But only because I may actually commit it.
As many of you know, I have three teenage nieces, and I love them all to death, even when they are horrible people. In the past, I've spoken often about how the eldest, Princess, is probably the most mature and best behaved and least trouble.
Throw that shit out the window with the rest of the trash.
Princess, who is 19, and thus an adult (as she never tires of telling me) has a new boyfriend. They are now official. They've been dating only a few weeks. As far as I know she's known him a month or less. And now, just as they became official, she is moving in with him.
And that is not the punchline. This is:
He's 42.
I remember when she was 17 and dating a 21 year old Marine, and how I freaked. How I yearn for those days.
Now, I know for a fact that there are May-December romances that work. They are rare, but they exist. And in pretty much every one of those that I've seen, it takes an extraordinary maturity on the part of the younger party. While Princess has some traits that are beyond her years, she has many that are way under. When averaged out, she really is a typical 19 year old, for both good and ill. Hell, there are times when I just can't stand to hear her talk, because it is so much teenage bullshit. AND she considers anyone her roommate's age (28) or older to be "old." Naturally I am a fossil to her. And I'm 2 years younger than this dude.
Her roommate is one of my best friends, Little Red. And Red things this guy is pretty much a douchebag. My first impression of him was pretty much the same. Red and I were watching tv in their apartment, when Princess and Ole Douche came in for a few minutes. Now, there is virtually no way he didn't know who I was, because I guarantee you she said something to the effect of, "I have to warn you, my psycho uncle is hanging out with my roommate." Even if for some reason he didn't, when you walk into someone's house and there is someone you don't know, don't you normally introduce yourself? "Hi, I'm Ole Douche, pleasure to meet you." Yeah, people with manners do that. But Ole Douche said not. one. word. to either Red or myself. No, Princess didn't introduce us either, but I kinda know why....she didn't want me embarrassing her. Fine, she has no manners either, but I understand her motivation. But as the only representative of her family here in the Keys, don't you think that Ole Douche might want to make a good impression on me?
Now, herein lies another part of the problem. In almost every case in the past, any boyfriend Princess had I was able to at least partially intimidate, despite them often being larger than me. I'm good like that. This guy is not someone that will be intimidated by me. He's not just larger than me, he's a lot larger than me. You've heard the expression "built like a brick shit house"? Ole Douche is NOT built like a brick shit house. Brick shit houses are built lie him! And he's a bouncer. Wait, no, not just a bouncer. He's the head bouncer at one of the larger bars down here. So my usual psychological warfare is not going to make him shake in his boots. One of my customers today suggested that I employ a gun for intimidation. There are two problems with that. One, I don't own a guy. Two, I have no doubt that he has the training and ability and psychological makeup to take the gun from me and beat me silly with it.
That being said, I told Princess tonight that we need to have a talk. She said "maybe." I told her, look, you may not agree with what I say, but we NEED to have a talk. This is NOT a request.
What is also going to happen is I am going to sit Ole Douche down and have a chat with him. I will be polite by asking Princess to set this up. I have no doubt that she will either refuse or say she will have to be there. Um, no. This is going to be a private chat. And if she refuses? Well, I know where the fucker works. I'll go to the source. Because he and I ARE going to have a chat. And I will ask him, because I am subtle and diplomatic, "What the fuck are you doing dating a 19 year old?" Look, I understand a 42 year old guy wanting to fuck a 191 year old girl. I get that completely. And I wish this guy was just chasing some tail. But to have her move in? That's a relationship, and that I just don't get, because she really is a typical teenager in so many ways.
And one thing I am going to tell him is that, despite the fact that he's much larger than me and could undoubtedly beat me to a pulp, if he strikes her or lays a hand on her violently, I WILL break bones he didn't know he had, and then I will kill him. You. Don't. Hurt. Jester's. Nieces. And. Live.
God, I am so pissed. I am ANGRY. I am going to run a background check on this asshole, and I am so pissed, that I'm willing to pay the $29.95 or whatever fee those sites have to do so. I want him thoroughly vetted. If anyone knows of a good site to use, please let me know. Also, if anyone knows a good hit man, I might need his services. Yes, I'm joking about that last part. I already told you folks, I would kill him myself.
Okay, I'm gonna go find something to hit violently now. Meh.
As many of you know, I have three teenage nieces, and I love them all to death, even when they are horrible people. In the past, I've spoken often about how the eldest, Princess, is probably the most mature and best behaved and least trouble.
Throw that shit out the window with the rest of the trash.
Princess, who is 19, and thus an adult (as she never tires of telling me) has a new boyfriend. They are now official. They've been dating only a few weeks. As far as I know she's known him a month or less. And now, just as they became official, she is moving in with him.
And that is not the punchline. This is:
He's 42.
I remember when she was 17 and dating a 21 year old Marine, and how I freaked. How I yearn for those days.
Now, I know for a fact that there are May-December romances that work. They are rare, but they exist. And in pretty much every one of those that I've seen, it takes an extraordinary maturity on the part of the younger party. While Princess has some traits that are beyond her years, she has many that are way under. When averaged out, she really is a typical 19 year old, for both good and ill. Hell, there are times when I just can't stand to hear her talk, because it is so much teenage bullshit. AND she considers anyone her roommate's age (28) or older to be "old." Naturally I am a fossil to her. And I'm 2 years younger than this dude.
Her roommate is one of my best friends, Little Red. And Red things this guy is pretty much a douchebag. My first impression of him was pretty much the same. Red and I were watching tv in their apartment, when Princess and Ole Douche came in for a few minutes. Now, there is virtually no way he didn't know who I was, because I guarantee you she said something to the effect of, "I have to warn you, my psycho uncle is hanging out with my roommate." Even if for some reason he didn't, when you walk into someone's house and there is someone you don't know, don't you normally introduce yourself? "Hi, I'm Ole Douche, pleasure to meet you." Yeah, people with manners do that. But Ole Douche said not. one. word. to either Red or myself. No, Princess didn't introduce us either, but I kinda know why....she didn't want me embarrassing her. Fine, she has no manners either, but I understand her motivation. But as the only representative of her family here in the Keys, don't you think that Ole Douche might want to make a good impression on me?
Now, herein lies another part of the problem. In almost every case in the past, any boyfriend Princess had I was able to at least partially intimidate, despite them often being larger than me. I'm good like that. This guy is not someone that will be intimidated by me. He's not just larger than me, he's a lot larger than me. You've heard the expression "built like a brick shit house"? Ole Douche is NOT built like a brick shit house. Brick shit houses are built lie him! And he's a bouncer. Wait, no, not just a bouncer. He's the head bouncer at one of the larger bars down here. So my usual psychological warfare is not going to make him shake in his boots. One of my customers today suggested that I employ a gun for intimidation. There are two problems with that. One, I don't own a guy. Two, I have no doubt that he has the training and ability and psychological makeup to take the gun from me and beat me silly with it.
That being said, I told Princess tonight that we need to have a talk. She said "maybe." I told her, look, you may not agree with what I say, but we NEED to have a talk. This is NOT a request.
What is also going to happen is I am going to sit Ole Douche down and have a chat with him. I will be polite by asking Princess to set this up. I have no doubt that she will either refuse or say she will have to be there. Um, no. This is going to be a private chat. And if she refuses? Well, I know where the fucker works. I'll go to the source. Because he and I ARE going to have a chat. And I will ask him, because I am subtle and diplomatic, "What the fuck are you doing dating a 19 year old?" Look, I understand a 42 year old guy wanting to fuck a 191 year old girl. I get that completely. And I wish this guy was just chasing some tail. But to have her move in? That's a relationship, and that I just don't get, because she really is a typical teenager in so many ways.
And one thing I am going to tell him is that, despite the fact that he's much larger than me and could undoubtedly beat me to a pulp, if he strikes her or lays a hand on her violently, I WILL break bones he didn't know he had, and then I will kill him. You. Don't. Hurt. Jester's. Nieces. And. Live.
God, I am so pissed. I am ANGRY. I am going to run a background check on this asshole, and I am so pissed, that I'm willing to pay the $29.95 or whatever fee those sites have to do so. I want him thoroughly vetted. If anyone knows of a good site to use, please let me know. Also, if anyone knows a good hit man, I might need his services. Yes, I'm joking about that last part. I already told you folks, I would kill him myself.
Okay, I'm gonna go find something to hit violently now. Meh.
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