Whore's Uniform.

[LewisLegion]

I, too, am breastigiously prodigious, but I'm a fan of loose clothes to begin with so you usually can't tell unless I do something to...um...make the girls shine, like stretch or arch my back or something. I usually wear sports bras which are like mini-tank tops in and of themselves simply because the massive support of those things help my back. In fact, a lot of people have no idea how big I am until they either hug me...or I tell them my bra size for whatever reason.

I learned how to hide them in junior high...you know, the age where boys are not only talking to your chest instead of to your face, but are also grabby...

[Jadedcarguy]

She could have been nekkid and I would have been fine with it.

The issue I have is the 'holier than thou' attitude that the girl had when being looked at. Her goods were on display in a way that was impossible to ignore, yet we were supposed to do just that.

[chainedbarista]

*puts on devil's advocate hat*

to be fair, i don't think that jaded has an issue with a girl wearing a tank and shorts or skirt, but where the parts are out for public view.

busty is an issue with finding things that don't 'announce' what we have; it's when those who squeeze into too small too tight types of clothing to 'maximize the goods' flaunt it and give us all a bad name.

there is a difference between class and trash; this strumpet is definitely the latter.

[PCGameGuy]

Well, maybe not you, but I've seen it happen.

aaaand What Women Want pops into my head

Any other guys ever get a woman to blush with a little hip thrust as you catch them looking?

[protege]

oh and back to the OP, I do have to agree with him in that there is some truth in that if you dress like you want attention (doubtless of gender) you'll be getting attention... deal with it.

Sort of on-topic... it's like the kids who put those stupid fart cans on their cars, and then complain when the cops pull them over for speeding. Sorry, but if you wouldn't be making a loud, annoying noise, they probably would have let you go. Don't want the attention? Then don't do anything to warrant it! Like the girls (locally) who dress in skimpy outfits, and then complain about getting hit on by assholes. You brought it upon yourselves. Either suck it up, or don't dress like that.

[smileyeagle1021]

After all, when men wear tight pants, you don't see me STARING at their junk, do ya?

Well, maybe not you, but I've seen it happen.

Of course iradney doesn't do that... she doesn't use mass transit in utah... I wish I could say I haven't seen people staring at my groin (and I don't even wear that tight of pants... and I've had friends and coworkers confirm that there is a LOT left to the imagination with the pants I wear)... oh and guys, I'm flattered that you find me attractive, really I am, but I am mildly concerned about what i'm doing that makes you think I might be anything but eye candy, I wish I knew because then I could stop and maybe someone with boobs would find me attractive (i wish I was making that up... but I have seen guys staring a lot more often than girls staring)

oh and back to the OP, I do have to agree with him in that there is some truth in that if you dress like you want attention (doubtless of gender) you'll be getting attention... deal with it.

[Peppergirl]

I'm nearing 40 and gravity is starting to rear its ugly head a bit, but count me in the 'larger than necessary' camp too.

It used to bother me to get stared at, but at my age, I now just laugh it off and am somewhat secretly grateful that I can still catch the looks.

Even in my 20's and teens, I never dressed like a wannabe ho. I always have visions in the back of my mind of my mom and how she would react if she saw me. That always curbed any inkling of a desire I ever had to dress slutty.

[unclejampuff]

After all, when men wear tight pants, you don't see me STARING at their junk, do ya?

Junk, no. Butt? Oh heck yesh. There are few things as delicious as a man's well toned ass. But I do try to keep it limited to quick glances.

There is definitely a difference between people checking me out and people drooling down my cleavage. If someone does a double take or makes an appreciative expression, I'm not insulted. Flat out staring is freaky... I tend to think my fly is unzipped or I have a monsterous zit flailing tentacles.

[crazylegs]

After all, when men wear tight pants, you don't see me STARING at their junk, do ya?

No, because as a women your peripheral vision is so much more defined than a mans so you can look without staring

[Samaliel]

That point being made, however, there is a difference between looking, and me having to fish your eyeballs out of my cleavage.

Well, some of you ladies are just... too gorgeous to ignore. But I get your point. If you ever have to fish my eyeballs out of your cleavage, feel free to tell me to stick 'em where the sun don't shine. Also, please be careful not to slip in the puddle of drool and not to step on my tongue while doing so.

[Saydrah]

Blas, you and I have the same problem. Big chested, small body.

Count me in this camp, too! I have a comfy tank top with a built in sports bra that I LOVE wearing, but I can't wear it outside the house without looking like I'm expecting someone to stuff dollar bills down my cleavage.

[Norton]

I'm guilty of staring at under-dressed men. Just the other morning on my way to work, a fit guy in his late teens/early twenties was jogging down the road wearing only a small pair of shorts. I nearly missed my turn.

[redmountaingoldfish]

After all, when men wear tight pants, you don't see me STARING at their junk, do ya?

Well, maybe not you, but I've seen it happen.

[Jadedcarguy]

I never meant anything against you, Jaded.

Never crossed my mind.

[blas]

I'm definetly going to have to start thinking that way.