Very Complicated Situation.

[Miss_Stress]

His mum won't let him move in the pair of them seemed to have calmed down a bit now actually so I'm hoping that's the end of it.

[morgana]

Updates? Please?

[Miss_Stress]

Not out yet, but he's meeting his mum tomorrow in the hope she'll let him move in with her. When he's asked before she's been very...sketchy about it, but I'm hoping she'll let him move in with her. He can't stay at my house because there's no room.

[Zellie Crescent]

Update please, we're dying to hear wether or not he's out of the house and out of their lives yet.

[RootedPhoenix]

AUGH.

Okay...I...I.

Get him, his stuff, his meds, and get him OUT.

Because this is not going to get better. If your fiance doesn't leave, he's giving unspoken approval for this BS, and I don't think that is something he really wants to do.

Shove everything that boy owns into a box and get him and his stuff out. This is no time for hoping this situation will improve at that house. IT WILL NOT DO SO. GET HIM OUT.

[Becks]

I'm surprised Dad and partner haven't changed all the locks yet.

[morgana]

My advice, such as it is:

1. Get everything of fiance's that will fit in your place into your place, like, yesterday.

2. Fiance goes to mom's and stays there, even if he has to use a sleeping bag.

3. Grandma puts her money into finding you kids a place to live together.

4. Write DoucheDad and BimboBitch out of your lives.

I'm sorry you're having to go through this.

[tollbaby]

If he doesn't get his stuff out of there pronto, he may find that Superbitch (to borrow Jester's name for her) has gotten rid of everything. As he has a medical condition which requires regular medication, he might want to keep that with him at all times. Yes, Insulin has to be refrigerated, but this guy needs to get out of there now. Tell him to start sleeping on his mom's couch tonight, if need be, and help him get as much of his stuff out of the house as possible.

[tropicsgoddess]

Holy Shit! That partner of fiance's dad is a fucking raving psychotic bitch! Uber Bitch is the more apropos title for her. All the others posted in some great advice I agree with and I'm happy your fiance stood up to his dad and Uber Bitch and reported it. I hope something will come of it after he reported the threat to his mom from the cops and/or solicitor.

[Miss_Stress]

Hi Jester, he followed it through and reported it, but the police said that because the threat wasn't made directly to his mother, they couldn't do anything, and that in any case his mother would have to report it herself before they could take any action if the threat was made directly to her

With regards to the solicitor, he left a message and his number with the receptionist and the solicitor has since called him back and listened to what my fiance had to say, thanked him for the information, and said he would get in touch with my fiance's mother to discuss it.

[Jester]

Clap.

Clap.

Clap.

Clap.

About fucking time. I just hope he follows through. If he doesn't, he's a complete puss. If he does, good for him....but he should start packing. Actually, he should have started packing a long time ago with this ridiculous bullshit, but whatever.

About. Fucking. Time.

[Miss_Stress]

Got yet ANOTHER update :/

Last night, another threat was made to fiance's mother, and my fiance snapped. Big time. He screamed at his dad and partner, told them they were both disgusting and that he's going to the police AND his mother's solicitor to report what's happened. Of course, his father went mad and said if he did that he wouldn't have a home. Fiance said he didn't have much of one now, so what did he have to lose?

Fiance will be outside the solicitor's office at 9am this morning, after he's been to the police station. All I can say is, it must have been a bad threat for him to blow up like this.

EDIT: Jester, I've just seen your post, and as always you said everything I want to and more. He's well aware that they're several dozen sandwiches shorter than a picnic, and until last night he's done nothing about it :/ I don't know if it's because he's got the threat of being thrown out or what, but apparently enough was enough last night and now he no longer cares about what happens.

[Jester]

They planned to ambush her and beat her up?

Seriously?

And they are not in junior high?

Okay, if this is not enough to tell your fiance that he needs to (A) take a stand and (B) get the fuck out of there, I am not sure than anything will be. This is utterly ridiculous. I mean completely, totally, utterly ridiculous. His father and his father's girlfriend are plotting to BEAT UP his mother, and he still can't get it through his fucking head that they are completely fried in the head?

Fuck it. Enough. I wash my hands of this situation. Not only do I think that your fiance is a fucking cowardly wimpy spineless douchebag, I suspect he really isn't worthy of you, if he is going to be this much of a castrated asswipe.

He either needs to grow some fucking balls, or find a woman more on his level. And I would suggest looking in crack houses for that. Seriously, if he won't take a stand after THIS, he is not worth your effort, your attention, your time, or your love.

I actually want to punch him in the face for being this much of a motherfucking pussy. Douche.

Yes, I'm angry. Sue me. I am very fucking angry. But can you blame me? If someone told me they were going to beat up my mother, I would crack them over the fucking skull with the nearest blunt object. You touch my mother, you fucking die. Period. End of story. And this douchewaffle is going to sit idly by while these two cumstains go after his mom? Seriously? This man is a COWARD, a PANSY, a scrotumless cocksucking asshole. If he does nothing, if he just allows this to continue and says or does nothing, he deserves every lousy thing he gets. This is such utter bullshit. This is a man that I would not even have a drink with. I would not drink in the same bar as him. Because, if he lets this atrocity stand, he would not be not worthy of my time, and he would not be worthy of yours. Completely revolting.

Fuck him.

[Zellie Crescent]

That's terrible, she should do something. Isn't her new partner that bitchs ex? Try to get him to talk some sense into "dad". As for fiancée's stuff my friend Sean had something happen to his video games, his dad was recovering from some kind of surgery and his aunt stayed with them. He came home one day and she was loading his games into a trash bag he asked her what she was doing and she told him she didn't like him wasting his money on that crap and that he should study, he put all the rest of his gaming stuff in the bags and brought the bags over to I V's house till she was gone. But I have a terrible felling that bitch isn't gonna be gone for a long time, get his stuff out now.

[Miss_Stress]

That bitch is poison, you should find out if there's a time when the "dad" and super bitch aren't there and get all of his collectables and stuff out of there. He might be living there with bare walls for a while, but it will be better to know that the bare walls are there because of him and not that bitch. Better yet go over there NOW, like RIGHT NOW! Don't even finish reading this. And you should call the cops because that could be premeditated assault.

His mother won't call them :/ God alone knows why but she won't call and report this.