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  • I Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

    So, I'm heading home from work, yesterday, and as I'm approaching a red light, I see a woman and man walking in the crosswalk. About halfway across, the man suddenly starts shouting and carrying on and walking back the other way, yelling all kinds of insults and shit at the woman who, for her part, is not saying anything at all or looking his direction.

    I figure that the man in question must have spotted the woman while at the gas station on the corner and followed her while trying to get her number or otherwise chat her up. She, not being interested, ignored him. At which point, since he had to look like a "real man" in front of his two buddies, decided that he would have to "show her" for not giving him the time of day.

    I shouted something unflattering but not profane at the guy as I waited for the light to change. I don't think he even noticed, but I'm pretty sure both his buddies did.

    ....

    Later, I stopped at the store prior to getting home. One of my big peeves is people who can't be arsed to move their carts out to where they belong. Or, at the very least, parking them on the grass islands so that they're not in the way.

    As I get out of my car, I see a woman emptying her cart into her trunk. She's got a lanyard on with a ton of cards attached to it, and I get the impression that she works in the medical field in some capacity based on that and her clothing.

    As I'm just passing by, on the other side of the aisle than her car, I see her take her now-empty cart and shove it into the space next to where she parked. Which just so happens to be the extra space for wheelchair access for the handicapped spot she was next to.

    So, me being me, I shout out, "Jesus Christ, lady, really? The cart return is right here!" I point to the cart return, which I just walked past, that is almost directly across the aisle from her parking spot, not 20 feet away. "How lazy can you get?"

    She spent at least the next minute yelling at my back as I headed into the store. I almost thought she was going to follow me inside, but if she had that much energy, she would have just put her cart where it belonged in the first place.

    ^-.-^
    Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

  • #2
    After having to chase those fuckers for close to three years, I always put my carts in the corrals at least. It's not that hard.

    Although I hated it when people would beach them on the grass islands.

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    • #3
      HATE that. I will totally call someone out on it.

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      • #4
        indeed. me i always take the time to put the cart away.
        people like that end up doing $500+ damage to other people's cars when the wind picks the carts up and slams them around the lot.

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        • #5
          On the rare occasion that I do comment about it, I usually take the passive-agressive route (what can I say, I'm non-confrontational). I'll address my 4-year-old and explain that we need to put our carts away properly so cars don't get damaged, or because that's why they have cart corrals in the first place. Won't even look at the guilty party in those instances, though I'm sure when I do that I get dirty looks (if they even hear me).
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          • #6
            You remind me of my assistant manager--she says her filter is broken, and she's not lying. Nothing gets filtered between her brain and her mouth. Most people (like lazy ass cart lady) deserve it though!
            "And though she be but little, she is FIERCE!"--Shakespeare

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            • #7
              Most of the Supermarkets near me require you to put a £1 in for your trolley, so means you always take your trolley back or you lose the money!
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              • #8
                I imagine in this area that if they started up with getting a deposit back on the carts, we'd just end up with punk kids mugging people for their carts. >_<

                Plus, we don't use dollar coins as anything other than a curiosity, so the best we could do would be quarters, and for most people, a quarter isn't worth not being stupid lazy over.

                ^-.-^
                Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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                • #9
                  I can do you one better than that. I went to the store today, and some ass had left a cart blocking a parking spot--RIGHT NEXT TO THE DAMN CART RETURN. I mean literally right next to, as in it went blocked parking spot, cart return; less than 3 feet away. I cannot believe people.

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                  • #10
                    Sometimes I don't put the cart in the cart return.




                    When the store is closer and I take the cart back inside.

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                    • #11
                      Andara, I get the same way, sometimes. Lately, it's been in my preferred grocery store when I see people abandoning product where it doesn't belong or when they start stealing from the bulk bins. I got after some kid about that a week or so ago; he looked sheepish, but his mom glared at me.

                      The cart thing is a BIG pet peeve of mine, though. I once tried to make a blog about it ( http://straycarts.blogspot.com/ ), but only my wife read it, so far as I know, so it kinda fell by the wayside. Those carts are not cheap--$80 to $120 for most--and replacing one might cost a store an entire day's work from one or two employees. I told one guy that to take the cart out of the store's parking lot was stealing (which it is, in my state--it's even printed on placards on some of the carts with the legal code and everything), but he thought I was making a joke.

                      I say good for you for telling off the lazy shopper.
                      I suspect that... inside every adult (sometimes not very far inside) is a bratty kid who wants everything his own way.
                      - Bill Watterson

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                      • #12
                        The steel carts we use at the Orange Apron cost a LOT more than that. That's why we'll keep using them even if they're completely warped from getting run over by a car. As long as they still roll and hold things...
                        It's little things that make the difference between 'enjoyable', 'tolerable', and 'gimme a spoon, I'm digging an escape tunnel'.

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                        • #13
                          I hate when they don't put back the carts. The last time we went to Safeway, my boyfriend took our cart and the one next to us and the next thing we know some guy threw his cart at my bf and expected him to take his too like he was his servant.

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                          • #14
                            I love it when they put carts in the handicapped spot. And by "love" I mean "don't love." That's beyond trifling, thats...I don't know what that is. Willfully malicious. I'm glad you said something.

                            As for the reject, don't you know? Women are beholden to his ilk to be available to them at all times.

                            Good for you on both counts.

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                            • #15
                              People acting lazy with their carts is one of my buttons. If there's no return around for a notable space, I usually won't bother. We don't tend to get the kind of wind that can push them around, so it's not a danger like it is in other areas. But when you're right freaking next to the thing and you still can't bother putting your cart away? I'm gonna call you out on it. Stupid lazy fucks can't manage... argle blargle snarf...

                              *wanders off muttering expletives*

                              ^-.-^
                              Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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