Had a customer come into the Sandwich shop the other day with his son. While this boy was physically 5 or 6 years old he clearly had the mental capacity of a 2 year old if that.
The first thing the boy did was run back into the area where the sandwich stuff is (there's only a swinging gate there, no lock or anything) and got about three feet inside before I and my manager stopped him by having to literally block his path. The father told him to get out of there or he would "get burned", the boy did.
Then when the father was ordering the boy tried to come around back again. This time I had to physically push back against him so he couldn't force the gate open and get back here a second time. Again the father tells him to stop it, but this time he doesn't. The kid keeps pushing. Father tells him to stop and "come eat". Kid keeps pushing. Father begs kid to stop and the kid finally does.
Then the kid goes over to our drink machine and starts pressing the buttons so that liquid comes pouring out and goes straight into the drain. The father tells him to stop doing it. The kid ignores him. The father walks over there and tells him to stop doing it again and this time the kid obeys.
He also grabbed an advertising mat off the counter (one of those things by the registers that has some kind of promo or deal showing on it) and turned it into a frisbee, throwing it around. Father got it from him and put it back.
So they sit down to eat and my manager is about to leave for the day. She tells we absolutely cannot let the kid get behind the counter at all and if I have to I can tell them to leave.
She leaves and the kid finishes eating without incident. Then, as the father is trying to refill their drinks so they can leave, the kid tries to get behind the counter THREE more times, each time I had to physically push against him to keep him out.
Then he started to try and crawl underneath (there's a space below the gate, like a bathroom stall has). So this kid is lying face down on the floor, trying to crawl underneath our gate and the father is standing there saying "get up X, come on get up" "it's time to go, you need to get up." "you can't go back there, get up!"
The whole time they were there, the father never once grabbed or did anything physical to the kid, he just kept giving verbal commands.
Lather, rinse, repeat the other two times. The kid also got at the drink machine again (while I was guarding the gate).
I do not blame the kid at all, as this boy was obviously "special needs" , but I do blame the father for having practically no control over him. I could tell this poor man was extremely worn down from dealing with this child, but he knows what the kid his like and he has to realize what precautions need to be taken if the boy goes out in public.
I didn't kick them out because of sympathy, but I was extremely close. I just can't risk having someone get behind the counter and get hurt, especially a child who doesn't fully understand that some of what's back here is very hot or very sharp.
I wonder now if I shouldn't have gone ahead and kicked them out. It was such an unusual situation. I'd never seen a child, even a "special child" behave like that in public.
The first thing the boy did was run back into the area where the sandwich stuff is (there's only a swinging gate there, no lock or anything) and got about three feet inside before I and my manager stopped him by having to literally block his path. The father told him to get out of there or he would "get burned", the boy did.
Then when the father was ordering the boy tried to come around back again. This time I had to physically push back against him so he couldn't force the gate open and get back here a second time. Again the father tells him to stop it, but this time he doesn't. The kid keeps pushing. Father tells him to stop and "come eat". Kid keeps pushing. Father begs kid to stop and the kid finally does.
Then the kid goes over to our drink machine and starts pressing the buttons so that liquid comes pouring out and goes straight into the drain. The father tells him to stop doing it. The kid ignores him. The father walks over there and tells him to stop doing it again and this time the kid obeys.
He also grabbed an advertising mat off the counter (one of those things by the registers that has some kind of promo or deal showing on it) and turned it into a frisbee, throwing it around. Father got it from him and put it back.
So they sit down to eat and my manager is about to leave for the day. She tells we absolutely cannot let the kid get behind the counter at all and if I have to I can tell them to leave.
She leaves and the kid finishes eating without incident. Then, as the father is trying to refill their drinks so they can leave, the kid tries to get behind the counter THREE more times, each time I had to physically push against him to keep him out.
Then he started to try and crawl underneath (there's a space below the gate, like a bathroom stall has). So this kid is lying face down on the floor, trying to crawl underneath our gate and the father is standing there saying "get up X, come on get up" "it's time to go, you need to get up." "you can't go back there, get up!"
The whole time they were there, the father never once grabbed or did anything physical to the kid, he just kept giving verbal commands.
Lather, rinse, repeat the other two times. The kid also got at the drink machine again (while I was guarding the gate).
I do not blame the kid at all, as this boy was obviously "special needs" , but I do blame the father for having practically no control over him. I could tell this poor man was extremely worn down from dealing with this child, but he knows what the kid his like and he has to realize what precautions need to be taken if the boy goes out in public.
I didn't kick them out because of sympathy, but I was extremely close. I just can't risk having someone get behind the counter and get hurt, especially a child who doesn't fully understand that some of what's back here is very hot or very sharp.
I wonder now if I shouldn't have gone ahead and kicked them out. It was such an unusual situation. I'd never seen a child, even a "special child" behave like that in public.
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