I'm putting this in sightings because of the idiots we came across taking advantage of a death in my family. I'm pretty pissed. I don't have time right now to write it up all at once and if I did, it would quickly fall into tl;dr territory anyway.
I've been out of pocket for several days due to the death of my great grandmother. If you've read any of the off topic threads about my great grandmas, this is the one who had congestive heart failure, not the one with dementia. The one that passed was my maternal grandmother's mother. I've known my great grandma more than a lot of people know their grandmas. She watched me and my brother a lot when we were little. I remember how she'd always bring me a McDonald's hashbrown because I used to love those greasy potato ovals when I was little. She had a great sense of humor to go with a fantastic belly laugh always followed by a snort. While I'm grieving, my grandmother took it VERY hard. This was her mother, so it's understandable. For the last three weeks, she had spent about 12 hours a day at the nursing home with her. My trip to the funeral was as much to support her as it was to say goodbye myself.
I just have two words to say about my flight up since that's not what this thread is about: screaming babies
Moving on, I got there and my grandma was about like I expected. It was so hard to see her like that. She and my grandfather are living in an apartment complex for the elderly in the same apartment my great grandma used to be in. They're in way better shape and younger than anyone there, but they moved there to be closer and take care of my great grandma. They're the ones who do everything for everybody, too, and most of the folks there love them because they're so nice.
I said most of the folks. There are a few that pretend to be nice, but then say nasty things behind their backs. Some people are just miserable. One of them in particular would say nasty things to my great grandma every day, but when my grandma would come along, be so nice. She's just a miserable woman. She also has a reputation for showing up anywhere there's free food. The bank is doing hotdogs to try to get people to come in and open accounts? She's there. A luncheon after my great grandma's memorial? Yep. Word got back to us that she was planning on going even after being such a bitch. After hearing how she had treated my sweet great grandma, I just hoped I wouldn't personally run into her or that I would at least not know who she was if I did.
I also learned it was going to be at the same church where I got married. I had traveled up there to get married so both of my great grandmas could attend since they were in no shape to travel. Once I knew this, I hoped like anything the same pastor and his wife weren't there. They were awful. Everything is about them. Actually, the wedding story is another long list of sightings I should share some time. My great grandma was a member of that church, but loved to go when the previous pastor was there. He had since retired. I hoped the church had gotten rid of these idiots that took his place, but it was not to be.
I've been out of pocket for several days due to the death of my great grandmother. If you've read any of the off topic threads about my great grandmas, this is the one who had congestive heart failure, not the one with dementia. The one that passed was my maternal grandmother's mother. I've known my great grandma more than a lot of people know their grandmas. She watched me and my brother a lot when we were little. I remember how she'd always bring me a McDonald's hashbrown because I used to love those greasy potato ovals when I was little. She had a great sense of humor to go with a fantastic belly laugh always followed by a snort. While I'm grieving, my grandmother took it VERY hard. This was her mother, so it's understandable. For the last three weeks, she had spent about 12 hours a day at the nursing home with her. My trip to the funeral was as much to support her as it was to say goodbye myself.
I just have two words to say about my flight up since that's not what this thread is about: screaming babies
Moving on, I got there and my grandma was about like I expected. It was so hard to see her like that. She and my grandfather are living in an apartment complex for the elderly in the same apartment my great grandma used to be in. They're in way better shape and younger than anyone there, but they moved there to be closer and take care of my great grandma. They're the ones who do everything for everybody, too, and most of the folks there love them because they're so nice.
I said most of the folks. There are a few that pretend to be nice, but then say nasty things behind their backs. Some people are just miserable. One of them in particular would say nasty things to my great grandma every day, but when my grandma would come along, be so nice. She's just a miserable woman. She also has a reputation for showing up anywhere there's free food. The bank is doing hotdogs to try to get people to come in and open accounts? She's there. A luncheon after my great grandma's memorial? Yep. Word got back to us that she was planning on going even after being such a bitch. After hearing how she had treated my sweet great grandma, I just hoped I wouldn't personally run into her or that I would at least not know who she was if I did.
I also learned it was going to be at the same church where I got married. I had traveled up there to get married so both of my great grandmas could attend since they were in no shape to travel. Once I knew this, I hoped like anything the same pastor and his wife weren't there. They were awful. Everything is about them. Actually, the wedding story is another long list of sightings I should share some time. My great grandma was a member of that church, but loved to go when the previous pastor was there. He had since retired. I hoped the church had gotten rid of these idiots that took his place, but it was not to be.
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