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  • I need a break from all this. Or large amounts of alcohol.

    So as most of you know two of my three boys have a genetic bone condition that causes lots of trouble. For anybody that cares, here's a link to what it is:

    http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/her...iple-exostoses

    It kind of glosses over the day to day reality of living with the disease, but it's a reasonable summary. Because I don't like typing big words, I call the exostoses "bumps". So here's the events of the last couple months...

    Oldest kid:

    -Injured both feet in separate incidences. The bumps in his feet are making recovery difficult. There's a ruptured tendon in his right foot and the bones in his left foot have shifted in a weird way. Both feet are currently in braces awaiting the Cam Boots to arrive. We're going to give it a few months before we go in and surgically repair the feet.

    -The foot injuries have caused a domino effect and now he's having trouble with his right hip. Not sure what we want to do with it yet. For now the game plan is to see if it gets better as the feet heal. Nobody's holding their breath that it's going to work.

    -He's left handed and there's bumps locking up his left wrist. He has an appointment with the hand specialist next Monday to make a game plan for that.

    -He's been having trouble for years with episodes of sporadic numbness/paralysis in both arms. There's finally a diagnosis. He's got a significant spinal deformity that's causing the effected vertebrae to pinch nerves as he moves his head. There's absolutely nothing they can do about it. He'll have to learn to live with it, but it also means he'll never be medically approved to get a driver's license. This was not good news to a 16 year old.

    Youngest kid:

    -He had surgery a few months back to remove a bump that was causing major issues in his knee and two bumps that were locking up the distal ends of the tibia and fibula. Surgery went well, but he is having complications with restoring blood flow to his left foot. It's getting better, but far too slowly for his doctor's comfort. We need to do the same thing on the right side, but the doctor doesn't want to do that until the circulation issue on the left side is cleared up.

    -He fell a few weeks ago and, due to the extra stress put on the tendons and ligaments by the wrist deformities, he tore up his left wrist. It's currently in a stiff brace (the doctor took mercy on me and didn't cast it).

    -We just got back from and appointment with the hand/wrist specialist. This appointment was made before he fell, and it had everything to do with his right wrist, which is far more severely deformed than his left wrist. It needs a lot of work. The nurse will call me tomorrow to hash out a schedule. Bumps need to be removed, the radius needs to be straightened out and the ulna needs to be lengthened.

    -He's starting to have trouble with his right hip. We'd had a major deformity in his left hip fixed three years ago, but left the right one alone. The left side was far more severe and needed urgent attention, as it was putting strain on the femoral artery, which caused a potentially life threatening situation. The right hip wasn't nearly as bad, though still not normal. He's now having difficulty on that side. We're going to look into fixing it when we go into the right knee.

    Middle Kid:

    -This one is just crazy. He decided to attempt an extremely steep hill on a skateboard. The road is mostly asphalt, with about 50 feet of concrete at the steepest part of the hill. He got the speed wobbles and when he hit the seam as the road switched back to asphalt he went flying. That resulted in a broken wrist, major road rash up and down his arms and a minor kidney injury that resolved on it's own. Thankfully he was wearing jeans and a helmet, or it could have been worse. The helmet actually broke into two pieces.

    Extra Kid:

    -She's having pretty typical issues for a kid in her situation. I don't mind at all being on the receiving end of 2am phone calls, but it does add to the overall stress levels. I'd much rather have her confide in me than do something that would hurt herself or others.

    For fun, here's a picture of the little one's right wrist. The big blob between the two long bones is one of the offending bumps. Both bones should be the same length and they're both supposed to be straight.



    So anybody have any really good liquor they can send my way?
    Last edited by mathnerd; 08-10-2015, 11:07 PM.
    At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

  • #2
    All I can send is sympathy, and my sincere hope that things will get better. {{{hugs}}}
    When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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    • #3
      Would a help?

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      • #4
        Thanks. Yes, internet hugs work quite well. I like those.

        Of course, to add to the list, last night the kitchen sink decided to go kaput. Water started streaming out from where the faucet attaches to the sink. We've got the water killed to the sink but it'll take a little while for the warranty replacement to arrive. Thankfully, this is just an annoyance, but it's still just one more thing.
        At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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        • #5
          Yes, but when it rains it pours. I can sympathize with having a chronic condition that disrupts your life. When something like the sink happens, it can send you into a spiral because you feel like you can't handle "extra" troubles on top of the ones you deal with every day. They are bound to become strong people, in the sense of character. Suffering tends to do that to a person.
          "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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          • #6
            Oh geeze. that's just too much all at once.

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            • #7
              *hugs mathnerd, gives kids warm fuzzies* None of you are having a great time with all this.

              *glares at the sink* Turkey...
              1129. I will refrain from casting Dimension Jump and Magnificent Mansion on every police box we pass.
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              • #8
                Thanks you.

                Foodlady, I think that's exactly it when it comes to the sink.

                RP, I'm not sure why, but you calling g my sink a turkey made me laugh hard enough so snort a little coffe. Out of my nose. The laugh did me good.
                At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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                • #9
                  Oldest kid just provided a little comic relief. He has a medium size bump on the inside of one of his ribs that sits just above his heart. If he fell just right or got hit in just the right spot, it could cause huge problems, up to and including death.

                  So he's at the gym sparring with a buddy (light sparring, nothing serious) and the buddy says "get your arms up! Protect your face!" My kid replies, "no, man! I gotta protect the off switch."

                  At least he has a good sense of humor about it.
                  At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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                  • #10
                    LOL, I love him, and I don't even know him.
                    "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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                    • #11



                      He's a great kid. They're all great kids. I really do enjoy being their mother, even with all the medical stuff that makes life stressful.
                      At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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                      • #12
                        And the oldest minion needs surgery on his left wrist. We're going to try to schedule it for the same day the youngest minion is scheduled for surgery on his right wrist (Oct 7th). Youngest minion will definitely be an inpatient, but the oldest minion might be able to be an outpatient. We won't know until we get in there. The day of surgery itself will be more difficult with two of them, but all of the post-op stuff will be far easier if they're both on the same schedule.

                        We won't know about the surgical status of the oldest's feet until the 26th.
                        At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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                        • #13
                          Update:

                          Oldest minion had his wrist surgery on Wednesday, September 2nd. Doc estimated it would take 30-45 minutes to take out one tumor and put in a fixator to lengthen the ulna. It turned out to be far more complicated than that. There were three bone tumors he had to remove and the bug one was so deeply rooted in the radius that he just took out about 3.5cm of it and pinned the ends back together. It took about 2.5 hours. He was supposed to go home that day, but he was in too much pain and couldn't hold anything down so they kept him overnight. His arms aren't the same length anymore, but the radius would have been too weak if he had tried to salvage it, so doc decided it was better to get the ulna and radius the same length that way instead of cutting into both bones.

                          Recovery has also been more difficult than anticipated. It's not helping that we got hit with a massive heat wave and my house has no a/c. He sweat so much one night that the cast slipped off in one piece. The doctor insisted I do anything possible to get him into air conditioning until the heat wave breaks because all that sweating under the cast substantially increases infection risk. Thankfully the first deposit from his SSI back pay should be here on Monday, and the worker at the SSA said a hotel under these conditions was a qualifying medical expense, and I could pay myself back from the back pay if I spent my regular money on a hotel. I found a Marriott Residence Inn fairly close to me that had a 2 bedroom suite for under $200/night, so BF put it on his credit card and I will just make a payment on the card as soon as the deposit hits. We are making the best of it, and having a little mini staycation. The suite has twin beds in one bedroom, a king in the other and a pretty comfy pull out sofa bed in the living room, along with an almost full kitchen. The stove only has two burners, but everything else is full size, including the dishwasher. BF and I took the king bed, the two older boys are in the twin beds and the youngest is on the sofa bed, so everybody is happy with their own beds. We were even able to bring the parrot (who's evil, but cute, and attracting lots of attention when we have him in the public areas, as people are used to seeing cats and dogs, but not evil genius parrots intent on taking over the world with his evil powers).

                          The youngest has his surgery rescheduled for October 16th. His hip/leg surgeon wanted to join with the hand surgeon and work at the same time in order to reduce the number of times he goes under general anesthesia. He's got a giant bone tumor on his knee that's comprising the vascular structures and nerves. There's a small but significant chance he's not coming out of this with both legs. There is concern that they won't be able to save the artery/veins in his leg, and if they can't then they will have to amputate at the knee. He's pretty sure it won't come to that, but there's enough of a chance that he had to talk to me about it.
                          Last edited by mathnerd; 09-12-2015, 11:47 AM. Reason: lots and lots of autocorrect induced typos
                          At the conclusion of an Irish wedding, the priest said "Everybody please hug the person who has made your life worth living. The bartender was nearly crushed to death.

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                          • #14
                            Sitting here recovering from my surgery. My two weeks' of complications now look like a cakewalk.

                            God bless and good luck!
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                            • #15
                              Holy crap! I hope the youngest comes through the surgery with both legs.

                              Paging Dr. Jester: Mathnerd needs Maduro, stat.
                              "Life is tough. It's even tougher if you're stupid" Redd Foxx as Al Royal - The Royal Family - Pilot Episode - 1991.

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