So... I've had bleeding issues for years. Upon years. Upon years. Severe enough to the point where my life was significantly affected- I've lost relationships, spent a ton on feminine hygiene products, had multiple embarrassing moments. What normally lasts 5-7 days would be horribly heavy, and last anywhere from 7 days to 8 weeks.
I even ended up SEVERELY anemic, to the point where I almost needed hospitalized.
Why did I deal with it for so long, you may ask? Why didn't I go to the ER sooner, or find a doctor?
I had no insurance. I was having horrible dizzy spells, no energy (as a result of the anemia). I went to the ER, and just about begged them to help me. They did an exam, a few tests, and told me the doctor would be right with me. 45 mins later, a staff member comes in, hands me a stack of papers, and says I can leave. I ask for test results, an explanation... I am told to take iron pills, and that some women just have it bad.
Went to a second ER, with much the same result. They just about came right out and told me that I was exaggerating, and that I just needed to deal with it. Told me it was all in my head. After that, I was scared to go to the hospital.
A few years later though, I ended up with insurance at my current job and made an appointment with a doctor.
Final result? After SURGERY, they said that there was SO MUCH tissue that they couldn't even see. I got lucky and avoided cancer, but they said that I could easily have been whammed with it at any time. Apparently the situation put me in high risk.
Really?! In my head?! I'm nuts? Those idiots just making me feel like a stupid whiner could have caused me to end up with cancer. My doctor even said that it NEVER should have gone on this long. Said that they never should have let me go without handling that.
I'm sorry for the length of this, but I'm just so mad. I'm getting my life back now, but so many things happened over the years... Why would they do this? Maybe some of the medical professionals on this board can answer that for me. I know it was just a few people at a few places... There are amazing medical professionals out there... But why wold they just blow me off?
I even ended up SEVERELY anemic, to the point where I almost needed hospitalized.
Why did I deal with it for so long, you may ask? Why didn't I go to the ER sooner, or find a doctor?
I had no insurance. I was having horrible dizzy spells, no energy (as a result of the anemia). I went to the ER, and just about begged them to help me. They did an exam, a few tests, and told me the doctor would be right with me. 45 mins later, a staff member comes in, hands me a stack of papers, and says I can leave. I ask for test results, an explanation... I am told to take iron pills, and that some women just have it bad.
Went to a second ER, with much the same result. They just about came right out and told me that I was exaggerating, and that I just needed to deal with it. Told me it was all in my head. After that, I was scared to go to the hospital.
A few years later though, I ended up with insurance at my current job and made an appointment with a doctor.
Final result? After SURGERY, they said that there was SO MUCH tissue that they couldn't even see. I got lucky and avoided cancer, but they said that I could easily have been whammed with it at any time. Apparently the situation put me in high risk.
Really?! In my head?! I'm nuts? Those idiots just making me feel like a stupid whiner could have caused me to end up with cancer. My doctor even said that it NEVER should have gone on this long. Said that they never should have let me go without handling that.
I'm sorry for the length of this, but I'm just so mad. I'm getting my life back now, but so many things happened over the years... Why would they do this? Maybe some of the medical professionals on this board can answer that for me. I know it was just a few people at a few places... There are amazing medical professionals out there... But why wold they just blow me off?
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