I haven't really talked about this...

[Akasa]

Biopsy is back. It's cancer. He has opted not to treat it and to go into hospice care.

[raw1989]

Oh my im sorry for you no words I say will come close to knowing what you are going threw but please take some time out of the day for yourself or you may end up like this

[csquared]

Hugs, prayer and all the good vibes I can muster are heading your way. Please share with the families.

[Kristev]

I don't know what to say.

[RootedPhoenix]

*hugs Akasa* <3

[Mental_Mouse]

I am so sorry for you.

[Akasa]

I'm in a better place now that I have had some D&D time...

Yesterday I asked mom for an update on Granpa...

"Oh, I'm sorry...
He passed last night about 11:30."

Keep in mind it was 3:30 pm I asked for an update after days of not hearing anything. Which makes me wonder... WHEN THE FUCK WERE YOU GOING TO TELL ME!?

[csquared]

You have my sympathies. May he rest in peace.

[DGoddessChardonnay]

Sad to say this, but families do suck at times. And usually it's at the worst of times (like during a family loss.)

As I'm coming to realize, time will take care of things. It may not seem like it, but one day at a time is probably the best way to handle these things. Whatever way you find is best to deal with the loss, follow it.

And don't forget, we're always around here.

[Akasa]

Last night I sent a text to my therapist.(I have her cell #)
She called me back this morning and spent like an hour on the phone with me.
I think I can make it to our appointment Thurs now.

[protege]

Damn. This just sucks

[Akasa]

Oh, it gets better!

After DAYS of hearing NOTHING about a funeral I call Dad:

"I thought someone would have told you by now!"
"No Dad! Nobody tells me anything! When is it?"
"Saturday."
"That's not a lot of time to make arrangements, I'm not sure I can make it..."

Meanwhile in my head I'm thinking "FUCK YOU ALL! I'm not even going to TRY!"

[raw1989]

im so sorry

[RootedPhoenix]

.....*hugs Akasa lots*

Those people in your family....are not being nice. They really should have kept you in the loop!

[morgana]

Damn, hun; life really decided to take a dump on you, didn't it?

And your family sucks.

Let us know how we can help.