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    Hello again, everyone! I has the interwebs for a bit, so here is a recent story...

    Yesterday, I had a 50-something lady come in looking for present-type items suitable for an uncle of hers for Sunday. No problem, right? Well, maybe.

    First, she wanted Dominos, but I only had sets with colored pips, whereas she wanted black ones. Fair enough.

    Then she wanted a Resident Evil T-shirt, as it's her uncle's favorite videogame. Sadly, right now the store is lacking in game-related shirts, and we only have movie and comicbook related ones. I find her one from The Walking Dead (show, not comic) and she loves it.

    YAY, right? No.

    After asking me if I watch the show, and somewhat nastily laughing that I am "behind the times" for not having internet/television at my apartment, she asks what sizes I have said T-shirt in. Unfortunately, it seems that I only have 2 XXL sized shirts, but I 100% KNOW that our sister store (2 hours away) has a M and L size, as I brought them down to sister store personally only 1 day ago.

    I let her know this, and tell her I can have the shirt here by Saturday morning for her. She tells me "No, *SIGH* I'll just find it online!" Ok then...

    As she looks around the store some more, I tidy up at the front, cleaning the glass counters. As she's about to leave, she stops at the counter and this happens;

    SC: You know, I used to come here with my grandson ALL the time, and you used to have SO MANY shirts. What the heck happened to them all?

    Me: (Still wiping down glass) Oh, well we did used to have about double the shirts we have now, but that changed because of the internet.

    SC: What do you mean?

    Me: I mean, sometimes a T-shirt that we carry for $14 because of overhead can usually be bought online for $10. Unfortunately, people just don't seem to support the smaller, local stores as much anymore, so we don't carry as much of the product that we used to.

    I straighten up and turn towards her to see this;

    SC: Well! THAT was quite RUDE!

    Me: I'm sorry...What was rude?

    SC: You! Just now!

    Me: What did I do?

    SC: You said that the reason you don't carry as much is because people shop online...RIGHT AFTER I SAID I WAS GOING TO BE LOOKING ONLINE FOR THAT SHIRT! eleventy! (Starts to almost literally stomp her way out of the store)

    Me: I'm sorry, ma'am, but it is the truth...

    She gives me the dirtiest look I've gotten in a while and leaves.

    My question is this; I don't think that I was rude, just honest. It's not like I told her "If you buy things online, you're going to make people lose their jobs, AND go to hell, AND you suck for not buying local". I simply answered her question as I've answered many questions about why we don't carry all the departments we used to. Does anyone here think I really WAS rude?

  • #2
    No. You explained it like it was and she seemed to be looking for something to offend her.
    Driver Picks the Music, Shotgun Shuts His Cakehole.
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    • #3
      The Wall of Mart (and stores like it) is killing the mom and pop stores and the internet is killing the all the rest. It's something that I've been watching for a long time. It's the same thing as how X-box and Playstation killed the arcade.

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      • #4
        Heh...I bet she felt guilty about her online shopping and decided to get all defensive and take it out on you. Your response was totally appropriate and you didn't say it to be snarky...you answered her question. As an aside, I feel sorry for whatever online store she thinks she's going to get the shirt from before Sunday, when she could have gotten it from you Saturday morning. WhatEVER...
        "I was only LOOKING, I didn't mean to enter my card's CVV and actually ORDER! REFUND ME RIGHT NOW!!"

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        • #5
          Don't you know? Honesty is the new rude!
          Random conversation:
          Me: Okay..so I think I get why Zoro wears a bandana
          DDD: Cuz it's cool

          So, by using the Doctor's reasoning, bow ties, fezzes and bandanas are cool.

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          • #6
            Quoth Arcus View Post
            The Wall of Mart (and stores like it) is killing the mom and pop stores and the internet is killing the all the rest. It's something that I've been watching for a long time.
            Heh. I did a college-level written/verbal report on them over a *decade* ago on that very subject. Nothing much has changed...tho I think it's wise to leave it at that ^_^
            "For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
            "The difference between an amateur and a master is that the master has failed way more times." - JoCat
            "Thinking is difficult, therefore let the herd pronounce judgment!" ~ Carl Jung
            "There's burning bridges, and then there's the lake just to fill it with gasoline." - Wiccy, reddit
            "Retail is a cruel master, and could very well be the most educational time of many people's lives, in its own twisted way." - me
            "Love keeps her in the air when she oughta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, "Serenity" (2005)
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            • #7
              Quoth fma_fanatic View Post
              Don't you know? Honesty is the new rude!
              Not really. Honesty (as well as everthing else we say that isn't us bending over backwards to kiss SCs asses and put ourselves out of business for their convenience) has always been rude to these people.
              Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. -Groucho Marx

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              • #8
                Quoth fma_fanatic View Post
                Don't you know? Honesty is the new rude!
                "Tact? I always understood that to mean a mutual agreement to be full of shit."
                - Spider Robinson quasiquote
                I am not an a**hole. I am a hemorrhoid. I irritate a**holes!
                Procrastination: Forward planning to insure there is something to do tomorrow.
                Derails threads faster than a pocket nuke.

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                • #9
                  You gave her a rational answer, but SCs think everything is about them (they're the center of the universe, dontcha know) and so she immediately related it to herself instead of using logic.

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                  • #10
                    I would have pipped in with, "No, you're wrong. The first thing you said was that you were going to try and find it online, and THEN you asked me was why we don't sell as many shirts, to which I gave you an honest answer. (and then probably given her a "really?" type of look). If you can't handle the truth, m'am..."

                    I keep imagining Gene Wilder as Willie Wonka at the end of "Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory" where he's talking down to Charlie's Grandpa saying, "You're WRONG sir! WRONG!"... I wonder how someone even let her out unsupervised.

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                    • #11
                      Quoth Goddess of Retail View Post
                      SC: You said that the reason you don't carry as much is because people shop online...RIGHT AFTER I SAID I WAS GOING TO BE LOOKING ONLINE FOR THAT SHIRT! eleventy! (Starts to almost literally stomp her way out of the store)
                      Eleventy?!?

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                      • #12
                        Quoth dalesys View Post
                        "Tact? I always understood that to mean a mutual agreement to be full of shit."
                        - Spider Robinson quasiquote
                        *adds dalesys to her list of people to be part of her regime when she takes over the world*
                        Random conversation:
                        Me: Okay..so I think I get why Zoro wears a bandana
                        DDD: Cuz it's cool

                        So, by using the Doctor's reasoning, bow ties, fezzes and bandanas are cool.

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                        • #13
                          Quoth CaptMalcolm View Post
                          Eleventy?!?
                          It's net-ese for a gazillion exclamation points when the person typing them can't be bothered to keep the shift key held.

                          Eleventy = !!!!!111!11111!

                          ^-.-^
                          Faith is about what you do. It's about aspiring to be better and nobler and kinder than you are. It's about making sacrifices for the good of others. - Dresden

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                          • #14
                            Quoth Arcus View Post
                            It's the same thing as how X-box and Playstation killed the arcade.
                            OT: No, what killed the arcade in America (it's alive and well and thriving in Asia) was the fact that the places were becoming hangouts for scumbags wanting to sell drugs to kids.

                            What will eventually kill brick & mortar retailers will be the first affordable mass market 3D printers. Why go to the store and buy that T-shirt when you can just fabricate it at home from raw materials?
                            "Sigh, I'm going to Hell.....but I'm going with a smile on my face." -- Gravekeeper

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                            • #15
                              Quoth fma_fanatic View Post
                              *adds dalesys to her list of people to be part of her regime when she takes over the world*
                              *raises hand and waves like crazy* Oo! Ooo! Oo! Add me too! I'm really good at being a benevolent figurehead so you can plot and exercise control behind the scenes without interruption!
                              "For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
                              "The difference between an amateur and a master is that the master has failed way more times." - JoCat
                              "Thinking is difficult, therefore let the herd pronounce judgment!" ~ Carl Jung
                              "There's burning bridges, and then there's the lake just to fill it with gasoline." - Wiccy, reddit
                              "Retail is a cruel master, and could very well be the most educational time of many people's lives, in its own twisted way." - me
                              "Love keeps her in the air when she oughta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, "Serenity" (2005)
                              Acts of Gord – Read it, Learn it, Love it!
                              "Our psychic powers only work if the customer has a mind to read." - me

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