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  • FMLA Suckitude

    Got a letter in the mail that just pissed me off royally.

    My mother was in the hospital most of last week, with a severe UTI. She also was . . . finally . . . diagnosed with Alzheimer's. My brother and I have been contending with her memory problems for over two years now. Her illness finally allowed us to place her on a Memory Care Unit where she can be properly looked after.

    That's not what has me pissed. I'm actually relieved about putting her in a facility where she is no longer a danger to herself. She's adjusting well and starting to make friends with the other residents.

    No, I'm pissed at the hospitalist. A hospitalist is a hospital employed doctor that sees you instead of your family doctor when you're in the hospital.

    My employer requires FMLA paperwork if you are out more than 3 days. Because making all the arrangements for Mom was so time consuming, I kept missing the doc. Finally, I left the paper work with the social worker, who promised to get it filled out and would mail it back to me.

    I just got it in the mail today. The doc refused to fill it out saying it was not an FMLA even. She wrote me a "note" excusing me from work.

    Lazy bitch . . . that's not what my employer wants. They're not going to accept this note in place of the FMLA paperwork they require . . . and I will have to miss more work later on to deal with the consequences from placing my mother. You don't just place someone and walk away . . . they have entire lives that have to be wrapped up and taken care of. It is a TON of work.

    I'm going to have to call the hospital administrator in the morning and complain. Sucky or not, I'm going to insist this lazy bitch do her job and fill out the damn form.
    They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

  • #2
    Oh, no. Insisting that a professional act like one and do their damned job is not sucky.

    Sucky was her refusing to fill the paperwork out and giving some bullshit excuse that you didn't need it. Lazy bitch.

    ^-.-^
    Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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    • #3
      Update:

      I spoke with the doctor's boss just a few moments ago. He's agreed to help me. I'm going to mail the forms to HIM, and he will get the doctor to fix this. Hopefully they'll get it back to me by the end of the week.
      They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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      • #4
        Excellent.

        And Andara is completely correct. Insisting a person DO THEIR JOB is not sucky. Correction. Politely but firmly insisting, is not sucky. (We all know sucky ways of insisting.)

        Based on what I've heard through these boards, this is EXACTLY the sort of situation FMLA is intended for.


        BTW: congratulations on having your mother placed somewhere she will be safe and cared for. And I'm very sorry for your situation, and the no-doubt ongoing grief you will have. Please make sure you and your brother get the grief and carer support you will need.
        Seshat's self-help guide:
        1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
        2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
        3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
        4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

        "All I want is a pretty girl, a decent meal, and the right to shoot lightning at fools." - Anders, Dragon Age.

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        • #5
          Quoth Seshat View Post
          BTW: congratulations on having your mother placed somewhere she will be safe and cared for. And I'm very sorry for your situation, and the no-doubt ongoing grief you will have. Please make sure you and your brother get the grief and carer support you will need.
          Thanks

          I've already made an appointment with my therapist
          They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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