I'm A Loser Baby, So Why Don't You Kill Me?

[Greenday]

Move to NJ. I'd love to hit up dog parks or zoos.

Not sure about bowling though. I'd feel kinda bad about whooping you!

I get sick of some of my friends (mainly the female ones) pretty fast. One just gets trashed and picks up losers then whines about how much of a loser they are and how bad they treat her. One won't go out except for special occasions ever since she got a boyfriend. Ones a total skank. You get the idea.

Last year one of my friends and I had to flip out on our group for being so ridiculous. I think the message reached a grand total of one of them.

[Cat]

I've got some friends that all they do is smoke and drink at their place.....which is fine. Its safer than driving after having fun......but I ain't driving 1.5 hrs just to drink, esp when they do not drive down to see me.

Zoos are fun....bowling is always good time...man, I need more cheap local fun things to do as well.

[Becks]

Hey, I bowl! Poorly.

We can have a contest to see who gets the most gutter balls! Everyone who bowls a strike has to pay money.

I'll kick all yer asses!

Sounds like fun to me!!

Now I want to go bowling, go to the zoo, and go back to NJ. Yay?

[blas]

Maybe if we're nice enough, they'll put the bumpers up for us so no one gets gutter balls hahaha.

[Becks]

Or I can haul some of the younger nieces and nephews along...

[blas]

Yeah, they really only do that for kids.

I better get some more practice in with my pink 8 pound ball.

[blas]

Oh back on topic now.

Want to know what else is nice about not going to the bar anymore? No more worrying about stuff being stolen. I have more cigarettes. I have more money. I don't lose anything. I don't come home with stains on my clothes or awful smells. No unexplainable bruises or cuts from falling. No more broken-off heels.

And for my bf, if he'd quit going out, he'd find his car not getting vandalized anymore.

The way people are around here, I can't see how I even allowed my piece of crap Neon to be subjected to garbage thrown around or on it, people just walking past and using it to stand by and talk or to lean on my bumper to tie their shoes.

[Whiskey]

Want to know what else is nice about not going to the bar anymore? No more worrying about stuff being stolen. I have more cigarettes. I have more money. I don't lose anything. I don't come home with stains on my clothes or awful smells. No unexplainable bruises or cuts from falling. No more broken-off heels.

the hale do you do in a bar? Ive never had any of this happen.

Canadialand is dangerous.

[AdminAssistant]

Canadialand is dangerous.

Blas is in Wisconsinlandia, and I've had similar happen to me in bars in KC.

[blas]

Most of the time I'm a freak about not leaving my purse even anywhere near detached from my arm or my grasp. But if I settle down and stay at the same chair for a long time, I'd leave my smokes and lighter and a few bucks by me at all times. It'd help keep the bartender coming right to me.

I can't recall a person blindly stealing from me, other than a drunk chick trying to make off with several winter jackets one winter (and my bf chased her down, picked her up and shook her so she lost her grasp of all of them, but she looked so out of it, when he put her down, she walked away without a word or even half an expression). He normally doesn't get physical with girls, but she was trying to take off with several Colombia coats.

Bf has had people steal ciggs from him, though he's not the smartest and his ADHD keeps him from remembering to keep them with him.

The bars we used to frequent were nearby campus and college housing, and people there think nothing of throwing their refuse all over the roads and vehicles parked nearby.

[Whiskey]

did you answer my question, i didnt see it. or are you not going to

either works, just wondering.

[Mytical]

I would love to have somebody to hang out with that wasn't into drinking (and knew fun things to do). Usually stuck as the DD (fun fun), because I prefer not to chance drinking (I CAN drink but there is better odds it will make me really sick then not). So you ever find yourself in Ohio, I'll bowl with you, or whatever. Don't think I've ever topped 100 bowling, but I bowl for fun..not competition.

[blas]

You'll have to pardon me, Whiskey. I generally avoid answering that question because it's been asked before, and on Fratch there was a thread or two where several members just hopped on the "dump him!" band-wagon.

I see this place (or Fratch if more suited) as a safe haven to vent. I never over-share or risk my security, but I see it as a place to vent about people or things I just can't talk about to anyone else or I tire of talking to myself about. If I complain about my job to my parents, I get "You should be happy you have a job! Blargle!" or if I vent to friends it's "He's such a loser why don't you dump him?!!!" (meanwhile they are three sheets to the wind drunk and trying to go home with some random idiot who is giving them the oogle eyes). I realize that making threads like these open for advice and it's up to the member to take them. In the past I have given some shitty advice or hopped on the "You need to get a new job!" bandwagon or "You need to move!" before, and realized it's not always that realistic and not everything is always as it seems.

I mainly post negative things, mostly because I can't say them elsewhere or it lifts a giant weight off of my shoulder after typing it out. I felt the world better after making this thread because it was like "Yes finally it's out! Whew!" I wish I had more positive things to say about work or my relationships or friends.

He's not a bad person, he just has his own problems. He's overcame a lot. I'm very proud of him for getting off of probation and being able to drive again. Unlike a typical loser, he doesn't leech off of me. Has never asked me for anything. Anything I've ever bought for him was my own choice. Not like I don't have my own problems. I'm one of the most anxious/panicky people you'll ever meet. This guy is the only one in years (ask some of the older members here, they've been through my relationships with me!) and he is the ONLY one that I haven't scared away or hasn't become so scary in a flash that I need to run away. I scared away many a guy before him. It still puzzles me to this day how he's still there, when others would have bailed months or even a year or more ago.

Maybe I'm a hypocrite, one page defending him, another bashing him, but it felt good to vent.

[BlaqueKatt]

Edit to add: I love bowling, but no one ever wants to go. I suck at it and I don't care. I think it's fun.

I love bowling!-too bad you don't live closer....I even have a pink hello kitty bowling ball and shiny purple bowling shoes-

[McGoddess09]

I love bowling!-too bad you don't live closer....I even have a pink hello kitty bowling ball and shiny purple bowling shoes-

You're only an hour away from me when I am at school. I would love to see that!

Big Sis, you have my number, feel free to text or call me if you need to vent. I will mainly listen.