Oh, ew. EW

[RecoveringKinkoid]

I had a shortened frenulum when I was born, too. My tongue was pretty much stuck to the bottom of my mouth with a sheet of tissue.

My sister is always going, "I cannot BELIEVE you had her tongue freed!"

[PepperElf]

You don't want to put anything like that on your nipple when you're breastfeeding. You dont' want your baby getting either thing in their mouth.

o yeah good point.

as for the teeth part... i was just remembering back when mom was doing babysitting for extra cash... The baby's teeth were coming in and i guess he took a bite. So, the woman decided "now's a good time to wean!" (not sure how old the baby was tho cos this was liek well over 10 years ago)

but i stand by my other comment... i'll prolly go to hell or have karma creep up on me

[TTAZ]

Poor woman probably had cracked nipples. It happens. Nothing to do with teeth.

Ironically, when they bite you, it doesn't usually draw blood. At least in my experience.

By the time a woman gets to the stage this woman was at; had given birth just a couple weeks ago, trouble breastfeeding, everyone and her brother seeing and discussing her stuff in the hospital, breasts becoming more general child care equipment than personal space, sleep deprivation, the unrelenting physical pain and anxiety of poorly progressing breastfeeding, overwhelmed with the overal upheaval of having a newborn in the house, this chick just didn't give a flying fk at a rolling doughnut anymore. Just whip out a nasty breast pad? Sure. Whatev. Feh.

Believe me, sister, I been there.

TESTIFY!! CAN I GET AN AMEN?!?!?

Hallelujah!

Dear LORD did I have a hell of a time with my little guy. He had a shortened frenulum (ligament under the tongue) and other fun problems that kept him from latching well for the first month or so. As for biting, well, he still gets the good stuff, but from a bottle. He never learned that "don't bite" thing too well, and I couldn't blame him it hurts to teethe he was biting everything. So I switched him to the bottle (with the orthodontic nipples) and my LC and pediatrician were telling me "you can teach him not to do that!" One day I gave up my cool and said "LOOK. If I had wanted them pierced I would have paid a professional in a sterile parlor to do it, not rely on my son!"

Shut 'em up.

[mattm04]

So much for my appetite.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

First off i'm going to hell cos i laughed - either that or god will get sweet revenge on me when i have kids.

second... without knowing any product names, i'd suggest some neosporin, maybe some ambusol ...yeah it's for teeth but if it numbs the inside of your mouth it'll numb that too. and maybe some bandaids or some kind of soft bandage.

third... just wait until the baby grows teeth.

You don't want to put anything like that on your nipple when you're breastfeeding. You dont' want your baby getting either thing in their mouth. Neosporin because, well, it's not something a baby needs to be eating, and the anbesol because while it might make you feel better, it will numb baby's mouth, preventing him from getting a good latch. And improper latch is what causes most of the breastfeeding problems. (not to mention it would probably make it so you couldn't tell if you had a decent latch or not.)

And in my experience at least, by the time they grow teeth, they've learned not to bite. Thank God.

[PepperElf]

"I know this is disgusting, but this is what it looks like. I'm sorry it's gross, my nipple is bleeding"

First off i'm going to hell cos i laughed - either that or god will get sweet revenge on me when i have kids.

second... without knowing any product names, i'd suggest some neosporin, maybe some ambusol ...yeah it's for teeth but if it numbs the inside of your mouth it'll numb that too. and maybe some bandaids or some kind of soft bandage.

third... just wait until the baby grows teeth.

[RedRoseSpiral]

Totally but it has to do with babies, and I just saw it tonight...

I was in Target and passed an endcap with cute little onesies, and one of them was pink and said "One day I will demand a pony."

Heh, that's a good one. I liked the one at Spencers that said "Don't Cuss Around the F*cking Baby" I almost bought it for my friend's lil'boy but her mother-in-law would have had a fit. Might still do it.

That poor woman. I remember when my aunt came to visit with her 4 month old. Her and my mom were telling their horror stories to me.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Oh jeeze... I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first am now thoroughly freaked out

-cuddles own boobies-

I feel so bad for that woman...

Don't freak out, it's simply a learning thing. Get a good lactation consultant, which would probably be available through your hospital. Keep consulting her until you get it. Talk to other moms and get advice.

If you want, PM me. I leaned a lot while I was doing it, and I'd be happy to talk to you if you want to talk to someone who overcame some fairly serious obstacles to breastfeeding and ended up being able to do it with no problems.

[Andara Bledin]

I wonder if Burt's Bees makes something for that sort of problem.

Or maybe bag balm would work, although it is aimed at animals?

^-.-^

[zzapp the witch]

Lansinoh was a GODSEND when I breastfed all three of mine. That poor woman. I'm so glad that I my mother had breastfed all four of us, so I had a network of mothers to ask questions of. Gal needs to wash/airdry and keep Lansinoh on it after every feeding. Won't hurt the baby at all. Wish I could have been the one that she whipped it out to, I woulda fixed her right up.

(My whole first pregnancy, my mom would nag and nag me to "tweak" my nipples while I was in the shower, literally giving myself Purple Nurples, as it were. It worked, I never bled, only blistered).

[Raieth]

my mom swore by shea butter and cocconut creame.

[Pixagi]

Oh jeeze... I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first am now thoroughly freaked out

-cuddles own boobies-

I feel so bad for that woman...

[Pagan]

sorry, I have a sink sense of humor...how are you guys tonight? hahaha

I'm doing great and can't wait for the end of the semester. My last exams are the 23rd.

But I've got one burning question for ya Blinky. What the hell is a "sink sense of humor"? Does it center around the kitchen or the bathroom sink?

I'm sorry, I'm getting punchy. Did I mention finals week?

[STEELMAN]

actually if she was in the states-all the doctor will tell her is "switch to bottles"(us med students get one day of (mis)information on breastfeeding-on information provided by the formula manufacturers-and usually close to a week on bottle feeding)-no matter what the issue is. I had a combination of thrush and a latch problem so it was quite painful-even after I explained to the doctor that my son was highly allergic to both soy and cow milk-his answer to a legitimate medical issue(thrush which when breastfeeding affects the mother's nipples as well as the baby)-was stop breastfeeding

I'm not an expert on this, but maybe it was just the hospital you were at? When my wife had our first child, and each subsequent child and she told the doc that she wanted to breast feed, he had a specialist come in and teach us what to do, the problems we might have and a number to call them if we had any trouble.

[PuckishOne]

Please, if you wish to debate social issues, this is what Fratching was set up for. One more post about healthcare politics in any form and this thread will be closed. Thanks.