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  • Let Me Be Your Witness

    This happened a couple of months ago, but I was still on hiatus, so wasn't here to post it.

    The day was Thursday (I never could get the hang of Thursdays), and the time was 5:15, and I was heading home from work.

    My workplace is in a light industrial area that has a lot of train tracks (between the port and the local switchyard), as well as two freeways that cross nearby, one of which is old and is bordered by a 'river' which makes local traffic rather interesting. (Oddly, they're putting in what looks like a real river to run next to the concrete drainage river. I have no idea how that's supposed to work)

    I'm turning left onto a small side street that crosses over to a fairly busy main street that also has the on and off ramps for the more difficult freeway. There is a 25' rental van ahead of me going a bit slower than the limit, and pulled a bit more to the right than usual for that lane (the lane is double-wide for the entire length to allow for parked tractors with trailers), and between that and me is a woman in a white BMW who is driving like she's in a hurry. I don't know what about the driving style makes me know this, but there have to be clues that my subconscious picks up on. I, meanwhile, have no interest in playing a part in any drama, so am cruising back a good distance waiting for things to resolve.

    The van pulls to the left, which due to the size of the lane doesn't actually take her into the next lane over, and then pulls a sharp turn to the right to get into what would normally be an exit driveway for the school building to the right (school was on summer break at the time). When the van pulled to the left, the impatient woman in the BMW thinks this is her chance and pulls to the right, near the curb, and guns it, planning to finally pass the van that is blocking her from speeding her way up to the signal ahead.

    At this point, I pull over, having watched the entire drama unfold from start to finish, and wait to see what transpires next, now that the BMW has her hood partway under the side of the rental van. There is no way I'm letting this pass, as I was the only one other than the participants that knew what really happened, and the way the cars look, it makes it seem like the van driver was at fault.

    Both women get out. The woman who was driving the van looks to be in her mid-20's and is obviously flustered and a bit shaken. I suspect much of this is due to the fact that she was in a rental. What a nightmare. She comes back to ask if I'll stay and be a witness for her, and I assure her that I have every intention of doing just that. The other woman was a bottle blond in her 30's or 40's, quite agitated and we could hear her yelling at the van driver from our position about a hundred feet back. She also shot me quite a few nasty looks because she knew that she was at fault, and there was no way for her to spin it in her favor with a witness.

    I continue to wait, chatting with Nekojin (who didn't see the accident at all, having been playing the DS), and watching as both women call their insurance companies, and exchange information. Then the van driver comes over, thanks me quite profusely for stopping, and gets my info. The BMW driver only acknowledged my presence by continuing to stare daggers in my direction.

    I got a call that night from a police officer following up on the accident and tell him the relevant details: The van driver never left the right lane, and the BMW driver was very impatient and tried to pass unsafely on the right.

    And, just last week I got a request from the insurance company (dated a month earlier... I hope that things didn't go sour in the meantime) asking for what info I could give. So I filled it out, complete with little drawing of the accident, and sent it back.

    It baffles me how many people pull such stupid maneuvers on that little stretch of road that connects the main industrial artery with the street that lets you on the freeway. The bit of road is only a 1/4 mile long, often has kids walking on the sidewalks, and the street it leads to is very heavily traveled, but not so much that it takes more than a couple of minutes for the right lane, which can back up the entire 1/4 mile, to completely clear out.

    ^-.-^
    Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

  • #2
    From those who have been subject to the 'he said, she said' bit .. and lost..thank you. If somebody like you had been around during the one accident that I was in while driving..the other person would have not gotten away with what they did just because they were wealthy.
    Engaged to the amazing Marmalady. She is my Silver Dragon, shining as bright as the sun. I her Black Dragon (though good honestly), dark as night..fierce and strong.

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    • #3
      I'm glad you were there and stopped. One more inconsiderate driver owned!
      "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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      • #4
        Best witness story I have

        A few weeks ago we were stopped behind a car which was waiting to pull onto the main road.Then we saw a huge van reversing along the pavement (sidewalk) and yes he went smack into the stopped car.

        We got out and offered to be witnesses but the van driver said "no need mate its my fault and I'm a plonker" (Idiot in British slang) He was telling the car driver what a fool he was.

        The cardriver seemed happy enough so we left.
        Customer "why did you answer the phone if you can't help me?"

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        • #5
          I make a point of playing witness whenever I come across a situation that might, in any way, require one.

          In this case it took all of 10 minutes out of my life, but I know it made that poor van driver's day to know that she had more than just her own word about what happened to go on.

          I also stop to help people pulled over on the side of the road, too. And if I don't feel safe doing that, then I call the local highway patrol so they can get someone on it.

          ^-.-^
          Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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          • #6
            I never thought of this. It seems like a civic duty yet nobody ever talks to you about it during school or anything. Next time I see an accident I'll stop and be witness.

            By the way, the car itself can be a witness. Well, kind of. Some implementations of SRS have what's called an Event Data Recorder, that records exactly what the car was doing, and what you were telling the car to do, in the seconds leading up to the crash. This kind of data more often than not makes a reconstruction very doable, and can very easily break a "he said she said" situation. (The exact data recorded varies widely from car to car... some cars even record whether you're wearing your seatbelt.)

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            • #7
              So, a minor update.

              This morning as I'm getting for work, I get a phone call from State Farm about the accident.

              The nice lady asks me a couple of questions to confirm that I'm willing to have them tape my eyewitness report. I agree and she starts things up.

              First she asks me to give my name and spell my last name. Then she asks for my address and phone number. After that, I explain what I saw of the accident. I keep things even, stick to the facts, don't embellish, and don't speculate. It's the same story I gave above, with rather less expository detail. She asks a few questions that I answer, and then the taping part is done.

              I tell her I assume she is representing the woman in the van, which she confirms. She also lets me know that the woman from the white car's insurance was attempting to have the van driver's insurance pay for the damage to the white car. However, it seems that the police had already found the driver of the white car at fault, so I suspect she's going to continue hating me for making her have to pay for her own impatience.

              ^-.-^
              Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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              • #8
                Quoth Andara Bledin View Post
                The day was Thursday (I never could get the hang of Thursdays),

                ^-.-^
                *hands AB a large packet of peanuts and several Pints, then reminds her not to panic*
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                • #9
                  Quoth EricKei View Post
                  *hands AB a large packet of peanuts and several Pints, then reminds her not to panic*
                  Hey, man, I always know where my towel is.

                  ^-.-^
                  Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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