Don't you ever call me that [superlong]

[Sparky]

How interesting that the number of things you did wrong are equal to the twit's IQ. They're both 0.

[blas]

I doubt the father would have helped. In all likely odds, his dad is even worse.

I myself cannot wait for the day I can threaten a guy to put his intensines in my purse and actually fend him off that way.

[zombiequeen]

Thanks guys for all the support.
raw465, I thought about that later, but at the time I was more of "As soon as my husband gets over here you are finished" then thinking clearly.
KiaKat, thanks, next time I'll stay in eyesight of him better. Unfortunately, the aisle was set up where I was looking at DS games, and PS3 games were on the right side of me, which is the quickest way to the counter. I would have had to either run around the aisle, or past creeper. I was too shocked to do either, unfortunately.
I have no clue where his dad was, but I think it might have been auto from his conversation with the other dude. He must have let his kid wander off, he was probably around 18-ish.

[MoonCat]

Zombiequeen, you are no way at fault for any of this! God, can't a woman just go shopping without some freak targeting her?

I will literally find this dude and pull his vocal chords out through his ass.

Can I help? I have a crowbar somewhere.

[Zellie Crescent]

Can I help? I have a crowbar somewhere.

And I have a golf club, let's have fun. By the way my personal reaction to the rape "joke" would have been to turn his face to apple sauce with my fists.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Guy was slime. The only wrong thing here I see is that Daddy didn't use a condom a while back.

Some people miss their calling in life, really. For instance, this guy would have been a far greater asset to the betterment of mankind by drying on the back of a seat in a porn theater.

[zombiequeen]

The only reason I didn't smack him was because we were in a store, and I was worried about getting in trouble/getting my husband fired.
I have a friend with Asperger's that constantly makes rape jokes. Hubby keeps explaining why I don't like them, but he doesn't get it. So I've learned to not hit people for it.

[Whiskey]

The only reason I didn't smack him was because we were in a store, and I was worried about getting in trouble/getting my husband fired.
I have a friend with Asperger's that constantly makes rape jokes. Hubby keeps explaining why I don't like them, but he doesn't get it. So I've learned to not hit people for it.

Have you hit him?

[scruff]

Have you hit him?

I agree with Whiskey. I used to babysit for an Autistic kid. She usually took firm advice, after a few repeats.
She was well aware she had issues. But some things didn't settle easily.
One evening she was bored and so started hitting her younger sibling.
I physically dragged her into the other room, explained why hitting peole was not acceptable, and pointed out if she wanted attention, she just had to ask and I would be happy to play with her and her dolls house. No problem, ever again.
And she was 10.
If you and your hubby have told this chap that his jokes are not acceptable, either hit him or both of you leave the room. Don't let him use the asbergers as an excuse, you are not doing yourself or him any favours.

[zombiequeen]

I have hit him several times, never hard enough to leave a mark though.

[SecurityWench]

That is absolutely horrible! You did absolutely nothing to deserve that. I'm almost disappointed your husband didn't turn him to mush. Rape is definitely nothing to be joked about. Anybody who disregards rape (and the rapists for that matter) should have their gonads forcibly removed. With a chainsaw.

You're obviously a very strong person, and I admire you greatly. Don't let him get you down.

[Teskeria]

Now if you could have held your anger in and just asked "Why is it that whenever a guy calls a girl a cunt, you just know they have a half inch dick? The two just go together."

[Mytical]

Anybody who disregards rape (and the rapists for that matter) should have their gonads forcibly removed. With a chainsaw.

I agree with this sentiment. I hate how casually some people use that word. I will add my voice to those saying you did absolutely nothing, well except for maybe not kicking him in his *ahem* apples..IF you could find them.

[Seshat]

Firstly, I hate how we women are socialised to assume that things like this happen because we did something wrong.

No, you did not.

Only thing you could have done different is stick closer to your husband as soon as the creep vibe started.

And you should not have had to.

Yes, actions like this can help dissuade creeps like this. But just like locks on doors, they're a response to criminal/antisocial behaviour.

raw465, I thought about that later, but at the time I was more of "As soon as my husband gets over here you are finished" then thinking clearly.

A normal response. Forgive yourself for it.

[ralerin]

Am I the only one tempted to ask the store for the security camera footage and release it to the "Anonymous" of the Internet? All 3 of their lives=OVER faster than you can say "sour lemon".