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    Yesterday my boyfriend was riding his bicycle home from work after working late as a favor to his boss. He didn't know I'd gotten out of work early, or I would have picked him up. I should have insisted that I pick him up. His bike is silver, with 2-headlights, and a flashing rear light. He obeys all traffic laws and has been biking to work for 2 years.

    He was riding down the main road, in his lane with the right of way when a man in a truck decided to make a non-stop left-hand turn from a side road. Boyfriend couldn't avoid the truck and tried to swerve, clipping rear of the truck (smashing his taillight ) before tucking and rolling off the bike to avoid oncoming traffic. He called me to say he was going to be late 'because of an accident' which sounded funny, and he finally admitted to me that HE had been in the accident. I actually beat the ambulance to the hospital (we live a mile away). He was immobilized until they took xrays and cat scans. He scraped-up his right leg and arm, but tore-up his left knee as it caught on the bike pedal. The people behind the truck, and the people behind my boyfriend, stopped to help. They got him out of traffic and made sure the guy in the truck didn't leave before the police got there. He has witness phone numbers who swore that he had his lights on and was visible. To the truck driver's (it was a large pick-up) credit, he stayed and kept saying how sorry he was and how he just hadn't seen boyfriend. Boyfriend was loaded onto the ambulance and the police officer was nice enough to keep boyfriend's bike for us, which we picked-up later that night.

    Boyfriend turns-out to have a fractured fibula and possible torn ligaments in the left leg, in addition to the abrasions. He'll be out of work for about 4-weeks and will need some physical therapy and possibly surgery. He was lucky, as he knows how to fall from riding horses all his life.

    The police officer called us at the hospital and, guess what? They arrested the truck driver for a DUI. The guy was actually having his blood drawn at the same hospital we where at.

    Our only other major concern right now is that boyfriend's bike had a gas motor on it. According to all our research into state law, as long as it's below a certain horsepower and speed, you do NOT need a license or to register the bike - it still counts as a bicycle. But we are concerned that because the law isn't clear, that the driver might try to argue that boyfriend was driving an unregistered moped (the only information on moped/scooter/motorcycles/gas-electric bikes I could find were on online forums; there is NOTHING about them even in our state's bike rider's handbook) and therefore he wouldn't be at-fault. I hope it will be a moot point since he was charged with a DUI, and that the fact that, motor or not, boyfriend would still have been riding home on that road, at that speed (because going downhill he wasn't using the motor anyway). The police officer did not seem too concerned about it, and I have never seen a electric or gas powered bike in my state with a moped plate on it. In any case, the driver's main argument seemed to be that he couldn't see boyfriend on the bike. Again, moot point because he had the required equipment and the guy was making a bad left turn.

    So, it's going to be hard for boyfriend to get around the house (we have stairs) on crutches. His work switched to a new insurance provided so we're not sure how much of his expenses will be covered. We don't know if he'll need surgery until he sees the specialist next week. He won't be able to go on the trip we planned for next weekend, nor can he finish the housework he was trying to do before winter sets-in. He's already contacted his lawyer to go over the case and make sure that the driver will have to pay medical and the cost of the bike. He'll probably be called to go to court too. This wasn't something we needed, especially with all the household expenses this month. Just when it looked like things were going smooth too.
    "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

  • #2
    hugs to you and the BF; glad to hear he will be ok, this thread could've had a much different title/ending.... so glad its not.
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    • #3
      A big old hug to you and your bf. Been on my fair share of crutches, and they suck. So glad this didn't have a worse outcome.

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      • #4
        That's all so horrible! I'm happy it didn't turn out worse then it did. Although I know it does sound pretty bad to you right now.

        I hope the insurance is kick ass and the court proceedings go well. And that he doesn't need surgery!

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        • #5
          OMG . . . thank Goodness your b/f is okay, other than the leg injuries. He's lucky he wasn't hurt far worse than that.

          It never fails, doesn't it? Try to take a couple of steps forward and you get knocked back at least three. Sucks royally, but that seems to be the way life works in this day and time.

          I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he doesn't have to have surgery . . . and hope that everything works out soon in his favor with the upcoming court case.
          Human Resources - the adult version of "I'm telling Mom." - Agent Anthony "Tony" DiNozzo (NCIS)

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          • #6
            Quoth Lyse View Post
            So glad this didn't have a worse outcome.
            Amen! And I hope that driver gets nailed to the wall.

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            • #7
              I am so glad he's ok outside of injuries! That other driver didn't see him because he was inebriated. I hope they take his license away and he gets help for his alcoholism.
              "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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              • #8
                Glad to hear that he got away with mostly minor injuries.

                If the other guy was cited for DUI, I doubt it matters much about what he says he could and couldn't see; he was willfully impaired.

                Did the other guy at least have insurance? That should probably be who would pay for the doctors. And any damage to the bike. Generally, though, to get things like time spent not working back, you'd have to sue.

                ^-.-^
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                • #9
                  Yes, the driver has insurance, boyfriend was able to get that information off the police report. His lawyer is already on the case and will handle the insurance company when they contact us; I'm also going to take photos of the bike and his injuries; the bike's front wheel is bent in half, the light broke off and the brakes are locked - the front looks pretty non-salvageable. Boyfriend had his first dr appt. today, got a prescription and a referral to a specialist. For now his leg has to be up, he should ice it, keep the wound clean and flex his foot every now and then. He will DEFINITELY be out of work for the month, as his job involves standing and moving large pieces of equipment.

                  Oh, and according to the report he was hit by a Dodge Ram Pick-up. So we're looking at an over 4,000lb vehicle there, vs. a bike!

                  Thanks for the thoughts everyone!
                  Last edited by LillFilly; 11-11-2011, 01:33 AM.
                  "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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                  • #10
                    It's a sad fact that even when you do everything right, you can't plan for someone doing anything wrong. I'm glad your BF got away with minor injuries, considering what could have happened with just a second's difference in timing either way! Good luck for a speedy recovery & settlement.
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                    • #11
                      I'm so glad your bf is alive and has a chance to recover.

                      Now give this druggie cretin a trip straight to civil court.
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                      • #12
                        The thing is, I feel REALLY guilty about not going to pick him up. I'd just sat down to relax, and decided to call to see if he was on his way home. He thought I was at work and asked me to pick him up on my way home, but when I told him I was already home he decided to just ride his bike. If I had beaten him to it and offered to pick him up anyway, it wouldn't have happened. I keep feeling that if I hadn't been lazy, he'd be OK now. I'm kinda driving him nuts now by hovering over him now I think.
                        "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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                        • #13
                          Quoth LillFilly View Post
                          His work switched to a new insurance provided so we're not sure how much of his expenses will be covered.
                          INAL, but I have been in MANY accidents; some my fault, most not. From my experience, the drunk guy's car insurance should pay for this because he's at fault.

                          YMMV, consult your doctor before discontinuing any medication, and all that disclaimer stuff.

                          ETA: You have no reason to feel guilty, unless you knew this was going to happen and did nothing to prevent it. However, you had no way of knowing, so give yourself a break.
                          Last edited by charred; 11-12-2011, 06:02 PM.

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                          • #14
                            Having been hit by a car, right now the important thing is that your boyfriend heal. My dad wished many years later he'd pursued suing the woman who hit me. As it was, his insurance gave me a settlement because the other woman wasn't insured and she bought me a new bike, mainly out of guilt.

                            The fact that the driver had a DUI is going to be more important a factor than your boyfriends bike. Besides, if it was a issue, I'm sure the police officer who was hanging onto it for you would have said something when you got it back.

                            Take the bike to a professional shop and get estimates for repairs. If repairs cost more than a replacement, get prices for a replacement. Give that to his lawyer and let him kick the driver's insurance butt. He should definitely be paying not only for repairs/replacements, but lost wages, doctor's bills, you name it. Make him realize that driving drunk is a bad idea and that he'll never want to do it again. Ever.


                            Quoth charred View Post
                            ETA: You have no reason to feel guilty, unless you knew this was going to happen and did nothing to prevent it. However, you had no way of knowing, so give yourself a break.
                            Exactly!
                            Random conversation:
                            Me: Okay..so I think I get why Zoro wears a bandana
                            DDD: Cuz it's cool

                            So, by using the Doctor's reasoning, bow ties, fezzes and bandanas are cool.

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                            • #15
                              Update:

                              He goes to the specialist tomorrow, which is good because the pain meds his family DR prescribed are not working and they won't prescribe him anything else before the consultation. He's given all the Driver's information to his Lawyer, as well as the Driver's insurance information to the hospital and doctors for billing. When he contacted the Driver's insurance to get the information to give for billing, though, he found that the Driver told his insurance that my Boyfriend had been driving a MOPED. Not riding a Bicycle. Don't know how he thought that would help him.

                              Boyfriend is very restless, very in pain, and getting depressed. He's tired of reading, watching tv, etc. He's normally very active, so this is wearing on him. I hope he gets a more positive outlook after his appointment.
                              "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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