Whore's Uniform.

[KitterCat]

I like to layer my clothes and wear undershirts to prevent too much cleavage, yet people still complain "Don't dress like that and people won't stare."......I don't really have much control. I never wear shorts or skirts. Even when it's 90 degrees I wear jeans or slacks.....but damn, smaller busted girls can run around in halter tops and be "cute" and if I wear one, I look like a "whore" and everyone stares and then gets mad that I get mad that they stare!

Sorry....end rant....I'm sure the girl in your story really was dressed like a ho fo sho.

Blas, you and I have the same problem. Big chested, small body. Doesn’t matter what I wear I get people who stare, and their going to keep staring. Think about it, your good looking, healthy and at your prime, unless your wearing a burka, men like looking at women. Heck even Mennonites like looking. You and I just have different ways to dealing with it. Just smile and think “hell at least I look good and your never going to touch it” its not like your ever going to see those idiots again after all.

[blas]

I never meant anything against you, Jaded. I just like to wear whatever I want.....I've always had a thing about layering and not popping out of my shirts...but dammit, I'd like to be able to wear a tank top and be left alone :P

I understand this girl was being a ho and not understanding why every man in the shop was staring at her. Thus is the reason the most daring I go is the tanktops or low cut shirts......if I ever do wear a skirt, I'll wear a tshirt with it.

[iradney]

I'm also in the Chestily Advantaged group. And yes, there are days (few and far between mind you) where I'll wear something low cut and a semi-push up bra (can't go full wonderbra or it's Boobies Up To The Chin). And I completely expect people to look.

That point being made, however, there is a difference between looking, and me having to fish your eyeballs out of my cleavage. By all means, glance at The Girls, but it is a little rude to S.T.A.R.E. After all, when men wear tight pants, you don't see me STARING at their junk, do ya?

[Dilorenzo]

Always interests me how when one dresses, as you put it, like a strumpet, that they then act indignant when they get "looks." After all, you must know what you're dressed like.

That doesn't mean that I won't look at "talented" girls who are covered up either, though, jampuff

(On a side note, my wife and I will occasionally see an overall larger woman wearing something she definetely shouldn't be. My wife will, always, and without fail, say "shoot me if I ever wear something like that.")

[Boozy]

I'm fairly flat-chested, but I don't wear low cut tops in the summer either. I burn so easily, especially on my chest. I already have a few age spots there from earlier sun damage, so I like to stay covered.

But I can still wear tank tops. You can buy really nice boat-neck or crew-neck sleeveless tops that cover everything but still stay cool. Fabric choice is usually more important for regulating your body temperature than baring a lot of skin, anyway.

[unclejampuff]

I've always been very (talented?) busty, but I know how to dress for it. No tank tops alone(especially the ones with shelf-bras built in, those things barely cover nipple), no button down shirts unless I can get them tailored, a bra at ALL TIMES. Today I am wearing a tank top, but with a fine gauge knit top over it. I've been Guarding My Hobbits since I was 12; I know how to manage them.
See, the skankified complainer was one of my big annoyances this weekend. I went to an anime con, and I heard some chick whining/bragging about how some guys were staring at her. Okay, when you aren't even wearing an entire shirt and/or a bra, a miniskirt(though it could've been a belt, I'm not sure), booty shorts, and heels so high even my tall ass would've gotten a nosebleed... you have no right to complain that someone was staring at you. It wasn't even a cosplay! ARG.

[crazylegs]

See, it's like this. Imagine you go to the bank to deposit your paycheck. All is fine and good, except you're carrying an AK47. You have no intention of using it in the bank, but the bank personnel piss all over their shoes when you walk in. Should you be upset with them?

Kinda like this I'd imagine. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUx0VvZd5rI

[Samaliel]

Yeah, well, though these are two distinct things, the difference might not be that big. But, more often than not, the main difference is attitude.

The other day I saw a girl in the bus wearing a top that just redefined "bare midriff". She did look good in that attire, but it was basically a bikini top with sleeves. While I don't find it offensive, I'm not quite sure it's suitable for wearing outside a club without a vest on. And by vest, I mean something that actually covers your stomach.

[One-Fang]

It's the right thing. There's quite a distinct difference between "larger girl attempting to wear clothes normal for someone smaller and not quite looking her most discreet in it" and "slut". While perhaps hard to define, I doubt many would fail the picture-matching contest.

Hubby is a mech. When pretty young things walk into the front room he and his compadres also go to "find work" or whatever other excuse they can find. I don't care. He's looking, not touching, and usually reasonably discreet about it, too.

Heck, I get a kick out of the army guys turning up to a front desk we have at work occasionally. "Anybody need me to go out by the front desk for anything?" heheheh. I have been known to pull up the security cams on-screen, sit back, and just enjoy it.

[okami419]

lol

I am a bigger girl as well. I will admit that sometimes I dress a little sleazy, but I know when too much is showing. There are a lot of girls who don't understand that by showing their butt and cleavage attracts all men, not just the ones they like. I'm glad they are proud of what they look like, but you don't have to show every lump and bump on your body.

He did the right thing.

[Seraph]

Ugh. I unfortunately am quite petite and have an ample chest, so they look unnecessarily larger than they are. Which is already bad since they're big. (Pregnancies = evil for unwanted augmentation) But, to avoid the gawking that I despise, I tend to wear tshirts and jeans. You will NEVER catch me dead or alive in a tank top or a miniskirt, thank you, lmao.

If I'd been there, I would've tossed her an oversized tshirt and been like "Here, the journey to not be gawked at is dangerous! Use THIS!"

[ArenaBoy]

This perfumed and glittered strumpet pulls into our drive today in a bloody Escalade

I got bored one day at work and counted how many Escalades that drove by. Total count at the end: 30. And it was usually with one or two people in it.

EDIT: It's rather amusing to see those dressed in that type of clothing during the winter. *ditz voice* Oh my God, oh my God! Where's the car?! It's freeeeeezzzzziiiinnngggg!"

[Jadedcarguy]

If you've put on 150 pounds since high school you CANNOT MAKE A MINISKIRT WORK!!!

This gal was making it work. Oh, bloody hell she was making it work.

My rant is not with what she was wearing. It rocked. My rant is with her attitude towards the attention she got for wearing it.

See, it's like this. Imagine you go to the bank to deposit your paycheck. All is fine and good, except you're carrying an AK47. You have no intention of using it in the bank, but the bank personnel piss all over their shoes when you walk in. Should you be upset with them?

[Crazeyal]

Hey.. at least it was someone you'd WANT to see in such an outfit...

I mean, I like WOMEN. Barbie dolls and stick figures with nubs?? Nah.. I've seen 300 pound women just OWN while wearing a corset. It's all about how you carrry it off and knowing yourself. BUT FER GAWDS SAKE... If you've put on 150 pounds since high school you CANNOT MAKE A MINISKIRT WORK!!!

[Evil Queen]

I thought the Strumpet bit was a nice touch.