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I have watched an eppy or two, way back when it first started. From one of the ones I watched they had the girl in tears because they were critisizing her. Or maybe I'm getting my shows mixed up?
At any rate, I only wear straight leg jeans (I hate boot cuts and flairs and low riders. I want my legs straight to my ankles and my belt around my actual waist, thank you), I know I'm a Winter and I KNOW yellow and orange and light green do NOT look good on me. I look better in Earth and Gem tones. I wear shoes bigger than my feet because I find them far more comfortable (mind, these shoes aren't so big that they flop and threaten to fall off with every step I take, I've merely got an extra inch of room in front of my toes).
That's my point. They're assuming (generic 'they're') I don't know how to dress myself or what looks good on me or how to put on makeup because I dress in a manner 'different' to what THEY would choose. I look fine. No, I don't look fashion model but neither do I look like yesterday's bum. I hate makeup. I know how to put it on, I grew up going to church every sunday and makeup was a MUST in my mother's eyes. I hate the way it feels. It dries out my skin something terrible, even the softer 'moisturizing' stuff. It takes too much time. I find makeup pretty pointless.
I also know when or where it is appropriate to dress up. My work Christmas party everyone was stunned because I came in a dark wine colored dress that looked fantastic, had my hair done and makeup on.
I KNOW how to do it, I just don't want to. I'm comfortable and fine the way I am, I dress appropriately for work (I don't deal with the public and we're really casual) and if my job changed I'd dress appropriately for there.
I understand they're trying to help people but my point is, just because I choose to dress THIS way does not mean I don't know how to dress THAT way. I just don't want to. And if they don't like it, tough beans.
Does that make more sense?
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I have watched an eppy or two, way back when it first started. From one of the ones I watched they had the girl in tears because they were critisizing her. Or maybe I'm getting my shows mixed up?
At any rate, I only wear straight leg jeans (I hate boot cuts and flairs and low riders. I want my legs straight to my ankles and my belt around my actual waist, thank you), I know I'm a Winter and I KNOW yellow and orange and light green do NOT look good on me. I look better in Earth and Gem tones. I wear shoes bigger than my feet because I find them far more comfortable (mind, these shoes aren't so big that they flop and threaten to fall off with every step I take, I've merely got an extra inch of room in front of my toes).
That's my point. They're assuming (generic 'they're') I don't know how to dress myself or what looks good on me or how to put on makeup because I dress in a manner 'different' to what THEY would choose. I look fine. No, I don't look fashion model but neither do I look like yesterday's bum. I hate makeup. I know how to put it on, I grew up going to church every sunday and makeup was a MUST in my mother's eyes. I hate the way it feels. It dries out my skin something terrible, even the softer 'moisturizing' stuff. It takes too much time. I find makeup pretty pointless.
I also know when or where it is appropriate to dress up. My work Christmas party everyone was stunned because I came in a dark wine colored dress that looked fantastic, had my hair done and makeup on.
I KNOW how to do it, I just don't want to. I'm comfortable and fine the way I am, I dress appropriately for work (I don't deal with the public and we're really casual) and if my job changed I'd dress appropriately for there.
I understand they're trying to help people but my point is, just because I choose to dress THIS way does not mean I don't know how to dress THAT way. I just don't want to. And if they don't like it, tough beans.
Does that make more sense?
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