Stop making fun of me

[CrazedClerk]

I'm a 5'2 guy. My whole life has been challenging because of it. I was teased relentlessly in school and almost killed myself because of it (yes it's that bad).

But as you see I'm still here and I still struggle with not being able to reach up high and get through crowds and such, but I'm a bit more mean spirited now in the sense that I know there is nothing wrong with me and I don't see being short as a liability. I am who I am and if you don't accept me, then I feel sorry for you.

[Sliceanddice]

Im not going to say my weight (it goes up and down so often i never know what i really is) but my bra size is 50 F-FF.... and i once told a lady who said and i qoute
"You know sweetie, you would be so much happier if you lost that weight. Iknow i use to be heavy myself. Here, heres the number for overeater anon."
i looked her dead in the eyes and said
"Ma'am i dont know your diet or activity level, but i do know mine, and while i dont eat only tofu and carrot sticks i eat better than the crap you just bought. You can judge me but ill have you know my average use of calories is about 4000 to 4500 calories a day, and i only eat about 3000. A pound of fat is about 3500 calories. For me to lose any weight i have to basically starve myself and workout like an olympic athlete. Please take you cheese heart attack thing and stay out of my life."
I had a bad day, i appoligized to my boss who under stode, she isnt as heavy as me, but she is about 60 pounds over weight and is sick of people thinking shes either pregnant or cant lose weight.

And to the guys who did comment, thanks for sympathising.

[katie kaboom]

The boobs are a problem too. While proportional to my body, I have absolutely no rear end. Big on chest, small on bottom. UGH.

That is me to a T. It sucks not having a butt. A lot of men seem to like some "junk in the trunk" and my trunk is empty.

[powerboy]

I am 5' 11" and I am overweight. About 4 times aweek, I get told about different diets. I am on a diet, and I am losing. Also, what it mostly is muscle. That is good, because I am the strongest out of a hell of a lot of people I know. But when you look at me, all you can see is the fat. It sucks, but atleast I am lifting weights, and am losing also.

[blas]

I just fail to understand why so many people deem it their "duty" to educate overweight people about diets, or why so many people deem it necessary to alert people of their large assets (no pun intended) that, well, DUH, they already know that they have!

No one has any right to make fun of anyone.....we all have something that sticks out or doesn't stick out. Half of the people who tell people to go on diets are overweight themselves. Look at most doctors. Half of the people who get off on making fun of chesty girls have something about themselves that they are insecure about.

[DarthRetard]

I.....maybe I'm just confused, but I'm trying to figure out when it became BAD to have a big chest....?

This may be just a 19 year old guy speaking.....but, I mean.....Big chest=bad?

Maybe I missed the retard seminar or something.......

Sorry, trying to help, know it's not much.

[Rapscallion]

When you've been through the myriad threads on here, Darth, you'll realise that big breasts come with the combined problems of back pain and people talking to you with their eyes fixed below neck level.

Of course, nobody's offered me pictures to prove they have a problem...

Rapscallion

[blas]

Darth, there is nothing "wrong" with having a bad chest. However, for some twisted reason, some people think it's downright HILARIOUS to make fun of large chested women.

One of my highschool nicknames by the popular boys and rednecks was TigBitties (cleverly disguised so that teachers wouldn't understand what they meant, I guess). Do you get it?

I went on a date with a guy who remembered that nickname, and said that from now on, he was going to always call me TigBitties. I gave him the look of Death and said that I never wanted to hear that name again as long as I live. He laughed and said it was funny, then repeated "TigBitties" no less than 10 times in a row, loud enough for everyone to hear. I knocked his drink into his lap and laughed at him.

[FloridaLizardQueen]

Please don't assume im a ditzy because im a giggly person....

I would love to work with you! When you said you are a giggly kind of person, that makes me think you would make things more interesting and fun!

[DarthRetard]

Hmmm raps, maybe we need some proof? just kidding, of course, ladies.

I didn't mean it like that. It's just kind of a throw off to me that guys are that, nevermind, no it's not.

Again on behalf of stupid males everywhere...."My bad dawg."

[Horsetuna]

I'm neither terribly short, or overweight, although I noticed I have a little bit more love handle around the middle now. (I blame my internet addiction for that).

All I can say is I never say those things to others. Sometimes I may THINK them (I saw a guy with literal manboobs who looked exactly like the Man Who Loves To Eat from monty python, minus the moustache), but I never say them unless they ask me. And even then I'd try to be nice about it.

I'm still trying to figure out the appeal of fatty lumps on one's chest (B cup here)

[DarthRetard]

I think it'd be funny if women turned it around on men. Just randomly ask some dude for his jock-size or something.....

[Giggle Goose]

I don't think that big boobs=bad. I'm a B (just barely), and have looked into getting implants before, and I got teased just as much as the girls who had BIG chests. I decided not to go through with the operation because it's painful, expensive, they'd look fake, and there's something so weird about having bags of saline or whatever in my body just so people would stop making fun of me.

What I've learned is to just accept myself for who I am, and that everyone always wants what they don't have. Katie says she wants "junk in the trunk," which I have but wish I didn't because guys have tried to grab it on many occasions ("try" being the operative word...) I found a guy who found my body incredibly sexy; and it was nice that he wasn't with me just for my boobs, you know? Just remember that anyone who is shallow enough to make snarky comments about your body parts over which you have no control isn't worth your time anyway. ((Group hug))

[iradney]

Funny you say that DarthRetard. When a guy starts blatantly ogling my chest, I start to ogle his "package". Either with a "tsk tsk" expression, or a "omigawd hahaha" expression. Works everytime

Gigglegoose - I'm actually looking into getting a reduction. It's gonna hurt, but damn it'll be nice to be able to find NICE bras in my size!And, of course, be able to see my toes...

[Seshat]

When you've been through the myriad threads on here, Darth, you'll realise that big breasts come with the combined problems of back pain and people talking to you with their eyes fixed below neck level.

Of course, nobody's offered me pictures to prove they have a problem...

You want pictures, Raps?

http://www.lisaslacies.com.au/ or http://www.bellaforma.com.au/ have pictures.

Okay, okay. So they're the places I buy from, and none of the pics are of me. But there's busty goodness to look at!


But yeah - Darth? Back pain, people talking below you, clothes never fit, bras are hard to find. The bust gets in the way of doing anything in front of you - even typing involved squishing them.

And I literally cannot get into the right position for ballroom dance. Even with a minimiser bra. I'm just too large around. It's annoying. (Okay, probably not annoying for my partner, presuming he's the kind who likes breasts squished against him.)