Another boob/co-worker thread

[mrsjfreak]

If you're going to look, which you will, since you're not dead, just do it when WE can't see you.
Or wipe up the drool puddle you make.

Cutenoob

Or better yet, don't stare when you're on the clock and it's QUITE obvious to the manager and the customers!!

[Lyse]

I worked in a building that held about 2500 men and four women, and while Navy uniforms are not the most flattering and alluring things ever made when you are a 38DD there really is not much to be done about trying to conceal the fact. It took me a while to find out that the casual visits and traffic to our office was a new thing that only happened after I transferred in. However, I can not recall catching a single person blantantly ogling and never adjusting themselves in front of me. I think that if a group of stereotypical Submariners can manage to restrain themselves and behave in a civilized manner then your boss can, too.

The ogling might be a one off thing, but the constant adjusting in your presence is at best rude and at worse offensive.

Just my two cents.

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[Jester]

If you're going to look, which you will, since you're not dead, just do it when WE can't see you.

Precisely. Which is one reason sunglasses are such a great invention, after all.....

[tollbaby]

*sigh* nobody's ogled me since the rest of my body caught up with my boobs LOL

But imagine this - 12 years old, I was STICK thin (ribs poked out, and so did all my other bones). I had recently grown a foot in a very short period of time, and I had huge long monkey arms. So imagine this toothpick kid..... with 34D boobs. (34D isn't all THAT big, as things go, but for a skinny-ass 12 year old? ugh).

[JustADude]

Precisely. Which is one reason sunglasses are such a great invention, after all.....

Definitely! And as much as I curse the ease with which sights burn themselves into my memory when I see a 400 pound woman wearing spandex, I bless it more for capturing the myriad beauties of the world while still letting me make near-constant eye contact.

And back on topic... yeah by 28 he should have things under control enough not to be so obvious about it. Only 3 thinks I can think of (from least obnoxious to most) are: 1)He's completely smitten, 2)Nobody ever taught him tact, or 3)He's a jerk and needs to have his family jewels resized.

[blas]

I own the official Family Jewels ReSizer......

You may borrow at any time you wish, just please make sure to return it. There are many boys around here that need resizing from time to time and I'm useless without it.

[draftermatt]

I hope you were joking about the 15-30 times an hour when it comes adjusting. I do it maybe 1-3 times a day. Total. much more than that he's playing with himself.

[blas]

I have to adjust my brassiere sometimes. Have you seen the Hane's commercial where the girl's bra strap keeps falling down her arm?

I swear, no matter how tight I adjust them, they still fall down. That and with my lesser padded bras, sometimes the ladies try to pop out. I always make sure there is no one watching when I do it. Especially men.

It's so embarrassing.

[Tria]

I swear, no matter how tight I adjust them, they still fall down. That and with my lesser padded bras, sometimes the ladies try to pop out. I always make sure there is no one watching when I do it. Especially men.

And my mom wonders why I ditched the midieval torture devices....

[Der Cute]

Wow, didn't know I'd start a fire here.

I have to adjust my bra all the time, the stupid arm straps keep falling down, and sometimes the underwire in the cup slips up....and isn't UNDER the girl anymore.

So yeah, there are times when I have to adjust myself too. But if I have an itchy crotch or downstairs area I DONT do it near other people.

As I said before, I'll give him a chance. He might just be mr. socialidiot. Or mr. hornybugger.

I have to step carefully in this. He is a much better strategist than I am, and he is my direct boss. So....whilst chewing on this issue, I realize I could be fired, given shit jobs, or he could be mature enough to stop willywiggling.

Digi...hon, I'm glad for your explanation. I need a technical male informant for this issue, as I do not have the same plumbing. Do not be embarrassed, it is a body, that is all.

Next time I catch him staring @ my chest, I'll say HEY My eyes are a bit north!

should get to him good.

Cutenoob

[MCSledgehammer]

Perhaps it's that I work in a fairly laid-back environ, but my response would be to say something along the lines of, "Oh, is that rash coming back? You seem to be uncomfortable..."
Loudly.
I realize this is probably not an option for you, but it sure would be funny, eh?

[repsac]

The general rule of...thumb... with male adjustments is that if you think you can't be seen; then someone's watching. So find a corner and hide in it with your back to the world and you should be safe.

It's murphy's laws with these things really (and yes Raps is right about the mind of its own thing). The one moment you think you're safe to fix things, is the moment that hot chick who works in paint; you know the one guys, the girl you've been flirting with for ages and are just now making a bit of leeway with? It's that one moment when you think you're safe that she comes around the corner and catches you trying to fix things and leaves you with the eternal question. To scratch, or not to scratch? God help you should you be caught there with your hand already halfway there.

[Witch of Endor]

Hint for female adjustments (especially when the girls fall out from underneath the wires) -- try getting a bigger cup and a smaller girth. It'll actually still fit (the numbers don't really mean anything concrete). For example, I was wearing a 38C for a long time, and then I had a bra fitting and was told to get a 36D or 36DD. Same overall fit, more actual support for the girls.

[Sharsarannon]

All tips on how to deal with sexual harassment aside-

in your post you implied that there was cleavage visible. With all respect..

Why are you exposing what you don't want people to look at?

A very quick solution to your problem might be to cover up a wee bit when at work. Then go out with your friends and wear whatever you please.
And yeah, if there is any more trouble from this skeezy sounding guy, report it to someone.

[iradney]

Why are you exposing what you don't want people to look at?

I'm sorry, but I feel a need to step in there. If you're busty and wearing a tailored shirt, unless you're going to button it all the way up to your throat and asphyxiate yourself, there WILL be cleavage showing. I'm busty.I personally prefer to NOT live in turtle necks my whole life simply because other people cannot exercise common courtesy and not S-T-A-R-E. Glances are ok. Everyone glances at certain body parts of another person, it's a part of life.

But if someone is staring so hard you can feel their eyeball sweat on you, that is NOT YOUR FAULT. Hell, I have found even if I do wear something that shows absolutely no skin below my chin, be it baggy or fitted, my breasts will still get ogled. Unless you're suggesting big busted girls in particular haul out the burkas, there is unfortunately no way to prevent certain types of people from staring, short of removing their eyeballs!