Surprise! You're Going to Jail!

[Sapphire Silk]

OH, man. This is awful. I'm so sorry.

What has this done to your job?

[Mishi]

*Big hugs* This is complete and utter bullshit, I hope that it ends soon in a positive way for you *More hugs*

[Der Cute]

Big hugs, and get police report. I'm sorry. At least the cops treated you nicely. Does your CO know and is ok w/ this shit?

[Squeaksmyalias]

I'm VERY VERY angry for you, that is seriously messed up and unfair. *hugs tightly* I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.

[Mikkel]

I really, really, REALLY want this over with already. Just let me move on with my life.

It will be over some day. You just have to get through the next months as well.
I wish anybody could tell you a time when the harassment will be over. I'm afraid even your attorney can't do that, but one step at the time things will get better as every move your ex tries is countered and the officials see who is the victim in this.

[42_42_42]

This whole situation is so fucked up. I am royally pissed on your behalf. Glad you didn't have to stay "downtown" too long at least.

[morgana]

Oh, Jesus polka-dancing Christ . . .

Kara, I so wish I could help! This is just so WRONG!

[Kara]

Sigh, and I had been having SUCH a good day today. Until about 7:30.

My doorbell rang. I was shocked to find 3 police officers at my front door. They told me there had been an alleged violation of my PFA order and asked me if I knew about that. I said I did, told them the situation. Explained that my attorney is already aware of it, has stated it should never have been an issue, and I have court Monday afternoon to take care of it.

Then they told me there was a warrant for my arrest and they had to take me in. Keep in mind, they sounded every bit as confused as I was about the whole thing. So there I am, just barely having come back home from out of town dr's appointment and shopping, and I get arrested again. I hadn't even "relaxed" yet, so I was lucky to not have been hauled off "en femme," although my bra is clearly visible under the back of my shirt. But the nice officers let me get my keys out of my purse so I could lock up behind us.

They told me on the way to the jail that I didn't have to have a bond hearing so as long as I could make bond tonight, I would be out of there in 2 or 3 hours. So I got booked, then I called the guy who handled my bond the first time, called my parents, and they said they'd take care of it. I never left Booking, didn't have to get nekkid or wear a jumpsuit this time. The bondsman was there within an hour, and about another hour later my parents came and I got out.

This makes no sense to me at all. The officers who arrested me sounded every bit as confused as I was. Left a message with my attorney when I got home, he's going to be seriously pissed about this, and I'm glad. Because I'm too shocked and confused to be pissed right now, so it might as well be someone who knows the legal system and what to do about it.

I really, really, REALLY want this over with already. Just let me move on with my life.