As you know, I've been dealing with a health issue for several months now. I had extensive surgery last month, and chemo just started up again.
Not long after I returned from the hospital following surgery, I got a message on a dating site where I'm a member. This guy has a lot in common with me, and we've been chatting pretty frequently. I'm being careful, of course, and not telling him too much about myself.
He doesn't know about my health issue. We've only been chatting for a few weeks, and I feel it's much too early to tell him about it. My question is, when would be the best time to tell him? After the treatment ends, assuming that we're still chatting? Months after it ends? I haven't been in a relationship (if you can call it that) in ages, and I honestly don't know how to behave with a decent guy. I've been on the shelf for a hell of a long time.
Advice?
Not long after I returned from the hospital following surgery, I got a message on a dating site where I'm a member. This guy has a lot in common with me, and we've been chatting pretty frequently. I'm being careful, of course, and not telling him too much about myself.
He doesn't know about my health issue. We've only been chatting for a few weeks, and I feel it's much too early to tell him about it. My question is, when would be the best time to tell him? After the treatment ends, assuming that we're still chatting? Months after it ends? I haven't been in a relationship (if you can call it that) in ages, and I honestly don't know how to behave with a decent guy. I've been on the shelf for a hell of a long time.
Advice?
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