Well, don't feel unique; if she 'fought in the trenches' she was probably second wave, so she's used to patronising other women.*
*(Not to say this is true of all second wave feminists, but white cis privilege was a feature of the movement as a whole)
*(Not to say this is true of all second wave feminists, but white cis privilege was a feature of the movement as a whole)

This forum is the only place I don't feel like a stranger in a strange land.
). But she never ever EVER plays the "pity me" game or tries to trump someone on how bad things may have been in the past...and she may wonder why someone might like a particular book, TV show, movie, whatever, but she'd never be so rude as to criticize anyone for it.
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