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    Boyfriend and I take his daughter out to eat at least once a week. Her favorite place is a regional chicken wing chain. It's a great family place, we always get great service, and their wings are awesome. We were seated in a busier section last night and didn't notice anything amiss at first. I got up to go to the bathrooms which are down a hall way and quiet a ways from our section, definatley way out of view. When I step outside the bathroom door there is an adorable 12-18 month old little girl staring at me and no adults insight. She tried to go in the bathroom but I stopped her as it was empty. Then she reached up for me to pick her up which I did not do. At the same time our waitress came around the corner. I asked her if she knew where the girls parents might be and she said yes they were seated two tables away from Boyfriend and I. I looked at her startled and she said the kid and her two brothers were roaming about the restaurant. I shook my head and walked away from the little one who took off in another direction away from where her parents and I were sitting.

    So that was rather jarring but it gets worse. The older brothers were 3 and 5 at the oldest. They were running back and forth between the arcade games and their table screaming and demanding money to play the games. Then their food comes and they charge the table and make an absolute mess of everything. They were standing on their chairs yelling dumping their wings on the table and painting with their fries in ketchup and bbq sauce. The parents are both ignoring them. At one point mom says if they didn't sit down they MAY not get a bedtime snack. They don't sit down, and she says she might not give them any money to play anymore games.

    Boyfriend and I roll our eyes. Boyfriend asks his daughter who is 5 and has been watching this circus what she thinks of it. She says "I think you'd spank my butt and put me to bed if I was bad like that" being 5 she was loud Our waitress heard her and winked at her. Within ten minutes the boys say there done eating and the baby starts shrieking which apparently indicates she's done. They then race back to the arcade games and start fighting while the toddler begins touring the restaurant again. Mom of course gives them money to play games and they continue howling. At this point our waitress comes over and Boyfriend asks if they were in her section she sighs and says No thankfully and then tells us that the book mom and dad seem engrossed in and are ignoring their children to deal with is a cross word puzzle. Yep a cross word puzzle was important enough to inconvience the rest of us. This was a nicer dressed couple too. They appeared to be in their late 30's early 40's upper-middle class and completely incapable or interested in handling their children.

    Parents like these make me fear for the future.

    -Bitsy

  • #2
    This my opinion and its only mine and I know people will disagree. I feel like its almost like a form of child abuse.You not teaching your kids nothing.No manners,patience,whats acceptable in society,nothing. What good are these parents doing these kids other then ruining them.Sorry but my sister in law(I've written many times about her and her children)She has done no discipline or teaching her children.Her daughter is 12 and her son is 7 and they are like wild animals.There are many people that won't allow them in their house,I'm one of them now. I've seen the 12 year draw on walls,dump food and drink on carpet (on purpose)and then laugh about it.She took my hubby glasses off and tried to break them and finally she tried to rip my new pearl necklace off my neck last xmas(it was from my gift from hubby.)The son is no better.He breaks everything,he throws food and will punch adults in the face.My SIL just sits and yells at them and refuses to move and discipline them. I just shutter when all these kids grow up. I think had I been in your postion I would have took the little girls hand and marched up to the parents and told them that I could have walked out your their daughter.Sometimes their morons just need to be frightened.

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    • #3
      The truly scary part is that sometime in the future these children _will_ get a reality check when somebody else (a classmate, coworker or annoyed passerby) will give them the smackdown they've long needed. But by that point the lesson is lost...

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      • #4
        Today's professional parents. I shudder to think what these three hellspawn will turn into.
        The New Orleans Saints are your 2009 NFL champions.

        Believe dat.

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        • #5
          My compliments to BF and his daughter. The brats will get a reality check soon enough. For their sake I hope it's not fatal.
          I'm trying to see things from your point of view, but I can't get my head that far up my keister!

          Who is John Galt?
          -Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged

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          • #6
            Sounds like Dursley-itis to me.

            I certainly know that my little girl doesn't behave like that when she's taken out for a meal. But then her mum gives her a lot of attention and appropriate discipline.

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            • #7
              My mom and I were having this conversation last night. I was describing the little demons I encounter at WalMart (yes, I know that's my first mistake, but hey, we can afford it) and how I knew if I had acted that way, I'd have been in mucho doggy doo. My mom was scary when it came to discipline, and the three of us turned out as (mostly) productive members of society. Heck, she STILL scares me (in a good way). And I love her for it.
              I am no longer of capable of the emotion you humans call “compassion”. Though I can feign it in exchange for an hourly wage. (Gravekeeper)

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              • #8
                I agree it's a form of child abuse, I've said it to the parent of a kid like that, he was going around hitting everyone in sight and the parents were doing nothing about it, I told them flat out if he hit me I'd knock him on his ass, because someone had to or this kid was going to pick the wrong person and do way worse, they didn't stop him so 5 minutes later kid comes crying to parents about the "mean" man.
                If I dropped everybody who occasionally said something stupid from my list of potential partners, I wouldn’t even be able to masturbate

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                • #9
                  Why did those neglecterinos have kids in the first place? Crossword puzzle books are cheaper by several orders of magnitude.

                  Daddy should've kept his thing in his pants, and mommy shouldn't have opened the doors to her place.
                  Knowledge is power. Power corrupts. Study hard. Be evil.

                  "I never said I wasn't a horrible person."--Me, almost daily

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                  • #10
                    Candyshopgirl, those kids sound like my little cousin when he was younger. Now he's been in school for a while and has learned a lesson or two, but when he was a toddler and small kid, he used to bite. He bit his dad (my cousin) all the time whenever my cousin and his wife tried to discipline him. And they'd just let him bite them! We went out to eat one day when my family was moving and several of my aunts, uncles and cousins were helping, and the little shit bit my uncle. The funny thing about that is my little cousin's older sister would have had her ass tanned and my cousin would have bitten her back if she'd ever done that as a kid. They let that little shit get away with everything because he's the favorite.....it's pretty sad. After he was born, I always felt bad for my little girl cousin.......she never got away with anything.
                    You really need to see a neurologist. - Wagegoth

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                    • #11
                      I will never understand the logic of just letting your kids run wild. I went to Ihop today and when I walked in, there were those waiting chairs filled with about five kids under the age of six just sitting there. They were mildly running around and being obnoxious but I didn't see a parent in sight! The only thing I saw was the poor waitress behind the pay out counter looking annoyed.

                      I think I actually said outloud where the hell are the parents. I would never leave my child unattended. Under NO circumstance. There are pedophile's out there and so many ways for a child to get hurt or disappear. It's disgusting and annoying for those around them that have to watch out for them.

                      I am not a parent yet but I can say I will never do that. Why do we need to be a certain age to drink and drive? Why do we need license to drive but can have kids at fourteen? Go figure. Sorry I am just grrr'd today.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth Anakah View Post
                        I am not a parent yet but I can say I will never do that. Why do we need to be a certain age to drink and drive? Why do we need license to drive but can have kids at fourteen? Go figure. Sorry I am just grrr'd today.
                        I'm with you...if it's legal to do a background check and drug test before hiring for a McDonald's position then why can't we impose the same on having kids? It's already done with adoptive parents for crying out loud! THEY get scrutinized from top to bottom, but if you wanna DIY, all you need are a few functioning body parts. Does. Not. Make. Sense.

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                        • #13
                          Quoth Dark-Star View Post
                          I'm with you...if it's legal to do a background check and drug test before hiring for a McDonald's position then why can't we impose the same on having kids? It's already done with adoptive parents for crying out loud! THEY get scrutinized from top to bottom, but if you wanna DIY, all you need are a few functioning body parts. Does. Not. Make. Sense.
                          That, folks? That there is a Fratching post. See how it goes into controversial territory? Very obvious markings, especially for the discerning conneiseur (spelling - can't be bothered looking it up).

                          Rapscallion

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                          • #14
                            Quoth Rapscallion View Post
                            That, folks? That there is a Fratching post. See how it goes into controversial territory? Very obvious markings, especially for the discerning conneiseur (spelling - can't be bothered looking it up).

                            Rapscallion

                            Who can be bothered looking up the spelling?
                            If I dropped everybody who occasionally said something stupid from my list of potential partners, I wouldn’t even be able to masturbate

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                            • #15
                              It's spelled "connosuier."
                              The New Orleans Saints are your 2009 NFL champions.

                              Believe dat.

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