Shopping Sucky Person

[earl colby pottinger]

This is something I am always pointing out.

Thru the years I have had a number of girlfriends. At some point in the relationship they start lamenting about their weight and insist that us men want the skinny runts you find in the fashion magazine. Yes, some men do like their women skinny, but pick up a Penthouse, PlayBoy or other magazine that men spend *THEIR OWN MONEY* on.

Women buy fashion magazines full of pictures of very skinny women, and think that is what men want. If that was true why are so few of these type of women appear in the mags that men will spend money on. MEN WANT GIRLS WITH MEAT. You could hurt oneself on those bony ones.

[karath]

She should have been
That's just an appalling, terrible thing to say to anyone. Oh, Aethian let me be the first to do this,

Think I just lost the battle for most distinct emotes in a single post there.

More on topic...

Wow. Just wow. Sooo, who thinks that the woman in the OP was competing for Biggest Bitch in the World trophy? Let's all pray/hope karma comes back and bites her in her flat ass.

Despite karma's wonderful ability to target me, I think pit bulls might be more useful in this situation

What funny about her comment...I have a great guy who likes to pounce me. So...yea witch I did find someone to love me. Meh!

Really all of are you are wonderful and I feel lots better. And for anyone wondering the gummy bag is still sealed since I don't generally open big bags of stuff until I'm ready to split them up. Ever have a frozen gummy before? Wonderful treat on a hot day.

[borat voice] Great success! [/borat voice]
Oooo, frozen gummy! Gonna have to remember that one!

I was thinking at the start that maybe she was looking at you funny because you did a happy dance. I know that my happy dances don't really go down well in public.

But wow, what a bitch! I think that she was jealous that you can look so beautiful at a nice size, and she could be a skinny rake and still be hideous.

For me it's dancing, period...and yet I've been talked into taking a dance class this summer. You women of all shapes and sizes and your persuasive skills!

And sorry about miss psycho-bitch Aethian; but gratz on your progress so far! Good luck, and while I hope you never see that pathetic excuse for a human again, if you do, give her a few and for me, willya?

[Thatgirl71]

Wow, what a nasty bitch!
I'm a big girl too and hear "You have such a pretty face, if you lost weight you would be even prettier" mostly from the old lady customers we get at my store. I just smile and tell them thank you. Now, if that nasty bitch had said that to me my reply to her would have been "Im surprised anyone could love someone as nasty as your bitch ass, now go crawl back into the hole from whence you came", this of course after I slapped her shitty.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

[booger]

Aren't gummy bears fat free anyway? Just because someone is skinny, it doesn't make them smart. Sounds like she needs a few gummy bears too, enough sugar should sweeten her up...right? o_O

Stinks you had to deal with that. Life would be really boring if everyone looked the same. People just need to mind their own business and not comment on other people's appearance. Makes me so mad that that lady would say that to you.

[iradney]

Speaking as a wellpadded female myself, I totally understand where you're coming from. It's just not on to talk to a complete stranger that way. If you see her again, and she does it again, don't even talk to her. Just look her up and down slowly, with a look on your face that's a cross between skeptical and "what IS that smell?". Then give a little smile, shake your head slightly and walk away. (It helps to imagine she has a great big ball of snot hanging out one nostril).

That'll drive her insane. Coz I'll bet you, she'll be examining herself in the mirror later, trying to spot what you "saw".

[fish3k1]

Seriously, if I'd been a member of staff in that shop I'd have been telling her to GTFO. No-one has the right to be an abusive whore just to make themselves feel better about their own insecurities. Notice she tried to use sex as a weapon - just goes to show how fucking shallow she is.

I bet if you shouted at her crotch it would echo....

[PupuTupuna]

I don't think this is a matter of weight, that woman was a miserable bitch who could've probably found something to say about anyone to make herself feel better. I despise people like that.

Wanted to say this, because I am on the skinny side myself and have experienced that suckiness can come in all shapes and sizes, so I don't see why skinny people should apologize for her behaviour, she was a terrible c*nt. Period.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Classic slap to the face would have worked wonders bringing this bitch back to reality.

Don't all out beat the shit out of her, although that's what she deserves. A nice, bracing, ringing open-handed slap should get the point across.

And just an FYI...at least in this state, if you get into trouble for assault, and it's your first offense, the fine isn't that much. Just sayin'.

[crazylegs]

What a Grade A, copper bottomed, gold plated, cold hearted, evil BITCH FROM HELL!.

Who the hell does she think she is to tell someone how to eat, how their body will affect their lives or infact say anything in such a cruel heartless way.

Perhaps, maybe your reaction showed her how hurtful her comments are better than any physical blow, especially if she tells someone else.

I know how hard it is to change body shape, I've been trying on and off for years (but in the reverse way) I know how hard it is and how hurtful comments can be

[Trayol]

"It's not the beauty, it's the booty."

This is completely OT, but what the heck is that from?

I'm not sure who started it, think it's from the sixties, but I heard my mom say that one before.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

A good response for people who try to get catty with you, is get a pitying look on your face, and then just mutter "No wonder he left you."

Also, staring at someone's teeth with a very slightly alarmed look on your face while they are talking with very often get them to STFU.
Hell, I used to do that to sucky customers.

[draftermatt]

"Ma'am, a lot of time and money were invested in the making of this gut and I'm actually quite proud of it."

I'd also like to add:

"In the future I'd refrain from speaking to complete strangers about your thoughts since I'd have to say you'll never be loved except by Pablo that spanish speaking lawn boy who only puts up with you because he doesn't understand what you are saying and now he can get his green card"

Didn't anyone's parents teach them not to talk to strangers? I still find it good advice.

[Tee]

I've found that whatever I come up with generally isn't as destructive as what they can come up with, so I just laugh at them, loudly, and in their face. They'll make up their own insult for me.

I hope that she gets whats coming too her in a very humbling way.

Frozen gummi bears eh? I've always been a jelly bean fan, but I'll have to try that one.

[Andara Bledin]

Meh, what a raging bitch. The proper response? "Wow. You must live a sad and lonely life if you have to resort to insulting complete strangers to feel good about yourself. Oh, and I already have a boyfriend/husband, so I'm not really looking for more men in my love life."

Seriously. Anyone who would say anything like that to a complete stranger is filled with misery and self-loathing.

I'm a big girl. I used to let that bother me, but since it's not adversely effecting my health and it's not stopping me from doing the things I want to do, I'm good with that.

Also, every single time I've ever seen any discussion between a bunch of guys about what they want regarding a woman's size, the consensus has always been that a bit on the plush side is good and skinny women are usually not as popular. Of course, that could just be because of the groups I tend to hang out with: faire-folk/rennies, gamers, geeks.

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[AdminAssistant]

oh my, oh my, oh my

OMGWTFBBQ



If I would have ever been able to compose myself, I would have walked my 5'4", 194 lb. frame to her and just GLARED. In a "I am about to break your stick-like body over my knee" kind of way.

To the op: Congrats on starting a weight loss journey! I've been struggling with it for a long, long time. It's hard...and unlike so many other ladies 'of size' I haven't yet found someone willing look my way twice. Which makes it harder... But, we're all rooting for you!!!