthy - Tim Minchin, "White Wine in the Sun"

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            • #7
              From my experience opening procedures are usually much easier than closing. I would say take notes if you need to and if after the run through you still aren't comfortable with it, tell him.
              The only words you said that I understood were "His", "Phone" and "Ya'll". The other 2 paragraphs worth was about as intelligible as a drunken Teletubby barkin' come on's at a Hooter's waitress.

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              • #8
                Thanks for the advice guys. (Sorry for taking so long to post back, I actually had to go out of town for a few days.)

                I fully intend to write down every damn thing that I think will help. My boss has the infuriating tendency to skim over things, especially when he knows how to do something himself so well. On top of that he's damn forgetful (I have to remind him when he changes my shifts for examples), so I am partly worried that he will leave something out that I need to know.
                I will definitely make sure to make him go extra slow if I need to (thanks Andara) To be honest, this hadn't even occured to me, but I guess if opening time comes and we still haven't unlocked the doors, I can always just say "maybe you should open at your speed and we'll finish my training another morning"
                Re: Quiche.
                Pie is manly.
                Eggs, meat, and cheese are manly.
                Therefore, making an egg, meat, and cheese pie must be very manly.
                So sayeth Spiffy McMoron!

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                • #9
                  So how's it going?
                  No longer a flight atttendant!

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                  • #10
                    Quoth PrincessKatieAirHostess View Post
                    So how's it going?
                    After all that stressing out - I had started chewing the inside of my cheek and then my bottom lip. I had to resort to chewing gum nearly 24/7 to keep some flesh in my mouth and skin on my lip - I went in, he said "ok I'm off to do the banking" and left... When he came back, after he'd put the banking stuff in the safe out back, he said "Ok I'm off see you next time!"
                    Lousy bugger was supposed to be working another 2 hours as well. But he always slinks off before he should

                    So probably now I'll just have stress driving me insane (and depriving me of cheek-flesh) every week that I'm going to have a shift with him.
                    Hopefully I can get a REAL job and tell him to go shove it before I have to go through this argument with him again.
                    Re: Quiche.
                    Pie is manly.
                    Eggs, meat, and cheese are manly.
                    Therefore, making an egg, meat, and cheese pie must be very manly.
                    So sayeth Spiffy McMoron!

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