admit your weakness

[Shpepper]

I've no idea. I just remember the name. Russian Ark. It was all in Russian, no subtitles, so I don't know what it was about. But it was very interesting. Filmed in one take, in one shot. The whole length. I enjoyed just the feel of it so much I've deliberately avoided finding out anything about it. The story in my head's a nice ever-shifting thing.

I did just go look this up. I am going to have to see if I can find it somewhere so I can see it. I will not say what it's about. it just looks very interesting to me.

[Reyneth]

Blue eyes. Green are ok, but blue is best
Elegant hands - not necessary long fingers but the kind of hands you can see fluidly moving over a piano in a movie scene
Typically the more lanky body, as long as he's not overly muscled or stout
Red/ish hair is nice, but I've never actually dated a redhead
Cares about his family, treats others well (tips well, etc)
INTELLIGENCE
Wants kids/good with kids

There are other things I'm looking for, but all of the above are insta-turnons for me.

Oh, yeah. Being callipygian is NEVER a bad thing.

[Nyoibo]

What's with the blue eyes thing?

Maybe I just don't get it because mine are blue.

[Jester]

As far as weaknesses, though?
- Gray eyes
- Smart-ass sense of humour (oh, God, I love dry wit)
- Willingness to try new things (especially if they're cooked by me and look more than a little dubious)
- A smug grin
- Strong hands
- Tolerance
- A love of cheesy horror movies/splatterflicks

Wow, I qualify for everything, except #1. I have greyish green eyes, emphasis on the green. Other than that.......

[Sliceanddice]

What's with the blue eyes thing?

Maybe I just don't get it because mine are blue.

probably because men and women people have described s beautiful through the years had blue eyes and we as a mass adsorb that as beautiful.
i personally dont care about eye color. but then my dad had blue eyes and a part of me associates blues eyes with abuse.

[JoitheArtist]

I've no idea. I just remember the name. Russian Ark. It was all in Russian, no subtitles, so I don't know what it was about. But it was very interesting. Filmed in one take, in one shot. The whole length. I enjoyed just the feel of it so much I've deliberately avoided finding out anything about it. The story in my head's a nice ever-shifting thing.

Oh, that's a fantastic one! Sort of a tour of Russian history, through the Hermitage Museum. Really fantastic.

Can you tell that I'm a bit of a film geek?

[wagegoth]

ME! ! ! I love that movie and their other one. City of Lost Children. Both fantastic movies and so different in character. Ones a visual frenzy ( City) the other is as SS said a wonderfuly dark comedy.

My first date movie with my husband was watching the VHS (yes, VHS) of Heathers. He laughed.

[Becks]

How come no one ever says "Rebecca" in answer to weaknesses?

[Boozy]

I love guys with receding hairlines. I have no idea why, but I do. My husband stands in front of the mirror bemoaning his hair loss, while I stand behind him clapping my hands in glee. He gets sexier to me every day. I tell him that too, but it doesn't seem to make him feel any better. He just doesn't want to get old, I guess.

I also like the look of full-sleeve tattooes, although the one guy I dated with that look didn't have the personality I was looking for. Too.....musician-y, and everything that goes with that. So I decided to look but not touch.

[Rapscallion]

I love guys with receding hairlines. I have no idea why, but I do.

Explain why you weren't fighting me off...

Rapscallion

[Sheldonrs]

Explain why you weren't beating me off...

Rapscallion

Fixed it for ya.

[smileyeagle1021]

Fixed it for ya.

damnit Sheldonrs, now I have to clean up the water I had been drinking

[PuckishOne]

• sing/have musical ability

Too.....musician-y, and everything that goes with that

Once again I am relieved that I will never have to compete with Boozy for guys!!

and if all fails I'll just take Gerard Butler or Brendan Fraser!!

I'll help!!!

[tropicsgoddess]

Guys with....

long (healthy) hair
meat on their bones (fluff or some muscle definition is fine by me)
great personality

[Jester]

How come no one ever says "Rebecca" in answer to weaknesses?

Because that, like saying water is wet, flame is hot, and politicians are corrupt, is a given and absolute truth that the majority of the population not only know and acknowledge, but unquestionably accept into their hearts, minds, and souls, to the point of not feeling the need to vocalize such aloud.