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    This past Tuesday, I went and donated platelets at a hospital. Basically, what they do is take some blood, spin it, drain off the platelets, then put the blood back in, take more blood, etc. I had been taking vitamins, exercising, eating a lot of healthy food; I shouldn't have any problems, eh? Since I had a full stomach and there wasn't much blood being taken from me, I shouldn't be woozy or anything.
    So after two hours of this, I'm feeling okay. I leave, walk a block to the metro train station. As soon as I sit down to wait, I start to feel a little wobbly. This woman start talking to me, the train pulls up. We get on the train, continue talking, everything goes dark. I wake up a few seconds later, the woman had had to grab me to keep me from falling off the seat. She asks me if I'm okay. I realize I'm going to throw up. About a minute or three later, we pull into the next station and I stumble off. I get to a trash can, puke my everloving guts out, crumple to my knees.
    And here we have the suck. People walked past me as I'm weakly pleading for help. I just need to get to the surface so I can call my boyfriend to pick me up. Nothing. No one even looks at me. I thank God that I hadn't fallen and hit my head, because I probably would've been lying there for ages. And if I cut my head on the way down... keep in mind most of my platelets had just been drained off.
    So I finally get the strength to drag myself upstairs. I call my boyfriend, then crawl onto a bench, praying it'll all be over soon. Again, people walk past, no one asks me if I'm okay. TWO COPS CARS DRIVE PAST. Nothing. I'm in a decent part of town(and I certainly don't look like a hobo or anything), and people can't even be bothered to see if I'm still alive.
    My boyfriend gets there, carries me to the car because I can't even stand up, takes me home. He feeds me, covers me in a blanket(it's 90+ degrees and I was freezing), rubs my back. We figure I was suffering from shock. I do want to donate again, but I'm definitely asking the donation centre how this whole being deathly ill thing can be avoided. I'm perfectly fine now, but I've lost a LOT of faith in humanity. Thank you, Buffalo.
    Last edited by unclejampuff; 07-10-2008, 04:26 PM.
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  • #2
    Geeze. Let's you know how much people really care, huh? You poor thing.
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    • #3
      As for PD not stoping to offer aid:
      While you were waiting for your wonderful man - you may not have looked as bad as you felt
      They may have been transporting someone -ergo might not have noticed you
      They may have been in mid call and again not noticed
      It may have been an auto service person driving the car at the time . . .I have seen that a few times before.
      They may have had their attention focused on something in the road . . .watching a car/ running plates.

      I can understand the frustration with people around not offering aid . . .but anymore people are way too scared to get involved . . .you could have been on something- at least that is what the news media tells us.
      People are worried about doing the wrong thing and then being sued.
      People are also very much in their own little bubble from place A to B and don't notice what is going on arround them.

      I am glad you have a wonderful man that wanted to help make you feel better. It is sad that a handful have ruined it for those that might actually need aid.

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      • #4
        Most people probably assumed you were drunk, or something. You don't have to look like a hobo to get drunk at whatever time of the day or night it is.

        But when people ask for HELP, I generally get out of Auto-Pilot and see what I can do.
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        • #5
          Probably either the bystander effect was going on "Somebody else will help her" or they just assumed you were sleeping off a pisser or something.

          Sucks, but that often is what happens. You've got a keeper of a boyfriend for carrying you home and looking after you.
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          • #6
            They could have also been afraid you were a decoy, or bait, for unscrupulous individuals lying in wait to relieve them of their possessions when lured to a secondary location.

            It's a sad commentary, but we can blame the shady element that causes it.

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            • #7
              Yep, she could have been drunk, tripping, bait, contageous, any number of things.

              However, you know what everyone carries now? A cell phone. How the fuck hard is it to call 911 if you see someone lying on the floor crying for help?

              No excuse. People suck. Well, that's not entirely true. People generally rock. But crowds? Groups? The teeming public? Suck. In fact, you won't find a harder or more dedicated suck.

              Crowds can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch.

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              • #8
                Hear that story about that woman that got violently raped while 30+ people watched? They all thought someone else called the cops, and they were all waiting for someone else to stop the attack.

                And the whole time the woman was screaming and begging for someone to help her.....

                Yeah, I have no faith.
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                • #9
                  I think I was saying something like "Gave blood, please help, I need help." I could've been speaking softly, because my ears were roaring. I dunno, someone groaning on the floor, waving a hand at people gets my attention.
                  I figure that most people would've assumed I was on some sort of intoxicant or that I was faking it for the benefit of their doom. But it was really frightening that I could not even stand up and no one even blinked. I'm glad everything turned out in the end, but my mind keeps listing things that could've gone wrong. I could've hit my head, I could've fallen onto the tracks, I could've passed out again and gotten robbed and/or raped, I could've died.
                  The Buffalo metro has no reception underground. Heck, I rarely get reception inside the station even when I'm above ground.
                  If I saw someone in that position, I would've stayed out of reach, asked what was wrong. If the situation required help, I would've either used one of the emergency phones or gone upstairs and called for help. I'm the kind of person who tries to comfort random crying people. Maybe I'm a softie who is gonna get taken advantage of, but I still think this whole thing was awful, disgusting, and really damn sad.
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                  • #10
                    You needed a blanket?
                    That's messed up.

                    Once you recover, be sure to give your man some vigorous lovin'.
                    Or just buy him lunch or take him for a movie, whatever he likes.
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                    • #11
                      Quoth Irving Patrick Freleigh View Post
                      Probably either the bystander effect was going on "Somebody else will help her" or they just assumed you were sleeping off a pisser or something.

                      Sucks, but that often is what happens. You've got a keeper of a boyfriend for carrying you home and looking after you.
                      Fucking Bystander fucking Effect... crap like this makes me glad I'm enough of a stubborn bastard to not worry about making waves. I just wish I'd been there to help.
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                      • #12
                        Well you definately had a bad reaction!
                        That sucks, though my mum has given plasma, and platlets etc before due to that fact she can't give blood normally, and this is the best option.
                        I also give regularly.....
                        However I'm suprised no one even alreted a rail worker....I mean even if I was scared I would have alrerted someone who SHOULD have called an emergancy service.
                        Yes the world is hopeless sometimes.
                        every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.... for every person I can stand being around there is and eqaul and opposite idiot....... -_- damn stupid people

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                        • #13
                          I was shocked until I read that you were in Buffalo.... I don't know what it is about big cities, but everybody's in a bubble. Nobody gets involved with anyone else, god forbid eye contact or conversation!

                          Ottawa, while a relatively big city, still has that small-town feel in that aspect. I remember once I tripped while getting off the bus, twisted as I fell, and landed flat on my ass (fell about 3 feet down). SEVEN people stopped to ask if I was alright. The day I walked to the grocery store and nearly passed out (I delivered the next day), no fewer than five store employees came out to ask me if I was okay, and one of them phoned a cab to get me back home.

                          People suck, but it depends where you are. In Toronto? I'd NEVER expect anybody to stop and help me, but at home? I'd be shocked if they didn't.

                          People do suck - you should see a doctor about your reaction to the platelet donation. My dad does pheresis donation (sp?) - it's donating white blood cells for people who have immunity issues. He's also done platelets before. HUNDREDS of times (he started doing it when he was 17 or so, and he's 58 now). What happened to you is NOT a normal reaction. I get woozy every single time I give blood, even if it's just a few vials for a blood test. Canadian Blood Services actually WILL NOT let me donate anymore, because a) I pass out, and b )it takes them 20-30 minutes to find a vein in the first place LOL
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                          • #14
                            Quoth tollbaby View Post
                            Ottawa, while a relatively big city, still has that small-town feel in that aspect. I remember once I tripped while getting off the bus, twisted as I fell, and landed flat on my ass (fell about 3 feet down). SEVEN people stopped to ask if I was alright. The day I walked to the grocery store and nearly passed out (I delivered the next day), no fewer than five store employees came out to ask me if I was okay, and one of them phoned a cab to get me back home.
                            I had something like that happen once, slipped on some ice and it took me a minute to get myself back together. I had 4 people walk by and three of them asked if I needed help (and I think the fourth was as I was hauling my a$$ up off the ground). What made this kinda scary for me was my co-worker had broken his ankle not a week before a block from where I fell.
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                            • #15
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