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  • Behold, the power of asking nicely!

    ...And making it a reasonable request, too.

    So I noticed the other day that Walmart had some long-sleeved t-shirts in the men's department that were pretty neat (to me). They had the layered look due to having long sleeves of a complementary color sewed under the short sleeves of the t-shirt, and most of the designs were retro-look logos: Batman symbol, Thundercats symbol, Green Lantern symbol, and my favorite, Sonic's head in blue against the red t-shirt. Only problem to me was that they were $12 for a t-shirt/beanie combo, and I didn't really want to spend that much just for the shirt (since I didn't really want the beanie).

    Yesterday I was at a closer Walmart picking up some stuff, and deicded to get a closer look at the shirts anyway. That's when I noticed that two of them were missing the beanies, and one of those was in my size. Unscrupulous people must've walked off with the beanies and left the shirts behind, since all the other tags were still attached. So I took the one in my size up to the service desk to ask if I could get a discount since it didn't have the hat and I didn't really want the hat anyway. Couldn't hurt to ask, right? Worst case scenario is that they say 'no' and I just buy a complete set and give the hat to one of my kids.

    Long story short, they knocked off $2 for me, so now I have an awesome Sonic the Hedgehog t-shirt. All I had to do was ask politely for a discount. I didn't demand, I didn't try to set the price for them, I didn't throw a fit, and I was all set for a negative answer.

    Take that EWs!

    I learned this trick from my mom, who would regularly check clothes at clothing stores to see if they had some defect that would normally make the item unsellable. For instance, a sweater with a decent hole in the front causing it to unravel. My mom is quite handy with clothing and can fix most of those defects, and usually got them at a discount just by asking nicely. I figure it's a case of the store realizing it can either damage out the item and make no money, or sell it to a willing customer for a discount and recoup some money.
    "Enough expository banter. It's time we fight like men. And ladies. And ladies who dress like men. For Gilgamesh...IT'S MORPHING TIME!"
    - Gilgamesh, Final Fantasy V

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    Yes. I'm not half as offended with people who ask nicely as I am with entitlement . . . I put up with that kind of thing from one person; my black & white owner who likes bird-watching and killing spiders and really hates dogs and all other members of her own kind.
    Customers should always be served . . . to the nearest great white.

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    • #3
      You know, I rarely get told "No." Even when I'm not really entitled to whatever it is I'm asking.

      The reason is that I say up front "I totally understand if you can't do it for me, I just thought there was no harm is at least asking." And I am nice about it. And I mean it when I say it.

      Set the tone of the conversation in a way that you are a nice person at their mercy, and won't get mad even if they tell you no, and they won't tell you no if they have it in their power to tell you yes.

      People do not mind doing favors for respectful, easygoing people. What chafes them is having to do favors for assholes and entitlment whores.

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      • #4
        Exactly. Everyone's so much happier when the customer is nice about it, and the customer still frequently gets their way (within reason).
        "Enough expository banter. It's time we fight like men. And ladies. And ladies who dress like men. For Gilgamesh...IT'S MORPHING TIME!"
        - Gilgamesh, Final Fantasy V

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        • #5
          My mother always said, 'just ask. the worst they can say is 'no'.'
          Of course, my mother is always polite, and she taught me to be polite too.
          I ALWAYS went out of my way for polite people who asked for things nicely.
          I no longer fear HELL.
          I work in RETAIL.

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          • #6
            I'm always polite,until it's time to not be polite (paraphrasing the line from Roadhouse).

            When Mrs Frantic & I go on our road trips & we stop in a store that has something we want,I'll say,with a big smile & friendly tone "Hey,we're not tourists,we live here,can you give us a break on that?"

            It's worked 99.9% of the time,I usually get 10-30% off.
            "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous he will not bite you.This is the principal difference between a man and a dog"

            Mark Twain

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            • #7
              Quoth Frantic Freddie View Post
              I'm always polite,until it's time to not be polite (paraphrasing the line from Roadhouse).
              Totally OT, but that's a way better movie than it looks like it should be.

              ^-.-^
              Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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