Tried to be a gentleman long ago...

[Plaidman]

Not always. I did bad approaches too.

I also taken some of the worst rejections very unreasonablly too. So it does go both ways.

[HorrorFrogPrincess]

Well, that happens. I would have expected the GOOD approaches to get some positive response.

Maybe the fellows are more polite in Portland? Can honestly say I've never been approached with that kind of politeness. >< Nor have things ever ended in a way that would result in a post-potential-romance friendship.

Not always the guy's fault, either. Though to my credit, I'm avoiding one because I don't like his opinion on gay marriage and adoption, and the other had some signs of violent tendancies, which I want to keep FAR away from me.

[Andara Bledin]

Better wording was, act midly disintrest. Choose the entire date rather then asking what she wants, etc.

Feh. Anyone who plays ing games can take a hike. This sort of activity shows a marked lack of maturity and will only appeal to others with that same lack of maturity.

Happy being alone, should equal being alone.

I'm happy making what I make at my job. But I sure as hell am not going to turn down more money just because I'm not displeased by what I'm currently making.

Since your the mistress of dating knowledge, and know how all people can get that date and SO, do tell me, through what little you know of me online, what do I do to get that date?

But I'm rambling, and I doubt you'll get a single sentence. So I'll just shut up, and just let you go on beliving that it's completely and utterly my fault that woman will only be friends with me.

To put it bluntly in black and white: Try to figure out a way to stop being quite so bitter, condescending, and dismissive of others when it comes to relationships.

Massive turn-off except for certain flavors of masochists.

Re: Stories -
Based only on the 4 examples you posted, I'm thinking that you're putting off a vibe that goes way past "nice guy" and all the way into "safe." I don't know if they think you're gay or asexual or anti-relationship or what, but it seems like all 4 of them (particularly 1 & 4) associated with you that comfortably specifically because they believed for whatever reason that you wouldn't ever ask them out.

^-.-^

[Plaidman]

Fine.

My bad. Totally fine to laugh at a person like that. Totally fine to make fun of everyone for any reason huh Andara.

I may be bitter and hateful towards others towards relationships, but hardly shows in reality. Online sure. Not in the real world.


I'm happy making what I make at my job. But I sure as hell am not going to turn down more money just because I'm not displeased by what I'm currently making line of yours is great.

Basically shows that pretty much is a lie that people who love themselves and can be happy alone. Even people that love themselves wouldn't mind being in one, just like others that don't /love/ themselves and act like they can live life by themselfs.

Really hypocrite.

[HorrorFrogPrincess]

Fine.

My bad. Totally fine to laugh at a person like that. Totally fine to make fun of everyone for any reason huh Andara.

I may be bitter and hateful towards others towards relationships, but hardly shows in reality. Online sure. Not in the real world.


I'm happy making what I make at my job. But I sure as hell am not going to turn down more money just because I'm not displeased by what I'm currently making line of yours is great.

Basically shows that pretty much is a lie that people who love themselves and can be happy alone. Even people that love themselves wouldn't mind being in one, just like others that don't /love/ themselves and act like they can live life by themselfs.

Really hypocrite.

A) I think Andara was refering to your responses to ME, which were less-than respectful.

B) People don't NEED cars, TVs, books, computers, soda, alcohol, junk food, movies, coffee, pizza, or a lot of other things to be happy.

But hey, it's nice to have, isnt' it? Not necessary, and you can live very happily without them.

[Peppergirl]

Seriously?

Closed.

And you ALL know why.