Very Complicated Situation.

[Miss_Stress]

Thanks Jester I'll post any updates if anything else happens.

[Jester]

Don't be disappointed. This is a good thing. For one thing, neither you nor your fiance will have to deal with the Harpy again. (In theory, that is. Somehow I suspect she will still stick her nose in your lives.)

For another thing, your fiance now realizes where his dad stands. Should make it easier for him to move along with is own life now. And maybe, just maybe, after he calms down from his current angry state, Dad will realize that Harpy just cost him his SON. Perhaps that might wake him up to the reality of the situation.

Then again, perhaps not.

Either way, good luck!

[tropicsgoddess]

That sucks but that's what the dad deserves for not listening to his son instead of the harpy.

[Miss_Stress]

Big Update!!!!

On Friday, my fiance got a phone call off his dad, asking if he would come to his old house to sort this mess out, so my fiance agreed to go. When he got there, he and his dad talked about everything, but when my fiance said he was fed up of the Harpy and he hated her family for threatening his mum, his dad kicked off. Massively. He told my fiance that he should be grateful (for what, I don't know) and that if he didn't like it he should "piss off back there." So, my fiance got up and left, vowing never to speak to his dad again. Looks like the choice has been made now. I'm just really disappointed it couldn't be worked out.

[Miss_Stress]

I completely agree, sic the police on that bitch!

I wish that it would happen :/ unfortunately I cannot make them contact the police. Now, that COW and her daughters are playing Ladies of the Manor up at my fiance's old house and my fiance is living in my auntie's house. He's come off the anti-depressants though, which is a major relief.

[Zellie Crescent]

I completely agree, sic the police on that bitch!

[Clover]

**UPDATE**

Before I tell you the update, Jester I completely agree with you. He does need to make a stand and he needs to do it sharpish, but I cannot do it for him. I wish I could, but I can't and as you say, only he can do this.

The update, however, is not an improvement on the situation. My fiance's mother visited him at the house on Monday, to see how he was and have a catch up. She was there for 15 minutes at the most, the same as always. Father was told, and he subsequently told New Partner. Then, father turns round to my fiance on Tuesday and tells him that he and New Partner have arranged an ambush for Wednesday, to catch my fiance's mother visiting the house so New Partner could beat her up! Fiance of course told his mother not to come, and we arranged to meet her elsewhere. Fiance made the astronomical mistake of telling Father where we were going to meet his mother, so Father said he would tell New Partner where we were so she could come and attack my fiance's mother there. It ended with us meeting my fiance's mother and having to go somewhere miles away from the house just so she could see her son.

Okay, enough is enough. You need to get the cops involved.

My suggestion would be to once again plan to see his mother, and let the idiot douchebag Dad know about it so that Superbitch will hear of it too. Also, bring a videocamera or a friend/family member who is a cop. As soon as Superbitch shows up, if she dares to take a swing at any of you, take her ass down and have her arrested for assault. Make sure you get as much as you can on video as discreetly as possible-set it up in a hidden spot or something so you can prove your case. If Superbitch really tries to hurt anyone, make her regret it. As painfully as possible.

I'm usually a timid person, but when someone starts messing with my personal possessions, particularly something valuable to me, that's when I draw the line. Anyone so much as touches any of my art supplies or one of the few heirlooms I still have after the house fire we had in October, and their ass is mine. I'm a second degree gold belt, if you mess with me I do know several ways to make you regret it-a few of them that will make you regret it the rest of your days. Your fiance needs to get his stuff out of that house, especially the valuable stuff. ALL of his collectibles should be packed and taken to you or his own mother immediately, and any of his medical supplies he needs that he can't take anywhere else for storage because he needs them so often need to be put in a locked case of some kind that only he has a key to.

Long story short, he cannot allow this to continue. He needs to do whatever he needs to to put a stop to them messing with him. If it means completely abandoning his father, who has clearly lost any sense of morality he has, then so be it. A father like that doesn't deserve him anyway.

[Miss_Stress]

Well, she HASN'T gone to the police but she did go up to the house and remove the cat from their house. The cat came to them as a stray kitten and has been there for 15 years. Whilst my fiance's brother and his girlfriend were visiting the house, they saw the Harpy's grandson slap the cat and try to stamp on its head! Before you even ask, no he was not admonished by Harpy or fiance's dad in any way, shape or form. My fiance's brother's girlfriend told him off, and proceeded to phone my fiance's mother and told her that the cat was still being treated badly (it is not the first time the grandson has hit the cat and treated it badly), so she drove to the house when she knew Harpy was at work, spoke to my fiance's father briefly, and took the cat to live with her.

[Jester]

It became so bad that my fiance's mum's friend had to drag her inside for her own protection, and she stayed there most of the night out of fear for her safety. My fiance is fuming, and begging her to go to the police as I write this.

The friend should have called the police right then and there. Not only for the disturbance of the peace, but because of the fact that Fiance's Mom was fearing for her safety, which tells me the daughters were probably threatening physical action against her.

The gene-pool needs more chlorine.

In this case, I was thinking more along the lines of sulfuric acid.

[morgana]

Were I fiance's mom's friend, I would be calling the police myself. In fact, I did so the one time my roommate's son's drug-addled bitch ex-girlfriend showed up on my roommate's sidewalk to yell.

In addition to calling the police, FM and her friend need to talk to the neighbors about witness statements. And a restraining order to keep these . . . people . . . off friend's doorstep.

And FM might want to consider having a legal-delivery company make drop-offs like that from now on. The sort of folks who deliver summonses and that sort of thing.

Yeah, such a class act the Dad, the Harpy, and the Harpy's family have become. The gene-pool needs more chlorine.

[Seshat]

When she drove away, his dad's fiance's daughters followed her to her friend's house, and proceeded to shout abuse at her and scream at her in the street. All the street heard, including the friend's three disabled children. It became so bad that my fiance's mum's friend had to drag her inside for her own protection, and she stayed there most of the night out of fear for her safety. My fiance is fuming, and begging her to go to the police as I write this.

Oh what lovely, well-behaved, classy women those 'daughters' are.

[Miss_Stress]

**MASSIVE UPDATE**

We've just had a phone call off my fiance's mother. She went to the house where my fiance used to live to post some legal documents through the letter box. When she drove away, his dad's fiance's daughters followed her to her friend's house, and proceeded to shout abuse at her and scream at her in the street. All the street heard, including the friend's three disabled children. It became so bad that my fiance's mum's friend had to drag her inside for her own protection, and she stayed there most of the night out of fear for her safety. My fiance is fuming, and begging her to go to the police as I write this.

[Rapscallion]

It's fine to state what the laws are. When it's what the laws should be, that's fratching

Miss Stress is in the UK and I think both parties need to consent over here, but I could easily be wrong.

Rapscallion

[EricKei]

Be very careful about this. Check your state laws. In some states (Maryland for example) it is illegal to record some one without their consent.

Aye. Hence my "if legally permitted" caveat. I know better to discuss the laws themselves here ^_^ tho if it is allowed, it could come in handy.

[Sapphire Silk]

O_O

By any chance, might your fiance or his Mom own a small, pocket digital or tape data recorder? Having such a thing in Record mode any time they are around his Dad or NewPartner, either live or on the phone (if legally permitted), might be a good idea. If NP's threats had been caught that way, it could go a long way towards proving any theoretical case against her.

Be very careful about this. Check your state laws. In some states (Maryland for example) it is illegal to record some one without their consent.