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  • #16
    Quoth Soulstealer View Post
    Listen to Jester on the subject.
    Why do the fact that people say this vaguely scare me?

    Quoth Rapscallion View Post
    It's not the end of the world. It's not the only success criteria around.
    Raps is 100% correct. Too many people put too much stress on this. Myself included way too often.

    Quoth Flying Grype View Post
    Ask her if she wants to actually be a couple.
    I have to respectfully disagree. "Do you want to be a couple?" not only sounds awkward, but could creep her out, or scare her off. Just relax, be yourself, enjoy the "date," such as it is, and see what happens. Play it be ear.

    Quoth Plaidman View Post
    But hey, your doing far better then I ever could.
    Plaid, do not make me smack you upside your head with my positive attitude!

    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is     Still A Customer."

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    • #17
      Quoth Jester View Post
      Raps is 100% correct.
      I'd just like everyone to remember this moment.

      Rapscallion

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      • #18
        Quoth Flying Grype View Post
        If you were already good friends, just don't be pushy.
        You're absolutely right. Some great relationships start out as friendships.

        Quoth Jester View Post
        Why do the fact that people say this vaguely scare me?
        Because you're a God and people shouldn't anger you? (going by your signature)

        As for my own 2c here.

        Don't worry too much. I have a friend that has steadfastly refused to start dating until he's finished uni. Which for him is around 2012/2013. (so for him when he's around 23/24-he turns 21 this year) When we were younger, the two of us and another friend of mine wound up sort of joking that one of us was dating him. Later on, it turned out that one of us DID have feelings for him.... That's since faded I think.

        I only had a very brief fling in high school and didn't get into my first real and proper relationship until I was 18.
        The best professors are mad scientists! -Zoom

        Now queen of USSR-Land...

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        • #19
          Quoth fireheart17 View Post
          Because you're a God and people shouldn't anger you?
          Good point. Hard to argue with such superior logic.

          "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is           Still A Customer."

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          • #20
            Quoth Rapscallion View Post
            I'd just like everyone to remember this moment.
            Marked on my calendar.
            Unseen but seeing
            oh dear, now they're masquerading as sane-KiaKat
            There isn't enough interpretive dance in the workplace these days-Irv
            3rd shift needs love, too
            RIP, mo bhrionglóid

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            • #21
              Quoth Jester View Post
              Why do the fact that people say this vaguely scare me?


              Because you're older, more experienced in this area, and you don't give shitty advice.
              How was I supposed to know someone was slipping you Birth Control in the food I've been making for you lately?

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              • #22
                Quoth Soulstealer View Post
                Because you're older, more experienced in this area, and you don't give shitty advice.
                Hmmmm....no, that doesn't sound quite right. I think you probably meant to say this:

                Quoth Soulstealer View Post
                Because you're brilliant, know what you're talking about, and you give fantastic advice.
                Yeah, that's better. "You're older" makes me sound like someone's granddad. And I am still in my damn thirties! (At least for a few more months...)

                "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is                 Still A Customer."

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                • #23
                  Well, I haven't cleared the stage yet, but I'm continuing to score points, as it were.

                  She had a crappy day yesterday for some reason, so I sent her a text message with a quote from a song we both like...."Baby you're a star [and] I just want to show you you are" which broke the tension and made her smile a little.

                  As a perfect and entirely coincidental addition to that, I found this bag of star-shaped chocolates wrapped in gold foil that my mother had and - with permission - took one. When I saw my crush today, I said "Remember that text I sent you yesterday? Baby you're a star, and I just want to show you are?" and gave her the gold chocolate star.

                  "Awww.....you're the best!"

                  She said she thought that was really clever and that it really brightened her day.
                  "We guard the souls in heaven; we don't horse-trade them!" Samandrial in Supernatural

                  RIP Plaidman.

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                  • #24
                    Dave, you are such a cheeseball!

                    I say that as a compliment, by the way.

                    "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is                     Still A Customer."

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                    • #25
                      Hey, that might have been cheesy, but she liked it, and that's all that matters.
                      "We guard the souls in heaven; we don't horse-trade them!" Samandrial in Supernatural

                      RIP Plaidman.

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                      • #26
                        Quoth Jester View Post


                        Yeah, that's better. "You're older" makes me sound like someone's granddad. And I am still in my damn thirties! (At least for a few more months...)
                        No I got it right the first time.
                        And there's nothing wrong with being in your thirties but you are still older than me.
                        How was I supposed to know someone was slipping you Birth Control in the food I've been making for you lately?

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                        • #27
                          Quoth Dave1982 View Post
                          Hey, that might have been cheesy, but she liked it, and that's all that matters.
                          Hey, I did say it was a compliment! I am the King of Cheese, after all!

                          Quoth Soulstealer View Post
                          No I got it right the first time.
                          Don't make me smack you.

                          "The Customer Is Always Right...But The Bartender Decides Who Is                           Still A Customer."

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                          • #28
                            What's wrong with some cheese?

                            If anything its Hubby's odd sense of humor and random cheesiness that won me over in the end.
                            "The problem isn't usually that there are stupid people in the world as much as it is that the stupid people like to call or come in and point out how stupid they are to the working public" -Justa

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                            • #29
                              Gee, now I'm jealous of your little friend Dave!

                              Mmmm, cheddar.
                              Ridiculous 2009 Predictions: Evil Queen will beat Martha Stewart to death with a muffin pan. All hail Evil Queen! (Some things don't need elaboration.....) -- Jester

                              Ridiculous 2010 Predictions: Evil Queen, after escaping prison for last years prediction, goes out and waffle irons Rachel Ray to death. -- SG15Z

                              Ridiculous 2011 Prediction: Evil Queen will beat Gordon Ramsay over the head with a cast-iron skillet. -- FireHeart

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                              • #30
                                Quoth Evil Queen View Post
                                Gee, now I'm jealous of your little friend Dave!

                                Mmmm, cheddar.
                                You like the idea of a guy telling you you're a star and giving you a piece of candy?
                                "We guard the souls in heaven; we don't horse-trade them!" Samandrial in Supernatural

                                RIP Plaidman.

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