Help needed: I want to avoid the Friendzone

[taurinejunkie]

RHPG: My comp opens a .txt file that says 'You Rock!' on startup. I'll try and restart it more often.

Slyt: Interesting point of view . And I think I'm too evil to be a Paladin anyway. Evil in a way that no woman will ever suffer from.

[Jester]

I can't very much chill and be relaxed...

My friend, I don't tell you this to harass or mock you, but because I believe it is the best way for you to not implode or explode on this date. And, frankly, if you can learn to relax, the date can go that much better for you.

I may be an asshole, but I DO know what I am talking about.

Make your own mantra that you tell yourself every day...

I do something along those lines. Every day I look myself in the mirror and say, "You deserve a beer. You deserve a beer. You deserve a beer...."

[SengaKitty]

I do something along those lines. Every day I look myself in the mirror and say, "You deserve a beer. You deserve a beer. You deserve a beer...."

Well apparently my mantra worked last night, as I was more confident and relaxed than I've ever been!

And 411guy, don't just use the "You Rock!" on your computer. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that!

[blas]

I used to set my cell phone to say "Good morning sexy!" when it turned on.

[taurinejunkie]

More news. Over the weekend it became apparent that the girl lied to me, or didn't tell me everything there was to know. I'll listen to what she has to say (if anything) next time I see her, but unless she has a very good explanation, I'm ready to force myself to move on.

[Jester]

Women change their mind, and sometimes lie. I am a black and white guy, but even I know that sometimes you have to accept that. Of course, the nature of the lie may wipe out everything I am saying here. Just take everything in context and with a grain of salt.