ok so this is kinda weird, but since im not good at deciphering, and while ive asked a few friends i want opinions form others too.
so there's this guy i worked with (he got promoted and transferred this past Saturday) i worked with him for 6 years, and we became friends, as many of us have done. on top of that ive always had a 'thing' for him, if you will.
when i first told him i was 17 and he was 27 (yea i know 10 years--but hes at the maturity level of me) so that kinda set him back and said he liked me as a friend.
the next couple years he ended up dating 2 other girls that worked there. neither relationship worked :P
but since then i really haven't brought up the subject, because hes an awkward type of person. you ask him a serious question, he has a hard time answering. hes just kinda weird/shy. which is fine.
so last sat night a group of us went out to celebrate his promotion. and he got drunk haha. poor guy. a few of us went back to his apartment after, and the entire time we were there he kept close to me, even sitting with me and keeping his arm around me. no im sure this can happen to anyone...
but he does this every time to me when he gets drunk. even when he was dating the other girls. but ive never made a move, because well, i didn't want to get in a fight
my friends seem to think that he does like me, and since hes so awkward sober, being drunk he can relax, and he says stuff that he would have a hard time saying sober.( i'm like that too--cept i don't drink)
basically the guy is sending me confusing signals. what the hell is going on here?
so there's this guy i worked with (he got promoted and transferred this past Saturday) i worked with him for 6 years, and we became friends, as many of us have done. on top of that ive always had a 'thing' for him, if you will.
when i first told him i was 17 and he was 27 (yea i know 10 years--but hes at the maturity level of me) so that kinda set him back and said he liked me as a friend.
the next couple years he ended up dating 2 other girls that worked there. neither relationship worked :P
but since then i really haven't brought up the subject, because hes an awkward type of person. you ask him a serious question, he has a hard time answering. hes just kinda weird/shy. which is fine.
so last sat night a group of us went out to celebrate his promotion. and he got drunk haha. poor guy. a few of us went back to his apartment after, and the entire time we were there he kept close to me, even sitting with me and keeping his arm around me. no im sure this can happen to anyone...
but he does this every time to me when he gets drunk. even when he was dating the other girls. but ive never made a move, because well, i didn't want to get in a fight
my friends seem to think that he does like me, and since hes so awkward sober, being drunk he can relax, and he says stuff that he would have a hard time saying sober.( i'm like that too--cept i don't drink)
basically the guy is sending me confusing signals. what the hell is going on here?
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