Last week DH suddenly started being confused and disorientated, didn't know where he was, didn't understand questions, had trouble understanding what was going on around him and for a while, didn't recognise who I was or our own home. It was late and we had no way of getting to/from the emergency doctors or A&E. Through some trial and error we discovered that weirdly salty foods helped improve it. He also had some other symptoms, itchy skin and blurry vision.
We managed to keep it at bay until we could get him to the GP, or so we thought, yesterday he started to get worse and worse and nothing was bringing him out of it, a friend kindly took us up to our nearest A&E as NHS direct (website, not call) said it was a medical emergency.
We were called through to triage in less than 10 minutes. Then called through to see the doctor in less than fifteen.
The doctor asked DH about his medication and his mental health problems, asked why we thought that we needed to go to A&E for that, called the crisis team and told us to see the GP today (going to walk in service later) and discharged him.
He didn't in any way examine DH, not even the usual stuff they do without thinking, like taking your temperature or blood pressure. Meanwhile, DH isn't sure why we're at the hospital, which hospital we're at or why our friend is with us.
I just feel like as soon as mental health was mentioned the doctor immediately thought "Oh well, there's your problem, the mental guy's gone a bit crazy, nothing I can do." and packed us off home again.
I spent the night trying to keep DH calm.
I'm exhausted and scared and angry.
We managed to keep it at bay until we could get him to the GP, or so we thought, yesterday he started to get worse and worse and nothing was bringing him out of it, a friend kindly took us up to our nearest A&E as NHS direct (website, not call) said it was a medical emergency.
We were called through to triage in less than 10 minutes. Then called through to see the doctor in less than fifteen.
The doctor asked DH about his medication and his mental health problems, asked why we thought that we needed to go to A&E for that, called the crisis team and told us to see the GP today (going to walk in service later) and discharged him.
He didn't in any way examine DH, not even the usual stuff they do without thinking, like taking your temperature or blood pressure. Meanwhile, DH isn't sure why we're at the hospital, which hospital we're at or why our friend is with us.
I just feel like as soon as mental health was mentioned the doctor immediately thought "Oh well, there's your problem, the mental guy's gone a bit crazy, nothing I can do." and packed us off home again.
I spent the night trying to keep DH calm.
I'm exhausted and scared and angry.

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