The Girl I am Dating is a SC!!

[ForestDragon]

Weeeeeeeeelllll, I hate to say it, but.....

"Dating" in this context is making me think of the movies/TV shows where the prostitute leans in the john's car window saying, "Looking for a date?"

[volatile]

I really don't think her and I are going to work out. Maybe I'll tell her I can't see her anymore since she is a SC and it is a conflict of interest for me since I am a member of CS.com

hehe funny. but maybe you should try to work it out and make her a reformed SC. unless of course your differences are to big and can't get a long. if you could change her we'd have one less SC in the world.

[CherryB]

The person you are dating who is nice to you, but not nice to the waiter (or del person in this case) is NOT a nice person.

[zzapp the witch]

As a girl who likes to go out on the first date to specifically watch how the guy treats the waiter/ess, bartend, etc. and has dumped plenty of guys based on this right after dinner was over (and having two of them, who were the worst to the help, stalk her for months), I can only speak from vast experience and tell you to dump her sorry ass and block her phone number and chat.

I see enough psycho chicks giving my gender a bad name, I urge all decent men out there to avoid breeding with them at all costs.

[Mark Healey]

"Civilized men tend to be ruder than savages because they know they can be impolite without getting their skulls split, as a rule.
- Robert E. Howard"

Yes exactly! Wow! GREAT quote! I'm always going on about why people are rude...it's because they know they can because every else is polite. Yes! This says it much better than I did.

Oh, er...sorry.

Along the same lines:

An armed society is a politie society.
-Robert Heinlein.

[Giggle Goose]

I was dating this guy recently and I liked him a lot at first. But after going out a few times, I started making this mental list of things I didn't like. I know, I know, it's horrible; but it all came to a head when he said: "I usually only tip servers 10%." Apparently he had never worked with the public before. After I told him all that I did as a waitress, he told me.......(brace yourself):

"It's not like it's hard or anything."

Me:

Soon I told him it wouldn't work out because I had too much going on in my life or something. I don't think he would have understood that a SC.com-er just can't date an SC.

PS: Giggle Goose doesn't dump guys for trivial reasons, she just thinks that something that might appear to be trivial at first could actually be a pretty strong indicator of personality fits, compatability and the like, which some other cool people before me have already pointed out. That is all.

[myswtghst]

PS: Giggle Goose doesn't dump guys for trivial reasons, she just thinks that something that might appear to be trivial at first could actually be a pretty strong indicator of personality fits, compatability and the like, which some other cool people before me have already pointed out. That is all.

It really is true, though. A guy/girl doesn't have to treat the staff nice. They're only treating you nicely at the beginning to impress you, so the way they treat waitstaff is an indication how he/she will treat you once they no longer feel the need to impress you.

I was taught well, thanks to my dad, who treats pretty much everyone equally and well, unless they give him a good reason not to.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Actually, waiting tables is hands down the hardest, most grueling, most draining job I have ever done in my entire life. I mean that.

" she just thinks that something that might appear to be trivial at first could actually be a pretty strong indicator of personality fits, compatability and the like"

I may have mentioned that I am, in addition to being a sort of jack of all trades, a fortuneteller. What you say in the above sentence is dead on. Personality traits tend to come in sets. If a person has personality trait A, they very frequently have personality type B, and so forth. A reasonably intuitive fortuneteller who learns the nuances of this can do a fair job of convincing her "clients" that she is psychic.

Was I supposed to tell you that? Oops.

[BusBus]

Dump her faster than your bowels dumped that pizza.

How eloquently put

If you haven't done so, get rid of her! Judging by the way you wrote your post, you already know this.

Give us an update too!

[ContraCorriente]

Dump her. Period.

[RentalRacer]

Geesh that was pretty much unanimous, and in line with what all my friends were telling me.

So you will all be happy to know that I did break things off w/her. I can tell it was the right thing to do because I am not sad at all, more relieved than anything. Just works towards proving the statement that beauty is only skin deep.

[ContraCorriente]

Geesh that was pretty much unanimous, and in line with what all my friends were telling me.

So you will all be happy to know that I did break things off w/her. I can tell it was the right thing to do because I am not sad at all, more relieved than anything. Just works towards proving the statement that beauty is only skin deep.

It sounds weird to say 'congratulations' on a break-up, but congratulations on your new-found singleness anyway. :P

[Becks]

I'm glad to know you're done with her. What a bitch.

[BusBus]

Way to go! I'm sure you'll find someone more worthy soon.

[Primer]

Just works towards proving the statement that beauty is only skin deep.

but suckiness goes clear to the bone!