A letter for my ex, what do you guys think? (epic)

[Jester]

How is my son better served by having that in his life when he has a mom and a granny that actually look after him, pay attention to him, and clean the house regularly?

Short answer: he isn't.

Longer answer: The letter is good for therapy, but he is a mindless troll, and won't give too figs about it. To him, it will be only so much shit. If you do send him a letter, it should be very legal and businesslike, and simply stick to the facts. I.e.:

"Due to your continued failure to meet your child support obligations, and your continued negligent attitude towards your child, your visitations are being curtailed/cancelled until such time as you assume your parental responsibilities, both financially and emotionally."

I am sure your lawyer can help you draw something up.

Jester answer: Dude is a fuckwaffle that needs parental lessons at the end of a Louisville Slugger, preferably mind after a bad day of dealing with drunk SCs, obnoxious children, and my older sister.

[TTAZ]

Writing the letter has helped a little bit, but it's just driven home how much anger I have built up over the years towards this man. It's like an emotional ulcer, and I don't know how to get rid of it. The worst bit it the bitterness. It just comes out all the time in little bits, and it has been commented on, and I hate that too. If there wasn't a child involved, I could care less who or what he does, but the fact of the matter is, he is my son's father and like it or not he is going to be in my son's life (and to an extent, mine) for the next 16 years or so.

[wagegoth]

I keep reminding myself that if I am angry then I am allowing that person to have power over me. It gives that person power. Why would I want someone like that to have power, especially over me?

Besides, assholes like that love that you're angry and miserable, and they enjoy that they can still affect you.

Let the court and the DA deal with him.