Customers who hit on you

[AKWalMartCartGuy]

Seriously, I thought looking at another guy while peeing was strictly a big no-no in the little boys' room?

it is a big no-no. if you do it you're open to an extreme amount of derogatory terms

[Canarr]

it is a big no-no. if you do it you're open to an extreme amount of derogatory terms

"You know the rules, newbie: eyes front, no talking!"

[Custard Chick]

Ohhh getting hit on at work. I've got a few of those. Always involved men outside my own race too, I've never been hit on by a white boy while at work. (Btw, I totally support interracial relationships and have crushed on a few black men and currently find my Arab manager quite attractive!)

1. I was about 19 years old at this point working at the custard stand. Delivery man shows up delivering hot dogs. I sign for them, smile, and say "Thanks! Have a good day!" Man proceeds to grasp my upper arm, squeeze slightly, lean back to take a gander at my ass and say, "Mmmhm! You a thick girl, ain't ya!" I freeze, quite disoriented by the invasion of my personal space and sputter something as he makes another inappropriate comment and leaves after receiving no response other than a freaked out look on my face. I didn's take hot dog deliveries for the rest of the year.

2. Currently working at Panera's (great job, btw) and one semi-regular customer will only come to my register when I'm working, even if it means waiting in a long line when there's another cashier open. He compliments my smile all the time and one time asked if I was "murried" and if he could be my Santa Claus.

3. Again at Panera's, when applying I was propositioned to do porn (which he mentioned was going to be published in a magazine that was viewed specifically by African men) by a customer.

4. Two of my new coworkers are currently crushing on me (maybe three). Nice things about this: the guy on the sandwich line will make me anything I want and the guy working the dining room swept and mopped the bakery for me so I could get out earlier when closing.

5. Working at a hospital I was walking down the hall and got a young black boy look me up and down as I passed him, saying, "Mmmhm, hey girl!" I kept walking and he luckily didn't follow.

[smileyeagle1021]

Only if the person doing the looking and nodding says "Nice dick."

Seriously, I thought looking at another guy while peeing was strictly a big no-no in the little boys' room?

men's room rules are too confusing now... perhaps I was tapping my foot or something like that saying it was ok...

on a more serious note, I have been known to glance over at someone as they are walking up... but that's mainly because I'm paranoid and want to make sure this isn't someone sneaking up behind me when I'm vulnerable... that type of looking while peeing seems perfectly acceptable... however, walking up to a urinal and sneaking glances at the person next to you probably isn't the best thing to do at work...

[Ttam]

I don't really remember anyone hitting on me... though I'm really, really oblivious. I've had a few times when I'd be talking with someone or something and after they'd leave a friend would walk up to me and go "Dude! That guy/girl was totally hitting on you!" Then I'd get all disappointed. Honestly, I just don't notice things.... I'm totally a social retard and it gets in the way a lot.

Could stem from a pretty bad experience I had in high school.... I've always been pretty shy and socially inept, but I got this crush on this girl and tried my level best to express myself, but... she ended up getting all freaked out and thinking I was stalking her. Then again, I found out later she really had issues and thought that about any guy who got within an 8 foot radius.... Just my luck.

I haven't been able to make an advance on anyone since. :\

[Dark-Star]

I never got 'hit on' per se at my job...the closest I ever got to that was a few 'mutual flirts' between a few different girls my age and one about 50-ish . Sadly, none of them ever amounted to anything.

Now, I DID get on very friendly terms with one customer - tho talking on the phone to someone in Tennessee when you're in Nebraska doesn't have much room for growth. Xp

[katiegoo]

The worst time I ever got hit on was when I took a delivery to a nursing home. I get in the room and its this kinda biker looking guy who was maybe in his 50's? and his old mother *i think*. Anyways the biker guy looked like he was paralyzed from the waist down but he sure didnt act like it!!!!! He was whistling at me and was saying "Ooooh shes got legs!!!" and then he made me reach into his front pocket to get the money out of his shirt. Im sure he got off on that. He was making all kinds of perverted comments and the old lady just sat there with a blank look on her face. It was terrible. Talk about the place you would LEAST expect to get hit on! A nursing home!!!

[booger]

I only ever get hit on by old guys, it's nasty and depressing. It doesn't help that I am 26 but look maybe 18, so these crusty old farts think they are hitting on someone underage. *gags*

Example: This old dude tells me about how I look exactly like a teacher that he had when he was younger. He went on about how he was too young for her, and too old for me. When I just went on ringing up his items, he follows that up with this little gem:

"You are in the wrong line of work. You should be a boxer. You know why? Because you're a knockout." *groans*

[Lady Heather]

I was Sick as a Dog, hadn't washed my hair in three days, had tissues in both pockets of my sweatshirt (had slight fever was freezing), plus puffy red eyes and nausea. (Plus I look like I'm 19 yrs. 20 tops) And this Early 40's Lawyer from Georgia who "just moved here and would I know anywhere cool to go with him?" asks me out. WTF? He was polite and bought stuff even after I turned him down. But there are rules for this sort of thing:
No means no.
Rather I am seeing someone else is irellevent. No means I don't want to see you.
I am working not crusing for a date.
I'm Gay Yes really No you can't watch. (Yeah I stole that from the Devils Panties I had it printed on a shirt. )
Again I am older than I look. Asking how old they think I am often makes them retract the offer because they think I'm under age

[Eddie The 'Ead]

I've never been hit on at work. However, I have been hit on in an FYE over the summer by a guy asking if I was into dudes.

[Bella_Vixen]

I haven't been hit on at work in months. :/ Outside of work, on the other hand...I'm being propositioned by a friend.

[Ayleah]

I've done a lot of call center style jobs, and I constantly get hit on over the phone.
I guess I have some kind of super sexy voice? Or else there are just a LOT of desperate and lonely men out there. I even had one guy send flowers to me at my office (at that job, the warehouse and call center were in the same building, so he tracked the address via the shipping label, and he had my first name from the calls), fortunately, he wasn't the crazed stalker to the point where he ever traveled across the country to surprise visit me. I can't even count the number of times I've been through the:
Me: Is there anything else I can help you with?
Desperate lonely man: Yes, are you (single) (planning to come to X city) (interested in having dinner with me)?

I think it's funny. And on bad days it's kind of something that makes me smile the rest of the day. I've never really had but maybe 2 customers who were offensive about it, and those you just hang up on, and then have fun repeating the story to everyone, and making notes on their account

[Fawn]

(3yrs ago) On one of my Tech Support call centre jobs I was proposed too twice. The one guy kept trying to convince me and saying he'd take care of me. Had a cute accent too. Had a bf at the time though lol

[Becks]

My getting hit on has gone waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay down lately.

I don't know why.

I feel conflicted.

[Seolta]

Back when I worked in retail, there were a few occasions where an older gentleman seemed about to start trying to flirt(is it just me, or do they all lead into it with "do you have a boyfriend?"?), but were diverted easily enough.

The creepiest, though, was on a slow day in the Garden Center, so there weren't any other customers or coworkers around(nearest being inside, at the pharmacy). On slow days, most of the customers were just passing through on the way to the pharmacy, and that seemed to be the case in this instance...guy stopped by the register on his way in, and says hi. Now, to give you some idea of the situation, this gentleman was rather on the large side, looked to be in his late 30's-early 40's, what hair he had left was all but shaved bare, half his teeth were missing, the other half were icky-looking, and he was covered in tattoos. On his way back out, he stopped and leaned on the counter. "Y'got a boyfriend?"(See? SEE??) He then proceeded to ask me out, several times, wouldn't take "no" for an answer, and started blustering about how it must be the tattoos that were "scaring me off" (No, sir, it's your overall lack of hygiene, combined with the fact that you are quite possibly old enough to be my father). To make things better, I was at the time about 21 or 22, but the customers(and some coworkers, to the point of it being my manager's favorite game to play with her new minions..."How old do you think Seolta is?") regularly guessed my age to be around 16, and this guy never even bothered to ask how old I was. On top of that, his parting words were, "well, I figgered it was worth a shot...you're a real cute li'l girl." rasserfrasserpedophiles...

The only time I've officially been hit on since I started at the library was fairly early on, guy came to use the internet, was given a wait time, and left...called back two hours after his one-hour session was scheduled to start, asked for me personally, and said he wasn't going to be able to make it, so I could give his session to someone else(reservations are only held for 15 minutes, so it had long since been given away), and then asked me out to lunch sometime. I politely declined, all the while wanting to point out that when we pull up their records to check for the "patron has signed paperwork to use internet" note, their date of birth is on the very next line, and while he wasn't the same age as my father, he was certainly old enough to be an adult when I was born.

There've been a couple of nice guys around my age, too...(as opposed to the hormone-ridden teens who are easily put off by an, "Aww, you're the same age as my little brother, how cute!")but they tend to just do the "always come to crush's register/computer" type thing.