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    I take a Park and Ride bus that usually goes straight downtown but after 8 am it makes a stop at a second park and ride.

    Now the number on this route is 108. The normal 108 is an limited, where it goes down one street and stops at the N. Shepard P&R and continues to downtown. This bus is an express, and it stops between two park and rides to pick up passengers. This bus only stops 2 times between the two p&r. It does say "express," instead of limited.

    Also, the express bus is like a greyhound size bus, with stairs and plush seats. The limited is a low bus and has hard seats.

    We stop at a light and a mom and her 2 and 3 year old girls get on. The mom stands with the stroller. Of course, the kids getting into a seat and mom folding the stroller takes up some time. The mom wants to stop about 3 blocks from where she was picked up and the bus driver says that the next stop is the next P&R (bout 5 blocks away).
    Mom: This bus says 108.
    driver: yes, but it's an express
    Mom: but the side of the bus says 108.
    driver: yes, but it's next stop is the P&R.

    Mom gets off at the P&R with the kids. A passenger makes a snide remark that the mother isn't holding on to the kids hands and the kids might get runned over.

    Anyway, people get on the bus. Bus drivers will start driving away once everyone gets on the bus, so the last people is always walking like a drunken sailor to sit in the back of the bus. In this case, it was a co-worker of mine. The bus pulls out and she stops walking (she tells me latter she gets motion sickness, so she can't walk while a bus is moving)

    Now I understand people try to be helpful. It would be nice if they had nice tone of voice, instead of sounding like they are being put out helping a stupid kid.

    A woman in the back of the bus says, "There's some seats back here" and repeats that when my co-worker didn't hear her. This woman's tone of voice is one someone would use when someone is standing in front of you in the movie theater, blocking your view.

    Then a guy gets up and says, "sit down, girl." Considering my co-worker is the same age as the guy, I think that was rude, esp. his sound of voice, like he was talking to a 5 year old. The guy pushes past her to another seat in the back.

    We talk about how the book drop will be full because yesterday we were closed for Vet. day, and I comment on how idiots are going to leave books in the rain, even though the books won't be due on the day off. Then we talk about how the homeless have been taking dumps by a closed door. My co-worker said latter that a woman sitting in front of her complained, "Damn, now I lost my appetite."

    This is the second time I typed this. First time sounded more sucky but oh well.
    Time! Time! Time is what turns kittens into cats.

    Don't teach me a lesson; all I learn is that you are an asshole.

    I wish porn had subtitles.

  • #2
    Quoth depechemodefan View Post
    Then a guy gets up and says, "sit down, girl." Considering my co-worker is the same age as the guy, I think that was rude, esp. his sound of voice, like he was talking to a 5 year old. The guy pushes past her to another seat in the back.
    Well, I can't hear his tone in your post, but going by what he said he was trying to be polite. I have tonal issues, myself, where I'll say something and everyone swears I was being rude, but as far as I can tell I was being civil. Perhaps it's just all the years of retail/call center bleeding back out?

    Judging by his actions, the guy was trying to be nice, so I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt based on what he did.

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    • #3
      I guess it's one of those things where you have to be there. His tone of voice was one thing, the other was what he said, it was a demand. He could have said, "you want my seat?" or "here, have my seat." Then again, like you said, maybe he didn't mean to be rude. But calling a woman with grey hair "girl" in the same tone a person uses when their last nerve is snapped by their 5 year old kind of makes me lean that he was pissed at her.
      Time! Time! Time is what turns kittens into cats.

      Don't teach me a lesson; all I learn is that you are an asshole.

      I wish porn had subtitles.

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      • #4
        Quoth depechemodefan View Post
        Then a guy gets up and says, "sit down, girl."
        "SHUT UP ASSHOLE!!!"

        To guy on the bus of course, not depechmodefan.
        I don't have an anger problem! I have an idiot problem!-Hank Hill

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        • #5
          I might change my opinion upon actually hearing the inflection or being in the situation myself... but the guy gave up his seat... That gives him , IMHO, a few positive points to buy off some minor negativity.

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          • #6
            there are a lot of things you have to be there to see the suck, I think this is one


            the mods have already posted rules saying that this site is intended to be a place to vent without fear of people whining "not sucky"

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            • #7
              Yeah I know.. no opinions allowed.



              But I never said it was wrong to post it here, or that the OP was wrong. I said the person who gave up the seat got some leniency, in my own opinion, for at least doing the right thing. I agree with you (and did so above) that the suck may have had to BE heard to be understood. The guy probably felt like he "had" to give up his seat for a woman, and let his inner resentment slip out.

              Me, I'll give up the seat in a heartbeat. Don't mind standing... But then again.. I haven't ridden a bus since the early 2000's when I was still a NYer..

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              • #8
                The guy just move to another seat, further to the back of the bus.

                To be honest, when I posted this, I knew it would be hard to relate the suck. Say the first woman with kids. She was politely arguing with the bus driver. The suck would be obvious if mom threw some explicatives or was obviously fighting with the bus driver (the words said, yelling, etc).

                But yes, the actions weren't sucky, just the way and tone the woman in the back of the bus and the guy said what they said was sucky.

                No arguments here!
                Time! Time! Time is what turns kittens into cats.

                Don't teach me a lesson; all I learn is that you are an asshole.

                I wish porn had subtitles.

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                • #9
                  Quoth Crazeyal View Post
                  Me, I'll give up the seat in a heartbeat. Don't mind standing... But then again.. I haven't ridden a bus since the early 2000's when I was still a NYer..
                  Me neither. Of course, I only ride the subway for a few days out of the year, when I go visit family up in Chicago, but I like it... at long as I can face towards the direction of travel.
                  ...WHY DO YOU TEMPT WHAT LITTLE FAITH IN HUMANITY I HAVE!?! -- Kalga
                  And I want a pony for Christmas but neither of us is getting what we want OK! What you are asking is impossible. -- Wicked Lexi

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                  • #10
                    Quoth depechemodefan View Post

                    But yes, the actions weren't sucky, just the way and tone the woman in the back of the bus and the guy said what they said was sucky.
                    And I'm betting that the guy said what he said in his tone because the lady in the back had pissed him off and he just didn't want to hear her anymore.

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