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As has probably already been said, you need to have a frank and open discussion about your issues.
ESPECIALLY the kids one. He needs to know that this is never gonna happen. A lot of times this is a make or break issue, and, while I'm sure that your feelings for him are true, you need to be prepared for the chance that you may break up over this issue.
You have said there is no negotiation on this issue, and therefore he will need to examine how important children are to him.
I will say this: Clear communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, without it you are doomed.
Also, do NOT say yes to a proposal unless you are actually willing to get married. Don't ass/u/me that he cannot find the means to have a Real Wedding(tm). Guys can be very resourceful when we want to be
. And you might find yourself facing that public walk down the aisle a lot sooner than you think.
Finally, while you may not think its an issue at the moment, the very fact that you are bringing it up means that it IS. Either he has been dropping hints, you guys have started to talk about the possibility, or it's something in the back of your mind. But above all of this, you need to talk to him about it BEFORE he actually proposes.
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ESPECIALLY the kids one. He needs to know that this is never gonna happen. A lot of times this is a make or break issue, and, while I'm sure that your feelings for him are true, you need to be prepared for the chance that you may break up over this issue.
You have said there is no negotiation on this issue, and therefore he will need to examine how important children are to him.
I will say this: Clear communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, without it you are doomed.
Also, do NOT say yes to a proposal unless you are actually willing to get married. Don't ass/u/me that he cannot find the means to have a Real Wedding(tm). Guys can be very resourceful when we want to be
. And you might find yourself facing that public walk down the aisle a lot sooner than you think.Finally, while you may not think its an issue at the moment, the very fact that you are bringing it up means that it IS. Either he has been dropping hints, you guys have started to talk about the possibility, or it's something in the back of your mind. But above all of this, you need to talk to him about it BEFORE he actually proposes.
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