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  • I'm not having a very good experience either...[a tad on the long side]

    I joined a little while back, but this is my first time posting a SC thread. This just happened today, and it's my first particularly bad SC in a while.

    Backstory! I currently work at a kids book shop at a popular tourist area in British Columbia. It's in a market with lots of other stores, sort like like a little mall. I only work there on weekends, during weekdays I have another job where I don't deal with customers.

    Anyhoo, today was actually fairly busy, I just finished ringing up several customers and the store emptied out except for one lady who'd been browsing for a while. She comes up to the counter with some books and asks me in a kind of exasperated tone if I could gift wrap them.

    I inform her that, regrettably, no I can't. We don't gift wrap.

    This was when the suck happened.

    The lady says in this really snotty tone "Are you serious!!??" as if she cannot believe I won't gift wrap them. It was the sort of reaction you'd expect from someone if you just punched their puppy or something.

    I was just sort of stunned for a moment and not sure what to say, 'cause I really wasn't expecting such a nasty reaction, and then she looks at me and says (again, all snotty and crabby)

    "I am not having a very good [tourist area] experience!!"

    ...well excuse me lady. what crawled up your butt and died? Somehow I've just ruined everything because I can't wrap her books. I'm assuming there must have been more to her day that resulted in her being all crabby, but I'm rather inclined to think it's her own attitude that's causing her problems, not so much the people who work in the area.

    All I can think of at this moment is "are you for real??" I was pretty much speechless.

    She kept going and dropped some line of "what happened to the market I used to shop at?" I'm not sure if she meant a) there used to be another market, or b) that the market service was so much better back in whatever year her nostalgia goggles were tuned to but it's so horrible and terrible now blargle blargle blarg. I'm inclined to assume the latter.

    She then asked if there were any stores that did gift wrap, and I started to say I wasn't sure (we may all be in the same market, but we're all separate shops and I don't even know the names of all the shops in the building, let alone what services they do or do not provide), but then she asked me if there were any other book stores in the market. Still all snotty and rude, and clearly trying to threaten that she was going to take her business elsewhere

    So I just told her there aren't any other book shops in this market, however there's [other bookstore] in [other market] to which she said something along the lines of "No, they're terrible too"

    ... yeah 'too', nice way to insult our store there lady >.>

    So she sets her books down on the counter, as if she's resigned herself to her gift-wrapless fate but is clearly not happy about it, and asks if she could get a gift receipt for them. I figure okay, she's buying them anyways I guess.

    I started to explain our return policy to her, which is books are final sale but we exchange items that are wrapped/packaged provided they're still unopened.

    Clearly this gave her another unhappy (oh noes!) because before I finish explaining she either shoved the books towards me or slapped them down on the counter again (I don't really remember which) and stormed towards the exit of the store in a rather dramatic fashion.

    I had stopped talking mid policy-spiel at the word "exchange" because... yeah.. she was storming off. She got right to the exit, before turning around and asked "They can exchange them?"

    I said no and finished what I'd been saying about exchanges, and she stormed out.

    Her whole tone and attitude was just so entitled, like I was personally ruining her day, or it was my responsibility to somehow improve her "[tourist area] experience" Yeah, I get not being happy about the return policy, lots of people aren't. But to get all in a huff because we don't gift wrap? Seriously?

    And the way she stormed out, I don't know what she wanted. She did it so dramatically, did she expect me to go chasing after her? Or to get upset? I honestly felt more amused than upset by her, though I found her aggravating.

    But oh well, today was actually a good day, I had several really nice customers and I helped a couple of them find books they were really happy with, so at least the kind, polite people had a good "experience", and that matters far more to me that some crabby lady who probably forgot a birthday party or something and decided to blame the world for her problems.

    I apologize if this is somewhat incoherent, it's getting a bit late here. I'll give it a read over tomorrow and make a few edits for clarity if needed.
    Last edited by LuvianBlue; 08-21-2012, 06:05 AM. Reason: fixed a few typos and re-read to make sure things were clear

  • #2
    Step 1: Buy a gift bag.
    Step 2: See, it wasn't so hard, was it?

    I'll never understand what gets anyone so uptight about giftwrapping. For me that's at least half the fun anyway. And with reusable bags coming into fashion (or am I delusional?) it's even easier if you don't like wrapping.

    Of course you were meant to chase after her and offer to wrap it for her and refund it under any condition. "I don't have any pretty, shiny paper, but I can wrap it with my utter disgust for your attitude if you like!"

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    • #3
      Quoth Carsomyr View Post
      "I don't have any pretty, shiny paper, but I can wrap it with my utter disgust for your attitude if you like!"
      And you're right about the gift bags; extremely easy to use, can be reused, and a godsend for people with limited time or who aren't too good with giftwrap. (Hmm, maybe you could ask the boss if he could carry gift bags?)

      Snobby lady is an idiot. Don't let her get to you.
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      • #4
        Quoth LuvianBlue View Post
        or b) that the market service was so much better back in whatever year her nostalgia goggles were tuned to
        Love this

        Madness takes it's toll....
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        • #5
          Quoth XCashier View Post
          And you're right about the gift bags; extremely easy to use, can be reused, and a godsend for people with limited time or who aren't too good with giftwrap. (Hmm, maybe you could ask the boss if he could carry gift bags?)

          Snobby lady is an idiot. Don't let her get to you.
          Then this story would've had a paragraph on how she ranted about the bags not being free.

          "Abandon all hope, ye who enter here".. What SHOULD be posted in all employee entrances.
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          • #6
            Quoth LuvianBlue View Post
            "I am not having a very good [tourist area] experience!!"
            "That's a shame, 'cause it's about to get a LOT worse."

            Quoth LuvianBlue View Post
            service was so much better back in whatever year her nostalgia goggles were tuned to
            Yeah, caught my eye too Merriweather. Nice turn of phrase.


            And I especially liked the fact that you went out of your way to end your post on a high note LuvianBlue. Nice to remember that we CAN bounce back and remember that (in many places) the nice customers still outnumber the SCs.

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            • #7
              Welcome to CS! ^_^

              I honestly have rarely seen book-only stores that do giftwrapping, and even then, usually only as XMAS time ~_~ What a twit.
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              • #8
                Hell, wrapping gifts is the only part I enjoy anymore *sigh* Gift-buying has become a PITA unless I can find what I want online.

                She was just determined to be unhappy, I guess.
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                • #9
                  Good story, LuvianBlue, let's just pray more of her kind don't show up.

                  At the library we use to give away free bags to carry books in (stonger then grocery bads, just don't expect to carry a lot of heavy books), and that's because BP or Reliant or some company made tons of them and gave them to us as possitive publicity (had their name on them). Economy went down, no more free bags. Then we got those reusuable clothe bags, but you had to pay $2 for them. People got pissed that here were no more free bags, and they had to buy bags. Lot of cat-butt faces, though some people understood.
                  Last edited by depechemodefan; 08-21-2012, 02:54 AM. Reason: spelling
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                  • #10
                    Try working with tourists that think they own you for shelling out a couple hundred bucks

                    Good first post.

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                    • #11
                      Yay I like the term 'nostalgia goggles', I'm glad you like my little phrase.

                      Yeah, if we did do any sort of gift wrapping, we'd have to charge for it. Wrapping paper, ribbons, name tags, etc. all cost money. Not to mention making sure everyone is trained to do a decent enough job wrapping, and the time that's being taken away from other customers (only one person works the shop at a time)

                      But of course, SCs wouldn't care about any of that. She probably would have thrown a fit, as Josh said. depechemodefan's story proves that.

                      We actually get a surprising number of people in who are buying a last minute gift for a birthday party or something and are desperate, so carrying some sort of gift bag probably would be a decent idea. At the very least I feel like I should figure out a shop that I can direct people towards, just so I can help out those desperate shoppers who aren't made of suck.

                      Oh yes Whirly_bird, I don't know what profession you work in, I'm assuming that's something you get a lot/really badly? I only occasionally encounter the "I spend a LOT of money here" line, with the implied "so you better do as I say and not piss me off!"

                      It actually was a good day, and in some ways the encounter with this lady made me feel good. I know it sounds weird, but hear me out.

                      Most of the time when customers get upset they start out nice and then it goes downhill, and I'm often left feeling like I wish I could've done something. Even when I know I handled things correctly and there was nothing I could do, I wish that I could have figured something out that would have worked out for everyone.

                      Occasionally, however, there are those encounters that turn sour, where I realize something:

                      Though I'm stuck in a crappy situation, I don't feel like crap.

                      I don't care.

                      In fact, the situation is kind of amusing.

                      And sometimes that is one of the nicest feelings in the world. To just be able to let a nasty event roll off of you and laugh at it.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth LuvianBlue View Post
                        Oh yes Whirly_bird, I don't know what profession you work in, I'm assuming that's something you get a lot/really badly? I only occasionally encounter the "I spend a LOT of money here" line, with the implied "so you better do as I say and not piss me off!"
                        If you google my name, you should be able to figure out what kind of tourists i work with. most of the time, i think the "I spend money" line is just a bluff; in my work it's usually true. Still doesn't make their entitlement any less annoying.

                        It's cool you can let it roll of so easily. care to teach me how to do that?

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